Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

During the nightime my dad drinks like 4 glasses of wine and is really weird and affectionate and he yells at me and my brother if we leave one scrap of anything on the ground. Then he'll cry if we yell at him. Once he got so mad he threw a scooter at my brother when he was 10! (We're now 13 and 16) He missed thank god But whenever i try and talk to him about it he denies he gets drunk and gets upset with us for accusing him of it and changed the subject and goes on drinking every night. I love him during the daytime but night time i hate him! What should i do?

2007-03-18 12:49:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm 15 getting ready to turn 16 and I'm looking for a girl who Is 15 or 16 who lives in or around scottsburg, Indiana

2007-03-18 12:48:58 · 2 answers · asked by tbcab3 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in the bronx with my mrother and father i asked my father for a phone he said yes but my mother said no because she said the last phone she bought me i lost it.

2007-03-18 12:47:14 · 23 answers · asked by C@rzy 8 m 1 in Family

My husband is really not "into" me any more. Sex life is only if I initiate and even then it is really quick. He sometimes has the ole ed problem, too. He is NEVER affectionate, we rarely kiss each other, he has the husbandly shell, but does he really enjoy anything I do or is really into me, I say no.
I caught him on a gay site about 2 years ago and as far as I know, he hasn't been on it.
I know men that are actually into women show some form of testerone, as in "get naked" and ready for sex, but my husband has never displayed a desire for me and I am no dog. Not to sound stuck up or anything but I am cute, not really overweight, I have always been told I am gorgeous by other people. I just don't think my husband notices me at all.
I have had men show interest in me, but my husband does not demonstrate this same "testerone" at all.
He likes nice clothes, decorate, candles, bubble bath, etc. He is always afraid someone will see him looking bad. Is he gay but too afraid to admit

2007-03-18 12:46:46 · 12 answers · asked by Jinglenut with bananas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i have a bf that lives 6 hours away from me. i LOVe him a lot but sometimes i jus cant trust him. we have plans to move in together soon like in 5 months or so. BUT i've been talking to a friend for like a month and he is a real sweet heart w/me. i know he likes me cause he told me a lot of times already. He lives close to me and we go out to dance sometimes on weekends... my bf is a sweet heart too but sometimes his mom gets mad at me. she doesn't like me very much she even told me that he had another girl and i told him and he said that she just said that cause she doesn't want us together. so i believed him.... my parents don't like him for me either......
so what do i do????
should i give my friend a chance and leave my bf? OR should i stay with my love and don't listen to anyone's thoughts and be happy with mi amor????
please give me good advice!

2007-03-18 12:46:15 · 4 answers · asked by cristina 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 12:45:57 · 11 answers · asked by ncpmt24 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine has just found out that the guy she is seeing is living with a new girl. He doesn't know she even knows. She is keeping that info to herself for some reason, even though its killing her. She loves this guy more thatn anything, but she can't deal with this info. I think she should tell him....What does everyone else think?

2007-03-18 12:45:29 · 15 answers · asked by uask4it1_99 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have started receiving emails from someone who says they saw my profile on msn, then they said yahoo, but have been very vague. I really suspect this is not what it is cracked up to be and just want to see if there is anyway I can figure out if it is someone tricking me. Any Suggestions?

2007-03-18 12:45:23 · 3 answers · asked by Ireland 1 in Singles & Dating

Jessica Simpson signed the contract with her dad . and if you know what i am talking about please tell me the website and where i go

2007-03-18 12:44:39 · 4 answers · asked by SurfingBlonde 1 in Family

Well you see I am a wide user of many types of drugs (nothing too hard such as heroin and what not) but I am a user of Marijuana and some other pharmaceutical pills. I still live with my parents and the other day I found a bottle of Xanax (.5 mg) bars and I've always been curious about Xanax. The bottle wasn't empty but only had about 18 bars left and I stole 5 of them... I'm scared my parents are going to find out about the missing tabs, maybe they won't, but if they do what's a good lie to tell them about how they are missing? They suspect that I do some drugs but they don't really mind it, my brother is 19 and always does pills (especially Xanax) and I would say maybe he took them, but he doesn't live here anymore and hardly ever visits.

and don't tell me I need help, because I have alot of self control and don't view my drug use as a problem at all.

thanks

2007-03-18 12:44:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-18 12:44:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy at school and his g/f broke up with him and I REALLY like him but I dont want to like him cause I got mad at him once and he still thinks I mad at him which I'm not anymore.. (well a little bit) and i want to flirt with him so what should I do??? I'm only in 5th grade.... He's soo HOT and popular and his g/f was my ENEMY...

2007-03-18 12:44:00 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a 21 year old college student. I am Chinese but most people think that I am mixed. In the past I have had many oppurtunities with Asian girls but unfortunately I do not find them the least bit attractive. I have been attracted to white girls ever since I can remember. However, I feel like white girls become standoffish towards minorities, especially Asians. I get the feeling that caucasian girls think Asian guys are extremely weird, like they have some kind of disease or something. I have never had any sort of friendship with a Caucasian girl before. Is there something I need to do to make them warmer towards Asians? What is a caucasian girl's perspective of an Asian guy? Is he automatically strange and unapproachable because he is Asian?

2007-03-18 12:43:55 · 7 answers · asked by jenzwatt 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 12:43:40 · 4 answers · asked by beedo 1 in Singles & Dating

not that i have been even in a relashonship!!! LOL!

2007-03-18 12:43:39 · 23 answers · asked by Nicole H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok ladies, i have a question for you. if you were to break up with a guy that you really loved and then over the next few months you started to see a lot of changes in him that he has made for himself and it turns out that he wants everything in a relationship that you do, do you think that you would regret it if you didn't give him another chance? Do you think that you would always be having these "what if" feelings and wondering what could have been if you didn't give him another chance? Just so you know we didn't have any problems with drugs, abuse, alcohol, or anything like that. it was mostly a little lack of communication and getting into a rut. So under these circumstances would you give a guy another chance if he has really changed and wants everything in a relationship you do?

2007-03-18 12:41:23 · 13 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1 in Singles & Dating

ok a long time ago my friend and i were talkin like a day after the school dance. i am the type of guy that does not like to go to dances but my friend wants me to go. so i promised i would go to the next dance. and now its almost the next dance but i dont wanna go. but i promised. so should i go?

2007-03-18 12:40:57 · 12 answers · asked by Person 2 in Friends

I have recently been seein my ex g/f alot,staying ova n sleeping together.we split up for me generly not being thee 4 her and hlping her when i should of been.Wecant seem to leave each other lone no matter how much we try,she has a littleboy who worships mr and me likewise.
I have stayed round haring her bed 4 the last 5 wk ends and we have slept 2gether several times.I wat us 2 b togeher again permanently i do love her so much.she says she dosent know if she wants t b with me like that again as she feels differenty now butthat she does want to and is trying to feel differently an she dosent wnt anyone else that if she wantsanyone its me.
I took her little boy out motheres day shopping then w spent the afternon with her parents before goig back to her house.
I feel so confused about what to do and how to win her back as she is the love of my life? lease can any1 help me? do i keep trin as i do love her so much or just leave it? any ideas or views of wats happening would b great.

2007-03-18 12:40:24 · 5 answers · asked by ANDY j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm currently with this guy for abt 3months. i felt insecure with him. When he speaks, i tends to feel that he doesnt care about things i'm doing. He says things like "what ever","up to you","see how" He seldom tell me that he loves or misses me. Maybe once in a blue moon.But he kept telling me that he might not treat me as good as how he treated his ex-gf. As he had a great fall when his with her. He also ask me not to treat him so well as he can't repay me back. But the problem is i never want anything in return. His quite popular among girls.He needs space for his work and once he made up his mind, no one can change it.I used to stick to my ex but now i'll find stuff to occupy my time, instead of calling him or meet up with him. Every sentence he say to me i took it to heart. But ended up hurting myself upon hearing those.I broke off with my previous cos of him. Should i hold on to him? Is he still thinking about his past? Is he just playing with me? How can i improve

2007-03-18 12:39:54 · 4 answers · asked by MissyVal 1 in Singles & Dating

please i need help

2007-03-18 12:39:53 · 13 answers · asked by RICK 1 in Marriage & Divorce

don't say grab her and have sex

2007-03-18 12:39:48 · 4 answers · asked by blah 3 in Singles & Dating

he told me that he wants to be friends so we can get to know each other better. but i dont like the idea because we have been rocky for the past few days. and it seems to late because we have kissed and been really close and now its gonna be awkward. i dont think this is gonna work and im very reluctant to try.

2007-03-18 12:39:19 · 5 answers · asked by LuvaBaby08 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and a friend were talking in class one day about how this guy has the most amazing smile you've ever seen. And how he smiled at me just before I walked into class and it was the greatest feeling in the world. Now, while this conversation was going on, my crush (not the smiley guy) was sitting a couple seats away. After this conversation, he stopped talking to me for like 2 weeks. Is he jealous and is it possible he likes me?

2007-03-18 12:37:11 · 11 answers · asked by unoulvme 2 in Singles & Dating

well i feel attrack to this guy and he has a girlfriend but he is attrack to me too, and we want to hang out and you know to make out.. just that is it okay??
I kow i am being a ***** but i like him and he likes me too and i don't see any problem
advice please

2007-03-18 12:37:05 · 16 answers · asked by Talis 4 in Singles & Dating

If you are the rebel in your family, how so?
+Does it impact your family positively or negatively?
+Have you ever had major fights b/c other family members disagree with you passionately?

If you aren't, who is and how so?

2007-03-18 12:36:55 · 16 answers · asked by YSIC 7 in Family

There's this girl that I like and she's on myspace. We're friend online at myspace now, and have met once before just for a short time. I don't have her number or anything, and I think that she's single (should i ask her if she is? just to double check? ). How can I ask her out sometime... like to a cafe place or whatever.. Should it be over myspace or ...should i have her number.. What should I do in this sitution? I like her,,, a lot...

2007-03-18 12:36:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My divorce will be final in 3 weeks. My ex has been telling me she meet someone and is in love which is fine. The other day I emaild her I wouldnt have any more contact with her but she could call me and say Hi anytime she wanted. She called right away. The day after she insisted I sign our final papers and she would turn them in on the due date. I agreed but told her I would sign only after getting stuff that was agreed would be returned to me. That day she inisted I sign first and I would receive my stuff later. All of this started the day after I quit whinning I wanted her back and let her know I was happy she found someone.. She has now inisted I have stuff that belongs to her, which we both know I dont (She couldnt even describe items) and today we were suppossed to meet to return my stuff and sign the paper. She called to cancel. Its seem she is putting off giving my stuff back because after that she would have no reason to contact me. Anyone have an idea on her behavior?

2007-03-18 12:36:22 · 5 answers · asked by PuckDog 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ushers and groomsman ?

2007-03-18 12:36:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i like this boy named quinton and we have been talking for a while! i asked him if he liked me as a friend or as something else and his answer was i dont know right now! i was wondering if that was a good thing because he didnt say no but he didnt say yes which kinda got me confused! then i asked him do you ever know what you want, because he never has a complete answer its always i dont kno or maybe! how can i get him to say that he likes me with a complete answer and not just a i dont know! because i dont want to be wasting my time waiting on this guy to give me an aswer!

2007-03-18 12:35:42 · 10 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Soo I'm 16 and i had sex with my boyfriend.we have been going go since 4th grade.and my brother who is 14 heard me talkinng about it on the phone with my boyfriend and I don't know if he is going to tell my parents.What can I do i need help

2007-03-18 12:35:34 · 3 answers · asked by ♥Brittany♥ 1 in Singles & Dating