i like this boy named quinton and we have been talking for a while! i asked him if he liked me as a friend or as something else and his answer was i dont know right now! i was wondering if that was a good thing because he didnt say no but he didnt say yes which kinda got me confused! then i asked him do you ever know what you want, because he never has a complete answer its always i dont kno or maybe! how can i get him to say that he likes me with a complete answer and not just a i dont know! because i dont want to be wasting my time waiting on this guy to give me an aswer!
2007-03-18 12:35:42 · 10 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think he just doesn't want to hurt your feelings... so he doesn't want to be straight forward with you. He might have a small crush on you, and is undecided on if he wants to pursue something with you yet.. all you can do is wait for him to make up his mind!! but, i know how that is, so.. don't get to emotionally attached to this guy. he might be playing with you... and that causes a lot of problems for you in future relationships... like trust issues. so just act like nothing happened and start paying attention to a guy that deserves it.. and isn't so immature!! ;)
love always.. Britt
2007-03-18 14:16:52 · answer #1 · answered by Britt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm only guessing here, but you both are in high school? I would say that he's either afraid of committing to you or he's trying to find out if he really likes you or not.
Some guys rush into things and they end up in disasters, some like to "feel things out" awhile before making a committment. Give him some credit, maybe he justs want to make sure prior to making a commitment to you. Would you rather he rush into it and try leave you next week?
Giving you my 3 cents and taking my 2 pts
JW
2007-03-18 12:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds 2 me like he really loves u chasing him,if he didn't like u he would tell u but as he wont answer straight i would say 2 him sorry i was hassling u 4 an answer we will just be friends i'm happy with that,and he probably will hate the fact that u moved on-hopefully u should get a straight answer after that good luck!
2007-03-18 12:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well being a guy I can tell you that if he really likes you he would tell you so. If he doesnt like you than he may give a incomplete answer so not to hurt your feelings. Unless hes playing games and if he is playing games and your not than its time to move on.
2007-03-18 12:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time waiting. Go out with someone else...if he's smart, he'll come around. Us girls need to stop wasting our time on guys that don't know what the heck they want.
2007-03-18 12:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by YaShen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not what a man says that concures his interest in you, it's what he does. Does he take you out? Does he call? Does he ask about you? Does he keep in contact? You know when a man likes you just like you know when a man does'nt. like you. Good luck.
2007-03-18 12:41:03 · answer #6 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something or someone else to be interested in, even if it's a sport or babysitting, or your schoolwork.
If he tries to get your attention back, tell him you know why--he likes you! If he doesn't care about your other interests, drop him.
2007-03-18 13:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a shy one. It looks like you'll need to make the first move or nothing between you will ever happen. If he doesn't like you, then drop him. You don't want a wuss anyway.
2007-03-18 12:39:29 · answer #8 · answered by Honesty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isn't ready to give you a yes or no question yet.. be patient and his feelings will surface eventually. you can't force someone to like someone so..you need to wait..but if its like four months and he won't answer then he might just be playing you.
2007-03-18 12:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HES A PLAYA!
2007-03-18 12:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋