Girlfriend acting funny, what should I do?

Question

I live in AZ, but am in NY for work for a month. My work paid for a plane ticket for my girlfriend to come visit while Im here. She is supposed to come friday. Yesterday I get a text message from her saying "not going now" so i text, what do you mean. after an hour i get no response, so I ask again. No response. I try calling, no answer, so I text her saying I just want an honest response to what she means, and if she is not coming to visit me an explanation of why not. I deserve at least that much. She texts back "not doing this today, bye" we havent spoken since. What should I do? Is she cheating? Is she acting immature? I figure she will contact me when she gets over it, but im worried. Should I cut my losses and break up with her? Should I just wait for her to contact me? Should I try contacting her again? We have been dating only a month, but it has gone really well until now.

Answer 1

I'd be suspicious, if there was a legit reason for her not to be able to come then she would have rang you and told you properly, somethings up there.
I'dbet on that she's found someone else or just doesnt like you that much now.

Answer 2

Move on without her. She doesn't sound very honest and mature enough for you. There's something going on and she should have least given an explanation as to why she would not be coming to see you.
Drop her (without explanation unless she contacts you), she was never into you in the first place. She sounds like more trouble than she's worth and not worthy of your time.

Answer 3

I know that you want to know what's going on with her, but she's obviously doesn't wanna talk about it right now, so I suppose you could give her some space for a few days.

And then try to contact her again.

Distance can put a lot of stress on relationships, and maybe she's feeling a little neglected while your away. And you have to put yourself in her shoes.

However, you do deserve to know what's going sooner or later. So maybe you should call her after few days.

Answer 4

If I were you I would not try to contact her. Let her be, she doesn't seem to be very nice to you and you do deserve a reason as to why she is no longer coming to visit you.

I would move on and find someone else - someone who is as in to you as you are to them. Is the relationship bf & gf or just dating?

If just dating see what happens - if bf & gf dump her a$$ your too good for her.

Answer 5

Put her on hold.while you go out and see what NY has to offer.You only have a month,so enjoy it.When you go back tell her you felt she needed a break thats the reason you dident pursue her not coming up.So now you know she is a very shallow person,take it from here.

Answer 6

Break up with her, any woman that acts immature like that, and definatyly has a lack of communication skills, just isn't worth it. Theres always more fish in the sea.

Answer 7

Dump her as soon as possible . . . it's plain to see that she doesn't respect you. Maybe she's cheating too. But even the disrespect is enough reason for you to break up with her. Good luck with the next one!

Answer 8

Dump her trust me you will be glad you didn't make a fool of yourself and try to get her back. She disrespected you, your a man right? well be one and never be disrespected or treated as #2 because your number 1.

Answer 9

i think maybe she is scared of planes and don't wanna tell you! then again its only been a month so she might be scared of the relationship.

Answer 10

just give it a time.. you don't really know what has happened, so just wait untill she contacts you. After she explains the situation then you will be able to make a better desicion. if to brake up or not.