My husband told me if I do not lose weight he will divorce me. Since then he has said he will not leave me, but would be more 'comfortable in our marriage' if I were to lose weight. He says he looks at porn because I am overweight and he is not attracted to me. We have a 1 year old and I am pregnant right now with our second child.
2007-03-16 11:37:09 · 3 answers · asked by Dez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your husband obviously has issues. "Divorce" is not a word that should just be thrown around like that, and finding your wife unattractive is no excuse for looking at porn.
Having two pregancies so close together like that is obviously going to do a number on your body. I don't know of anyone that could still "keep their shape" after that. However, the decision to get pregnant again so soon after your baby was born is one that should have been made by you both together, and he is ignorant if he really thought you wouldn't put on some weight from that.
You need to let him know that his comment was insensitive and crude, and totally inappropriate. If you do decide to lose weight, do it for yourself and for your health, and do not go about it in a way which will endanger your baby.
2007-03-17 05:13:11 · answer #1 · answered by wnk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your husband is so dumb your pregnant for sake your going be big your having a baby you can excercise and go on a diet after the baby comes tell him to keep his mouth shut or you will leave and divorce him
2007-03-20 09:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your husband just loves you and cares for your health he wants you to lose weight...you should wait after your baby is born and see a dietician and lose some weight...it's best for you
2007-03-18 02:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋