My girlfriend is losing interest and is becoming unhappy and I don't want her to leave me because I love her so much.
How can I keep things interesting?
I really upset her at the semi formal dance on Friday.
I have probably less than a week before she just dumps me, what are things I can do while in school in between classes to keep her loving me?
PLEASE HELP, I love her way to much to ever lose her.
2007-03-18 12:56:53 · 9 answers · asked by DizzyThermal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can leave love notes in her locker and tell her that you love her. Nothing goofy, but just simply "I Love you" written on a pretty piece of paper.
If she has a cell phone, send her text messages or if you have a camera phone send her pictures of you making silly faces throughout the day.
When school is done for the day, call her and when she answers the phone say, "I was just thinking of you and wanted to hear your voice". And then just say, well good night, I love you and nothing more. Sometimes the less you say the more impact it has.
Send her a singing telegram or serenade her in front of her house. She really won't care if you can't sing, she will be more impressed that you are willing to make a fool of yourself for her.
And whatever you did to piss her off during the dance, talk to her about it and let her tell you how she feels. She may blow up but just humble yourself and listen. You're young and when you are in love with somebody, you will find a way to make it work.
Good luck
2007-03-18 13:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by duncanchild7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, I have a new, unique idea !!!
Why don't you sit down with her and talk to her about what is making her unhappy and sad. Is it something that you did or didn't do? Is is something that you said or didn't say.
Are you spending more time with your Friends than you are with her? Are you saying things to your friends that is somehow getting back to her?
Wake up and try talking to her...she can't read your mind.
2007-03-18 13:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant control her feelings for you. If she's losing feelings for you, it means you're not satisfying her needs and wants. Its just that maybe she feels that you're not the right one for her. Learn to move on when she breaks up with you. But do you know why is she losing feelings for you? You guys need to talk.
2007-03-18 13:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by =) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like it doesnt matter that much, maybe even talk to other girls a bit then she might realise she could lose you if she doesnt try harder to make your relationship work.. never let her think she's the one in control.
2007-03-18 13:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by zimba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you know you screwed up, then a really sweet apology would help, flowers maybe? And make sure you tell her you love her each and every second you can, she's lucky you care. -Hopelss romantic :(
2007-03-18 13:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Chey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push her! she may feel that you are suffocating her maybe you should apologize to her and ask her what you can do to make it up to her. If you do all these things to make her love you, you may irritate her so don't do anything until you find out what she wants.
2007-03-18 13:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is tell her just what you have said here. Then leave it alone. You cannot force anyone to be with you.
2007-03-18 13:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you give her enough space or are you always floating around her? Some people just need to have time on their own sometimes.
2007-03-18 13:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by MissCute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flowers, chocolate, date. that always helps the situation. interesting? go somewhere different for a date, have a night in, rent a crazy movie, etc.
2007-03-18 13:02:11 · answer #9 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋