Me n my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months. We are so in love n have talked about living together when we're older n evrythn.Hes 16 n Im 18. But recently he's told me he's just not totaly in2 al the serious stuff as much as he usd 2b.Thers so much goin on that he wants a bit of fun more than a life long serious commited relationship, and that when I told him about there's a time when the romance in the relationship dies, he guesses this is it.Wat do I do?Im so in love.Its tearing me apart! I only evn see him once/twice a week cos we live 20mins away by train so its not like he dusnt get enough space to himself! He hardly ever replies to my txts now wen he usd 2 al the time,but after sayn all hes said,hes still told me he loves me twice through txt n once on the phone.Is he away to break up with me? :( Hes not txt in 3 days,but hes bin soooo stressed and busy (I know, it's not excuses, I know!)So shud I txt him?Or leave him fora bit?N wat do I say,so it dont seem "2 serious." :(
2007-03-18 12:55:23 · 5 answers · asked by leaf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's 16 what do you expect? You are more mature in your thinking than he is right now. Let him mature a bit and see what happens.
2007-03-18 12:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by Leona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as much as it hurts you already know the answer to your ?. You are very intuitive and have picked up on his signs and it sounds like it's just a matter of time. If you really want to see if he's still into you....do NOT call or txt. The less interested you seem the more he will want you...I can promise you that.
Good Luck.
2007-03-18 13:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by XOJordanXO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 40 yrs old.i been in out of relation ships and a divorce.try to give him some space and that don't work talk to him in person and not by txt.if it is at the end brake up in person and not by the phone.my experience your too young too move in and play house.go to collage have fun and start a career.then start thinking about getting serious.trust me be better off this way.
2007-03-18 13:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by HFDMEDIC73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 16 there is no such thing a busy just looking and enjoying life the boy moved on, look for a more mature man and move on.
2007-03-18 12:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry if this sounds wrong, but he probably wants 2 break up with u...theres no other way to put it...anyways he's really immature...if he loved u he would never "get tired" of u and he would stick by your side no matter wat...but apparently he wants "more fun" in his life aka he just wants to get pusssy from other girls and shyt! **** him
2007-03-18 13:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by i ♥ EStEBAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋