No, it's not, only if you believe everything must be the "same" if it is to be equal. People can have differences and be perfectly equal. If you do believe things must be the same to be equal then you are supporting the beliefs of RASCIM! Men and women are different, but equal.
Women must be able to CHOOSE to follow the man's lead with obedience, this takes both SKILL and CHARACTER (humility). However, the man must CHOOSE to put the woman first in return, even though he is the guide. (Just as a citizen serves his king so the good king can serve him ). What is the result? A beautiful, harminous art. The woman is the one who is actually "the main attraction", because the man giver her most attention (spins ect.). Both partners are part of a glorious team which shines with selflessness.
Both fulfill their different but equal parts.
Life should be like a ballroom dance.
Women would feel like women; good feeling.
Men would feel like men, that's an equally good, but dif. feeling.
2007-03-16 11:46:42 · 6 answers · asked by Gymnast 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats what ur suppose to do
2007-03-16 11:50:10 · answer #1 · answered by CiCi Cuttie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can follow a man's lead on the dance floor and in bed, but everywhere else, I am an autonomous woman, and I love it that way.
2007-03-16 20:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by Rio Madeira 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) What you're hinting at isn't racism, but "sexism."
2) Women follow the man's lead because it's a psychological power play... a mating ritual. The man leads, demonstrating himself and if the woman follows his lead it shows her approval.
Girls like guys who take charge, make decisions, and have confidence. Girls in general instinctively like to be led, which is why they like the leaders, celebrities and "bad boy" characters...
2007-03-16 18:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by Mike K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
actually... in ballroom dancing-just like in life- the men dont necessarily HAVE to lead... women can lead too...
and i believe that either way is fine... it just depends on the individuals...
good philosophy though...
and incase you were wondering... in dance i like the men to lead but in life i like to take turns.
2007-03-16 18:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this about dancing or an equality speech....LOL.
2007-03-16 18:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess you both should lead. then trip over your feet.
2007-03-16 18:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by tweed801 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋