if your mother drags you up the stairs...?

Question

by your hair is it ok to cut your self ?

Answer 1

yes it is, as long as what your cutting is your hair.

Answer 2

It's never ok to cut yourself. That won't solve anything. That would be a very unhealthy decision. But just curious...why did she drag you up the stairs?

Answer 3

NO! Cutting yourself is a very dangerous act that become a very dangerous habit. Cutting is self-abuse. There's more going on here than just being angry over what your mom did. Tell someone you trust what's going on and try to get some help for yourself.

Answer 4

NO!!! I understand your pain, but cutting your self doesn't solve any problems it only leads to nasty scaring. Once I had a friend who would cut herself whenever she felt any emotional pain because she said it felt like a release. She now regrets ever cutting herself because she as ruined her beautiful skin. Cutting is a way of expressing your self, maybe try other ways to express your self. If someone hurt you emotionally you don't need to inflict any more pain on your self.

Answer 5

Its never okay to cut yourself or do any other self mutilation in order to regain control of yourself in any situation. Stop that, it is the cowards way out, just like drugs. Drugs are for ******* who cant get a real grip on reality, so are you a pussy for cutting yourself because you need to have control. This is what you need to do, kick the **** out of your sorry *** mother, dont kill her or anything, but definatly kick the **** out of her. And dont wait for her to abuse you again, do it now.

Because your mother is a piece of **** ***** who deserves an *** beating because she needs to take her anger or frustrations out on her kid. This is bullshit and you dont need to put up with that. By kicking the **** out of her you will gain back the confidence your sorry mom has taken from you, then you will be moved away from your mom until she gets the help she needs. Meanwhile you can get the help you need as well.

Do yourself a favor though and call 911 before you begin the attack, that way the police will be there in case she is the one kicking the **** out of you. Good luck and stop being such a whimp, she beats the hell out of you, so you need to beat the hell out of her. Take back you confidence.

Answer 6

its never ok to cut your self but i think that is child abuse to drag ur kids upstairs by there hair

Answer 7

no but i know how you feel. i am now 44 and have been through the same kind of thing. so i do know what I'm talking about.you really need someone to talk to you so you can get your questions answered properly child line is a good one or maybe your doctor i dont really want to give advise to someone who i know needs help more than i can give but any time you need to talk just leave a question god bless mary.

Answer 8

I would cut myself even if she were to drag me up by my shirt collar so, yeah, I think hair will be fine, too.
Yeah, go right on ahead.

You might want to drop a line to child services while you're at it.

Answer 9

i would suggest getting some help. i would tell your counselor at school(if ur still in school) or i would call the cops. your mother is definitely an abuser. i know u may be scared to tell someone that but you have to. Or else it will keep happening.

Answer 10

No,,dont put yourself through more grief than you already have.Take care of #1 & thats YOU! I promise things will get better when you are older OR change whatever that you dont like in your life now.That is abuse & she can be reported for doing that to you.Id go that root.Take care of yourself.I care.

Answer 11

NO WAY. if she abuses you, tell some one or speak to a counceler, but never cut yourself! it will hurt and will not help and you might end up dying. so, better to tell someone before doing something stupid.