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me and my friend have the same crush on a cut dude but the problem is i talk to him more and she just stares at him. and i have another crush who is in the hospital and i really miss him. :(

2007-03-16 11:44:39 · 17 answers · asked by rockpuppy95 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

one dude's name is joseph the one who me and my friend likes and she already knows and we tell each other everything and the one in the hospital is coming back next week and his name is adrian and i mostly like adrian yet i have a crush on joseph what should i do HELP!

2007-03-16 11:51:38 · update #1

17 answers

all is fair in love and war.

2007-03-16 11:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by J B 2 · 0 0

ahh, i just got out of that situation, but only because our crush got a girlfriend lol. I'd say the best thing to do is to, either let her find somebody else, or you could find someone else. But since you said that you talk to this guy more, i suggest that you go for it, you have the better chance, and she needs to accept that, or get moving herself. It's ok for both of you guys to have a crush on this guy, just as long as neither of you start something serious because thats when the drama starts, TRUST ME!. If she really is your best friend, you NEVER want to put a guy first, make sure you guys always have each other's back, there are plenty of guys out there, this one isnt worth it.!!!

good luck

ciao

2007-03-16 11:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by fuzzy19 3 · 0 0

Well its your choice: either you go for hospital boy, or go for cute dude. If you know you really REALLY like Cute dude, then you can make a joke out of it with your friends and say "hey! let's say who gets Him first!" Then maybe she won't take it too emotionally and she'll be more outspoken and not just stare at him-- that is unless she's not REALLY emotional. If you know that'L hurt her feelings, then just give her a serious talk and tell her how you feel. You can even write her a note. Start out be saying "Hey, I know we both like the same guy, and I don't know how much you like him, but I have alot of feelings for him. I understand if you do too, but I want to be with him so bad. I hope you understand." and hopefully she will.
IM or email me if you have questions on getting him before you proceed with this pep talk. There are certain procotions get a boy to ask you out. Anyway, if you want Hopsital Boy, then wait for him to get outta the hopspital, then email me o i can tell you wat to do.
Good Luck!!!!

2007-03-16 11:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by kemi0101 2 · 0 0

Who do you care about more your best friend or the cute dude? If you think that your would be better for the guy then your friend would be make a move. Only do this when you know what a HUGE risk your taking. You could kill your relationship with your friend and the cute guy.

2007-03-16 11:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by Beth S 2 · 0 0

Well you could have two,but let your friend have one and you go for the guy you miss and is in hospital,by leaving your friend space she may get talking,maybe she feels out of her depth with you doing all the talking,so be kind and give her that chance.

2007-03-16 11:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You could either take the one in the hospital and you should let whoever liked the cute dude first

2007-03-16 11:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by G-Uniter 4 · 0 0

Well talk to your friend about it, seriously.

But if you have another crush, then it's evidently not that big of a deal. Just go visit the guy in the hospital.

2007-03-16 11:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by Mike K 5 · 0 0

Sisters before mrs. sweetie. You have to decide is this guy worth your friendship and if you were a goud friend the answer would be no. Its sounds liek your middle school or high school so right now you need your friends way more than any guy. Also most likely your relationship with this guy will be shorter than the one you already have with your friend. I have been there. The guy i'm going out with now my friend liked but he asked me out and i liked him to. She surprised me and is actually really excited where going out.
I hope your friend is understanding!!!!

Good luck :]

2007-03-16 11:49:41 · answer #8 · answered by Micro spice 3 · 0 0

The most important thing is to let your friend know stat. Also let him know that you like him BUT NEVER FLIRT WITH HIM WHEN SHE IS AROUND. Talk to your friend about it say "who ever he choices we will still be friends promise?" Also friends have a tentedesy to like who your friends like. If she catches you looking at another cute guy she will develop another crush of her own trust me.

2007-03-16 11:54:24 · answer #9 · answered by Kayla 2 · 0 0

Hi .Its because ur head n heart do not go together. Thats why u are confused.Weakness is somewhere with u n ushould make yr self strong enough th decide by talking over tourself only

2007-03-16 11:52:10 · answer #10 · answered by raashi 2 · 0 0

Do absolutely nothing ! You don't want to get into a fight with your friend over a guy. Men come and go, but friends last forever !!! Move on and find someone else...

2007-03-16 11:48:05 · answer #11 · answered by Cujo's Mom 3 · 0 0

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