Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

No, it's not, only if you believe everything must be the "same" if it is to be equal. People can have differences and be perfectly equal. If you do believe things must be the same to be equal then you are supporting the beliefs of RASCIM! Men and women are different, but equal.

Women must be able to CHOOSE to follow the man's lead with obedience, this takes both SKILL and CHARACTER (humility). However, the man must CHOOSE to put the woman first in return, even though he is the guide. (Just as a citizen serves his king so the good king can serve him ). What is the result? A beautiful, harminous art. The woman is the one who is actually "the main attraction", because the man giver her most attention (spins ect.). Both partners are part of a glorious team which shines with selflessness.

Both fulfill their different but equal parts.
Life should be like a ballroom dance.
Women would feel like women; good feeling.
Men would feel like men, that's an equally good, but dif. feeling.

2007-03-16 11:46:42 · 6 answers · asked by Gymnast 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my friend have the same crush on a cut dude but the problem is i talk to him more and she just stares at him. and i have another crush who is in the hospital and i really miss him. :(

2007-03-16 11:44:39 · 17 answers · asked by rockpuppy95 1 in Singles & Dating

by your hair is it ok to cut your self ?

2007-03-16 11:44:39 · 27 answers · asked by brooke t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why or why not? If you already know the guy....

2007-03-16 11:43:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Plans to move in with him this summer. Still has a semester to finish in college this fall. We feel this new love interest interferred in her failing class in college major and not graduating this May. How do we talk to her without her feeling resentful?

2007-03-16 11:43:34 · 11 answers · asked by merian32 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in a relationship and we are going through hard times... so well i want to know your oppinion on the meaning of love.

2007-03-16 11:43:02 · 14 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Singles & Dating

. He likes girls he just to have a girlfriend and they just to have sex but they broke up, that I know off, maybe he is laying?.I dont know what to do sometimes he talks to me sometimes he see me on the street. he dont talk to me he ignores me when he is alone or w/ his friends and sometimes he talkes to me. I do know that he became w/smoking mariguana everyday. sometimes we do sex and under the influence of the drug he smoke. he treats me good with the sex but after that he treats me good or he is someone else after all that. he do drinks too, and he gets very nasty and wants to fight we who ever wants to have beef w/him.The other day he was high on drugs and I ask him if we was going to have sex and he say no and I ask him if he needs money and he ignoresme and told me that he dont want nothing. I do want to know how I stand w/him. But I have told him the same situation over & over again and it looks like he dont care. I do care for him alot, I am male gay.Please I need your advise .

2007-03-16 11:42:52 · 9 answers · asked by racajo2000 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 11:42:41 · 14 answers · asked by Gigi 1 in Singles & Dating

ok heres why shes sad: were new to our town but we have friends that live near us so we made plans with them and now they had to cancel because the person had a buisness dinner party, and now shes all sad because she usaly doesn't have anything to do with her friends since we moved and she was really looking forward to that. how can i cheer her up?

P.S. and yes i'm the same person who put the girlscout troop bede thing and i just wanted to say IT HAD A HEAD BORD! but i guess i was wrong

please help me cheer up my mom!

2007-03-16 11:42:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-16 11:42:13 · 6 answers · asked by Tru 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Sister's getting married this October & I'm the Matron-of-honor.

She has requested no showers of any kind & they (my Sister & Brother-in-law to be) will be treating us (their family & friends) to a relaxing day at the spa the Friday before the wedding. They do not want a Bachelorette/Bachelor Party, a rehearsal dinner, bridal shower, reception...anything. They have also requested no gifts.

I would really like to throw her a lingerie party, but am not sure of it would be inappropriate for me to do so.

I have talked to my soon to be Brother-in-law & he has no objections to whatever type of party I would like to host for her, but I don't want it to look like I am doing something that I would want, rather than what she wants.

I don't think the issue is that they don't want a party...I think it's because most of their friends and siblings have kids & they don't want us spending money on them, when they can afford to buy their own things.

Any ideas, suggestions, comments?

2007-03-16 11:42:08 · 32 answers · asked by Leebert 3 in Weddings

I planed for a large wedding,however my mother died and had to get married in toledo,OH in casual attaire. Now I Have this wedding dress that i never worn ,,need to find a consignment store that deals in wedding gowns!! HELP!!!

2007-03-16 11:42:08 · 4 answers · asked by alohalilreddiva 2 in Weddings

I used to be flattered when girls fought over me, now it's not fun anymore. Especially when these girls are sisters. I don't understand you girls, why do you have to compete against each other so much? I've had three sets of sisters in the last few years mess up potential relationships to the point of putting down their own sister to get attention. I could see myself being with some of these girls that I liked for a really long time. I used to think it was cute, but it's not anymore. They try to make up, but that means I'm left in the dust, and I wasn't doing anything wrong. I'm hoping this doesn't happen again, but if it does, what do you suggest?

2007-03-16 11:42:02 · 17 answers · asked by #1bob 4 in Singles & Dating

Im already 21, and he's turning 21 on monday. I only have about $100 to take him out. What should I do to make a rememberable 21st birthday for him? I want it to be special and fun.

2007-03-16 11:41:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy in grade 8(i am in grade 7) and i wanna know how i can know whether or not he likes me. everytime we walk past eachother in the hall he stares at me. does this mean he is into me? please helpp!!!.!!!

2007-03-16 11:41:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like my best friend. but he likes to french kiss and i dont.

2007-03-16 11:41:07 · 21 answers · asked by bbygrl2k4 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister-in-law said we were going to shopping together. I asked her what time we leaving, she said "Anytime".

So, I went to take shower and Wash my hair which takes an hour. She then, sits downstairs yelling at me for wasting one hour of her life. I told her "My hair takes long time, you can go to shopping."

She then, yells at me for NOT telling her to leave me if I was going to be late.

Am I wrong or she's wrong?

2007-03-16 11:41:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I asked a question on here wanting friends and help because, my dad died when I was born, he betrayed us and then later he was found dead, and now my mum and my 14 year old brother died about a week ago. I asked a question about wanting friends and help for my situation because I was scared and really sad. These guys that said that they'd help me and be my friend, now think i'm lying when i'm not. One of the guys keeps calling me Gay when i'm not. They're making my situation worse, i was crying alot before, and now since they started up with me, i've been crying even more. I don't know what to do. I freak out at my sister and my 12 year old brother everyday, when I don't mean to, i'm just so sad. Why do people think i'm lying, because i'm not.

2007-03-16 11:40:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Like unplugging all the phones and be left alone...not talking to anyone. Or moving to a place where no1 knows you? Or have you felt like you wanted to be love and love to. Have you ever felt sad, mad crapy and tired and frustrated all at da same time. And the worst part is that you are just 14!!

2007-03-16 11:40:19 · 7 answers · asked by AfricasTLyric 1 in Friends

WE spend almost every day together and very obviously have a major connection. I't been five months and I haven't heqrd those sweet words "I love you" yet. Should i be worried. How long should it take, average?

2007-03-16 11:39:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, my mom always says I'm too young to date by myself! I'm 16, and most kids my age have been on plenty on plenty of dates without a parent! She's always telling me how close I am to being an adult and how I need to started acting like one, but yet she treats me like I'm still in the 7th grade! I find it hard to bring this up around her because she always gets mad about it and says that she isn't changing her mind. What can I say or do to convince her that I'm ready to date ALONE?? <3

2007-03-16 11:39:45 · 3 answers · asked by The Prep 4 in Singles & Dating

Our mother walked in the room and caught him...he had me stashed behind the dresser with no underwear....my father, (his step-father) physically beat the hell out of him and i was made to watch. He never really did anything major after that...we are now grown and have children of our own...My mother who has never believed my side of the story is trying to force me to develope a relationship with my brother and his family....The thing is i am not the only person he has done this to...i have SEVERAL cousins who went through it too...he has never admitted to anyone what he did to me and he has never apologized....I have forgiven him....but i cannot forget and i feel sorry for his children...i don't want to know them and worry for them....i have no desire to be a part of his life in any way...i don't love him...he is my mother's son and nothing more to me...how do i make my mother understand without hurting her...she is getting old and wants to see her children united

2007-03-16 11:39:30 · 24 answers · asked by backwoodscountrywoman 2 in Family

I cannot get my mind off my ex-boyfriend. I told him not to call me. He just was not ready for any thing really serious but still wanted me to be around. I was not wanting him to call me until he was ready but it has been over 2 weeks, i am hurting so bad. He did e-mail me last night just a funny joke, but that was it. Is he trying to communicate or just e-mailing to e-mail.

2007-03-16 11:38:44 · 6 answers · asked by Beutifulred10 2 in Singles & Dating

were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else

2007-03-16 11:38:36 · 25 answers · asked by d p 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 11:38:32 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, heres the thing..I have always had blonde hair(and eyebrows)..I'm wanting a change, and I'm thinking of dying my hair a light to medium brown, should I take this risk..?

2007-03-16 11:38:17 · 3 answers · asked by chrissy(noT) 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 11:37:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband told me if I do not lose weight he will divorce me. Since then he has said he will not leave me, but would be more 'comfortable in our marriage' if I were to lose weight. He says he looks at porn because I am overweight and he is not attracted to me. We have a 1 year old and I am pregnant right now with our second child.

2007-03-16 11:37:09 · 3 answers · asked by Dez 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and how do you make it last when you get one?

2007-03-16 11:37:05 · 17 answers · asked by jones1743 2 in Singles & Dating

im a 14 yr old teenager i dont think im ugly but for some reason i dont like meet new people and cant talk normally with anybody except my closer friends

2007-03-16 11:36:26 · 7 answers · asked by christian 2 in Singles & Dating