Am i being played, or does she actually like me?

Question

were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else

i asked this girl to the movies the other day, she accepted, then said " will you be paying for my movie???"....whats that mean??i said yes of course...is that a hint?

Answer 1

SHE LIKES U, she is giving u hints! get her boy! ask her out no mettter what and im a girl and im shure she is trying to tall u that she likes u but she is too scared to do that ! go ahead make the first move man!

Answer 2

She does appear to like you, and you're both young, so it's no surprise she sends mixed signals, which means you have to tread carefully and be attentive. Girls are always looking for reassurance, brother. They all like to be looked after, and cared for. That's the one true constant in this universe. A close second is that they absolutely yearn for sincerity and loathe false fronts.

Approach her directly but tactfully to find out what her true feelings are for you. She will gladly appreciate your unveiled honesty, whereas on the other hand she could rapidly resort to disdain if she were to find out from others (instead of YOU) the way you feel about her.

Believe me, you won't feel disappointed. Ask. No need to wait and see or look for "hints" and "signs." Go get'er bro!

Answer 3

Well to tell you the truth, there is this guy I like and I am doing almost the EXACT things to him. We are always flirting, and hanging out. All the people we know say we should go out, but neither of us has admitted to crushing on the other. I hate making the first real move so if your situation is really like mine try to make a move. Like try holding her hand at the movie, its suddle yet sweet and if my guy did that to me I would be doing everything I could to stop myself from juming up and down in circles. Girls are just like that sometimes, its how we act when we really like someone,or at least its what I do.... Good Luck! Feel free to email me, alexia_ohnemus
@yahoo.com

Answer 4

She probably asked if you were paying for the movie to find out if it was date or you guys were just hanging out.

You should let her know how you feel or better yet say it like this, what do you look for a boyfriend? if most of what she says apply to you let her know how you feel but don't come on too strong. unfortunately if they don't apply to you then you have a lot of work to do.

Probably the reason why she curls up and sleep she is probably tired from studying all day.

Answer 5

She probably likes you and is executing a rather immature way of flirting with you.
I would tell her to stop calling your friends and parents (what the hell?) because it isn't funny and is just stupid.
Be really blunt about it, too, or she'll think you're joking and do it MORE.

It would seems that she's desperately trying to get close to you, both physically and by talking to your friends.
I think she does like you, but her way of showing it is just ridiculously immature.

I can't see this as a long term thing, though.

Answer 6

I'm not much older than you two, but I know I did npt know A THING about love and relationships. Many older people say in your twenties you find yourself; You guys are not even there yet!! You gotta give this thing time. The things you might not understand may not be for you to understand. That may just be her personality.
Make sure you let her know EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL!!! Don't hold back, babe. you only live once.

Good Luck.

Answer 7

I think she really likes you. Sometimes she doesn't give you all her attention, like when she studies. No big deal, she needs to study. I love my bf to death but I like to spend a lot of alone time on my artwork and schoolwork. He used to think it was because I didn't like him, but I got mad at him when he said that because then why would I do all those other things for him?

I think she wanted to know if you were paying for the movie because she wanted to know if it was a date or if you were just going as friends. Since boys always pay when they go on dates.

Answer 8

Yes, I think that she likes you, and as a girl myself, I'd say alot. The movie thing is naterel. I wouldn't go to the movies with a guy that made me pay...

Answer 9

She either really likes u, wants to be a close friend, or is just using u (because of asking u to pay for her movie like that). I personally think she likes u. Just ask her like this:
"I got a question....Do u like me as more than a friend?"
If she says yes, then u got her. If she says no, then just say,
"I didn't think so, I was just asking."

Answer 10

i think she DOES like u. when u guys go to the movies, put ur arm around her. maybe even hold her hand or kiss her. but she probably asked if u would pay for her so she would know how much money to bring. also, if the guy pays, it seems like more of a date . alrighty, well good luck :D