. He likes girls he just to have a girlfriend and they just to have sex but they broke up, that I know off, maybe he is laying?.I dont know what to do sometimes he talks to me sometimes he see me on the street. he dont talk to me he ignores me when he is alone or w/ his friends and sometimes he talkes to me. I do know that he became w/smoking mariguana everyday. sometimes we do sex and under the influence of the drug he smoke. he treats me good with the sex but after that he treats me good or he is someone else after all that. he do drinks too, and he gets very nasty and wants to fight we who ever wants to have beef w/him.The other day he was high on drugs and I ask him if we was going to have sex and he say no and I ask him if he needs money and he ignoresme and told me that he dont want nothing. I do want to know how I stand w/him. But I have told him the same situation over & over again and it looks like he dont care. I do care for him alot, I am male gay.Please I need your advise .
2007-03-16 11:42:52 · 9 answers · asked by racajo2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you really want someone who treats you like this? Why are you letting this, selfish, ignorant, insensitive guy, use you as he sees fit? Are you so insecure, that you allow this type of behavior? If it was me, personally, I would rather be alone, than have a relationship(if you can call it that)with someone who does not respect me, or just uses me for their own self-satisfaction. Not only does he treat you like crap, but he is a nasty drunk, and abuses drugs. Pick just "one" of these awful things that he does, and that is enough reason to stop seeing him. This guy is only OK to you when he is high?, Please spare yourself from any more abuse, no one deserves to be treated like you are being treated. Go find someone who is caring , and appreciative.
2007-03-16 11:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with you? NO self esteem? Self confidence? You are living like a rat, low life, bum. Get off the drugs, alcohol, live right, stop living like a street urchin and a nice person will find you someday. Gay or straight you have to keep your sh_t together. There are wonderful people out there but they must have a mate that is worth being with not one that acts like garbage. Further your education, read a book, do something besides slither around the shadows and be a creep.
2007-03-24 16:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by lindalousmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear...this guy is obviously still in the closet and doesn't want to face the fact that he is gay. On top of that he is using you and your relationship sounds more like prostition to me, if you're offering him money when he declines to have sex with you. I would suggest that you move on and spare yourself because he's got a lot of issues to work out within himself before he could ever have a "relationship" with you...Save yourself some dignity.
2007-03-16 19:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by Andrea M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie this guy is using you for sex and money!!! do you really want to pursue a relationship where you are treated like ****!!! go find someone who is gonne respect you and love you the way you deserve. (and someone who can be open about your relationship if that is what you want) oh and lay off the drugs and anyone that has anything to do with them!!
2007-03-24 17:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by yahoo!Answers addict 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The guy is in the closet dude. He's Bi as well.
Drugs only allow him to be with you. Can you handle that. If not, drop the idea of getting him
2007-03-24 17:23:02 · answer #5 · answered by The ZUKE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell how u feel but if he does the same thig just leave cause someone really love u for who u are dont just let him use u cause u would be more happy with someone who loves u
2007-03-24 12:13:23 · answer #6 · answered by jasminwalker23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sex must be really good cuz other than that i dont see why your still bothering with this guy. im mot gay but i think you can find a better guy than that............if he really was your friend and you told him about the situation he would try to change to save you'll relationship......but instead he's thinking about his self.
2007-03-16 18:55:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds to me he is just using you for money and sex.... you don't need that.
2007-03-24 18:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by kelly k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so YOUR a guy and YOUR having sex with another GUY!!!?
hey, if it floats your boat!
2007-03-16 18:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋