ok ladies, i have a question for you. if you were to break up with a guy that you really loved and then over the next few months you started to see a lot of changes in him that he has made for himself and it turns out that he wants everything in a relationship that you do, do you think that you would regret it if you didn't give him another chance? Do you think that you would always be having these "what if" feelings and wondering what could have been if you didn't give him another chance? Just so you know we didn't have any problems with drugs, abuse, alcohol, or anything like that. it was mostly a little lack of communication and getting into a rut. So under these circumstances would you give a guy another chance if he has really changed and wants everything in a relationship you do?
2007-03-18 12:41:23 · 13 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would definitely give him another chance!
2007-03-18 12:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by linka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Starting a relationship is not easy.
I think that you have a lot on the ball and would be an asset for any girl.
Don't be too hasty. Be neat and clean. Don't rush things.
Communicate the faults, very tactfully, that both of you have.
If she is receptive, and you are what you say you are, I see nothing but a very good relationship!
You are a very lucky person. Most people on this site are very immature.
You sound good to me... I ain't a lady....but I am more like her father!
I'm sure that you will get all kinds of answers from the wanna be girls that don't have the foggiest idea of what relationship is.
Good luck to you.
Bob P.
2007-03-18 19:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by bob P11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. We would have to talk about why we broke up in the first place and have a better line of communication, so that we don't have to repeat the same mistakes.
However, if the changes on his part were only a ploy to get me back then I would break up with him again because I don't like being made a fool of.
2007-03-18 19:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by duncanchild7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be scared to. A few months isn't long enough for someone to fix things that would make me call off a relationship in the first place. It would have had to have been pretty major stuff. I may, but it would take more than a few months for me to feel safe about it.
2007-03-18 19:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by sandibum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I felt in my heart that he was my true love. Then I would not have broken up with him to begin with. If She had felt only love for him she would have been willing to work through the problems. Many people forget about true values these days. If your willing to set someone free then it wasn't right. I would not get back with someone I had left, but then again I am a different kinda girl when it comes to issues of the heart.
2007-03-18 19:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would totally give him another chance. Leaving is like saying, well I gave you a chance and you blew it, but if they fix it I would date him again. Then I would be wary for a little while though, to make sure he stayed that way. Good luck!
2007-03-18 19:45:35 · answer #6 · answered by Julia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him another chance because it really can't hurt to try again. What do you really have to lose? Take him back... but always be vigilant so if he starts getting back to his old non-communicative ways, or you get bored of the relationshipo, you should break it off.
2007-03-22 19:14:55 · answer #7 · answered by Laura C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah maybe it may depend on how deep her feelings were to begin with, how things were left when she broke up with the guy, what the reasons or problems for breaking up in the first place were. id say she would give him another chance
2007-03-18 19:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely give him another chance, I would beat myself down for months if I didn't. Everyone deserves a second chance.
2007-03-18 19:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by Angel*Eyesz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! if i really loved him i would i'm in a long distance relationship and its hard right now but i love him so much i will do anything to work things out and i think if she really loves you she'll give you another chance! good luck
2007-03-18 19:46:23 · answer #10 · answered by tine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Iwould give him another chance. Because he shows signs of regret for whatever happened. Beleive me the expert.
2007-03-18 19:44:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋