Family & Relationships - 18 March 2007

there's this friend that i have and i really like him. he always dances with me and holds me and teases me and shows off in front of me... but i still cant tell if he likes me!

2007-03-18 13:01:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I live in AZ, but am in NY for work for a month. My work paid for a plane ticket for my girlfriend to come visit while Im here. She is supposed to come friday. Yesterday I get a text message from her saying "not going now" so i text, what do you mean. after an hour i get no response, so I ask again. No response. I try calling, no answer, so I text her saying I just want an honest response to what she means, and if she is not coming to visit me an explanation of why not. I deserve at least that much. She texts back "not doing this today, bye" we havent spoken since. What should I do? Is she cheating? Is she acting immature? I figure she will contact me when she gets over it, but im worried. Should I cut my losses and break up with her? Should I just wait for her to contact me? Should I try contacting her again? We have been dating only a month, but it has gone really well until now.

2007-03-18 13:01:04 · 13 answers · asked by Brian A 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-18 13:00:40 · 3 answers · asked by Hottie w/ a Bottie 1 in Singles & Dating

ok there is a kid in my grade that really likes my he flirts with me all the time and plays footsis with me (i try not to) i don't like him but i don't want to hurt his feelings since his mom is a drunk his dad is dieing from heart atacs and his brother dose anything to hurt him police are at his house almost ever other night i really don't want to hurt him so what do i do?

2007-03-18 12:59:42 · 22 answers · asked by blah 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it Normal?

2007-03-18 12:59:40 · 14 answers · asked by amit4daksh 1 in Singles & Dating

OK. Here's the deal. I am 46. My daughter is 12. I am divorced. I pay my wife nearly $1,000 in child support every month. The money is automatically deducted from my paycheque. Now, the judge has ordered me to pay more than 100% of my monthly income in child support, just because my ex asked for it. I know this sounds unbelievable, so I am willing to give you details if you want them. It is all a matter of public record, available in the courthouse.

My question to you is this: Will you pray for me? I am hoping the court will see its error and reduce my payments to a realistic level based on child support guidelines in the state of Florida (where my ex-wife and my daughter and I all live). I am hoping that where my prayers alone have gone unanswered, the prayers of thousands or even hundreds of others, on my behalf will not go unanswered.

2007-03-18 12:59:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anpadh 6 in Marriage & Divorce

are you usually more physically attracted to guys 18-23 years old or guys over 35? be honest.

2007-03-18 12:57:35 · 4 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

im in a relationship with a guy whos in grad school and im in grad school, 200 miles away.weve been dating for 4 mos, met while he was on winter break.we talk on the phone daily.weve had some past drama too, because hes not open with his feelings so i let it build and then let it out at once, because i always wonder if he really cares.hes hot and cold but busy with school.he said he doesnt feel physically attracted to me right now but it could change, but we're not single and hes still my bf, but i can be physical with other guys if i want.and that the focus on being physical was putting pressure on him.but that we have a real emotional connection, more than friends, and that we shud go with the flow, that i need to be more laid back.i did put pressure on things and do overthink things.and hes never had a relationship before.i just want to know if its me or him, is what hes asking unreasonable, im not planning to hk up w. other guys.i just want to feel comfortable with what we have.

2007-03-18 12:56:55 · 9 answers · asked by whatwouldyoudo 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is losing interest and is becoming unhappy and I don't want her to leave me because I love her so much.

How can I keep things interesting?

I really upset her at the semi formal dance on Friday.

I have probably less than a week before she just dumps me, what are things I can do while in school in between classes to keep her loving me?

PLEASE HELP, I love her way to much to ever lose her.

2007-03-18 12:56:53 · 9 answers · asked by DizzyThermal 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't know wut 2 do..she is mad..and then gets over it..and acts mad again...and she told me she hopes i die....wut should i do?....

2007-03-18 12:55:59 · 15 answers · asked by alisha_anne2000 2 in Friends

my problem is that i assumed to a girl that i liked her
but im very shy and did it by sms ( it was the first time i admit it to someone)
She was next to me in the classsroom, and i tried to say something to her
Then , in the next day the teacher change the sits, and she went to the sit behind me.
I send her more sms, saying that i dont like her and more stupids things, but in the valentins day i send her a letter saying that i love her.
we were suposed to meet alone in school to talk about this, but she said that she couldnt because she had to resolve one problem of a friend.
Since then we never more talked , and i have been ignoring her, and she ignoring me.
In the other day when u get out of class and there was only me, her and one friend of mine she started to look at me, and i just ignored her, and i just wanted to get out of there.
This is the whole history, but before of this we had a good friendship, i helped her a lot and she talked of all of her problems...

2007-03-18 12:55:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me n my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months. We are so in love n have talked about living together when we're older n evrythn.Hes 16 n Im 18. But recently he's told me he's just not totaly in2 al the serious stuff as much as he usd 2b.Thers so much goin on that he wants a bit of fun more than a life long serious commited relationship, and that when I told him about there's a time when the romance in the relationship dies, he guesses this is it.Wat do I do?Im so in love.Its tearing me apart! I only evn see him once/twice a week cos we live 20mins away by train so its not like he dusnt get enough space to himself! He hardly ever replies to my txts now wen he usd 2 al the time,but after sayn all hes said,hes still told me he loves me twice through txt n once on the phone.Is he away to break up with me? :( Hes not txt in 3 days,but hes bin soooo stressed and busy (I know, it's not excuses, I know!)So shud I txt him?Or leave him fora bit?N wat do I say,so it dont seem "2 serious." :(

2007-03-18 12:55:23 · 5 answers · asked by leaf 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you feel if the woman you wanna marry had a sexual relationship before ?????
does it matter for you guys ?????

2007-03-18 12:55:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

one of my friends are acting really weird , they have liked me since 4rd grade and its been a few years now, he says he likes another girls but he always says " i love you " to me then says he's joking about this, and no he hasn't said this to other girls. its really bothering me and i want 2 find out why he keeps on saying this.

2007-03-18 12:54:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-03-18 12:53:44 · 12 answers · asked by Ms. Q 5 in Family

were in teh same class and during class we kinda not look at eachother so it isint awkward.. but i kinda tend to look at her more then she does to me but im not sure if she looks at me or not, but ive caught her a couple times literally a couple.. she waits after class for me, we both do that ignore look thing.. and by the way we went to homecoming together and after homecoming it kinda blew away kinda.. and we hang out in the same group which consists of 2 guys including me and 3 girls

2007-03-18 12:53:33 · 3 answers · asked by teeteehenry12 1 in Singles & Dating

so there's this guy that is two years older and he's really sweet, nice, funny, fun to be around, etc, and we like each other, we both know that much. we talk just about every day, usually on instant messenger, and apparently he said a few weeks ago to one of our mutual friends that i was pretty but i didn't talk v. much so now we've been talking quite a lot and i think i've opened up more now. the only thing is, i have a suspision(sp.?) that he thinks i'm either 1. weird-with opening up comes out the real me-and i do say weird things sometimes, not a lot, but i worry he thinks im odd. 2. a 'younger sister type'-i hope not but i worry about that too! or 3. too desperate-i'm not exactly sure i come off that way, but again, i worry, and i just don't want him to think of me as pushy, etc. anyway, we're going on a class trip in a couple months, and i want him to ask me out there, or atleast kiss me. what should i do? {p.s. never had a bf or kiss before}

2007-03-18 12:52:58 · 3 answers · asked by aerie anna 3 in Singles & Dating

I just seems that once they hit 21, women care about sex, not emotions.

2007-03-18 12:52:55 · 3 answers · asked by fieroturbo 2 in Singles & Dating

ive heard orgasms can last for hours and sometimes the guy doesnt even *go*.... is any of this true? what can you tell me about it? is it like kamasutra?

2007-03-18 12:52:44 · 6 answers · asked by the_syco_t 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-18 12:52:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok well this guy alway talks to me at my locker but leaves when it is time for class
he also makes jokes with me and over the summer we hung out alot at his place
he is really shy and i THINK i am one of the only girls he talkes to

dose that mean he likes me?

2007-03-18 12:51:28 · 9 answers · asked by blah 3 in Singles & Dating

First this girl (who is the prettiest girl I have ever met) totally seemed to like me alot. She would look in my eyes talk to me and stuff. But it wasnt just flirting she would just ya know lite up when she saw me. She was just so openly happy around me. Now though she has gotten all different she doesnt look at me she acts all nervous she doesnt talk to me as much and she looks down when I am around also she doesnt ask any questions back when I talk to her he answers like normal but then she just looks away again. I dont know what to do. PLEASE HELP MY SORRY *** OUT!
Im 14. But me and her have such chemistry! And she is BEAUTIFUL! I swear to f***in god! She is prettier than anybody I've ever seen! Does she like me anymore? Is she just shy and nervous now? Please help!

2007-03-18 12:50:51 · 5 answers · asked by poo p 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm 12 and i weigh about 124 lbs and 5 '1 tall. there's this boy i like but i think i'm too fat. I need ideas on how 2 lose weight in about 2 weeks to at least 110 or 115 lbs. any tips

2007-03-18 12:50:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive heard orgasms can last for hours and sometimes the guy doesnt even *go*.... is any of this true? what can you tell me about it? is it like kamasutra?

2007-03-18 12:50:11 · 3 answers · asked by the_syco_t 2 in Singles & Dating

if a girl is fat a lot of people say no to go out wit a fat girl ill never go out wit fat girls fat girls are ugly i think medium people have buts and boobies thats cool skinny people do too but not a lot of them but its cool to have a skinny girl to be your girl friend becuz there hoter i think blonde girls r hotter than any thing how about u

2007-03-18 12:50:06 · 12 answers · asked by Shafiek A 1 in Singles & Dating

would you usually be more attracted to a guy who looks he's 17 or a guy who looks like he's 35? be honest.

2007-03-18 12:49:58 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband is 8 years older than me and I'm 25. We've been married for 4 and a half years. I had a son from a prior engagment and we have a little girl together. His mother still takes care of our finances and they have an account together, because he was in a car accident about 15 years ago. He goes to her for everything and keeps things from me and lies sometimes to me, and says it's for my own good like I'm some kind of child. He knows how bad it bothers me and we'll fight about it and he says he won't do it anymore but he still does. I feel like I can't take care of him like his mother can because I can't do a good enough job, like she can. They make decisions without me that should be made only between my husband and I. My biggest fear is hurting the kids by leaving because he is a great guy and an awesome dad, but he just don't listen to me. Any suggestion? Please help!!!

2007-03-18 12:49:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if you are friends with people of opposite sex, how would you know whether that person is asking you out or just wanted to chill with you as friends?
when you ask out someone, what do you do to make that distinction?

2007-03-18 12:49:50 · 2 answers · asked by rose 1 in Singles & Dating

Last September my wife got a new friend. They go out to parties together (I'm never invited). My wife tells everyone she's single. I tell everyone I'm married. She was with him till 2am so I called her as I was worried. She came in all angry saying that I spoiled her night. I was curious and puzzled so I checked her e-mail and I found a letter where Richard said that if he didn't see her for a week that he would DIE. I know friends don't talk like that. I wrote back stating that he can be a friend and go out with her with my best wishes but that she was my wife and I'd break his arms if he screwed her. I told my wife this very calmly and she went nuts and demanded a diviorce. She says that I'm crazy for doing this and that I could go to jail. She says that I am controlling for trying to prevent her from having friends. This is the first time I've ever spoken to any of her 'friends'. And I thought she was my wife and that I meant something to her. Am I crazy, controlling?

2007-03-18 12:49:41 · 23 answers · asked by honesty_counts 1 in Marriage & Divorce

should i just move on?...or try and get him back?

2007-03-18 12:49:34 · 7 answers · asked by alisha_anne2000 2 in Singles & Dating