WE spend almost every day together and very obviously have a major connection. I't been five months and I haven't heqrd those sweet words "I love you" yet. Should i be worried. How long should it take, average?
2007-03-16 11:39:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be worried.
Many guys wait to hear it from the girl first. I know I do.
If the guy says it first, it can tend to ruin things as for the girl it seems the chase is over. If she says it first, then she's committed (for a while) by virtue of cognitive dissonance.
2007-03-16 11:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mike K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 21:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me same something to you i am in the exact situation for exactly the same amount of time like you sometimes i can't help but feel the same way then i have to ask myself {and we live together} a few things does he show me he loves me, does he act genuinely concerned about me and my feelings and the answer is Absolutely at times you need to be glad he is taking his time that means when he says it he will really mean it and that means more than him just saying ''I LOVE YOU """ DONT YOU AGREE?? REAL LOVE TAKES TIME TO GROW people use that word to freely and you should love him even more because he doesn't. if you want email me we should talk , have you told him you love him??
2007-03-16 11:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by annaramsey1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its OK not hear these words right away. And you don't want him to say them because he knows this is what you want to hear. He may be scared. Have you said this to him yet?Maybe he feels the same why and wonders if you LOVE him.
I dated my husband for 2 months b4 we were married we have now been married for 9 yrs this Aug. 2007. So for anyone who thinks that after 5 months is to early to say I love you. is wrong...But it is OK to just let it come, let him be ready to say these words to you...If you are both happy with the way things are right now then just let it be and if this is the guy for you those words will follow. Just remember with love comes, hate,hurt,happiness,loneliness,forgiveness,understanding,giving in and a lot of eating your pride...Good luck...
2007-03-16 13:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months is the right time but don't torture yourself by saying and not getting it back. He needs to say it first, trust me it hurts to throw it out there and not get it back. Let him be "sure" and when he does say it you'll feel so much more for him.
2007-03-16 11:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by dynamicduo79 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be glad he doesn't just throw it around. Now when you do hear it you will know it is genuine. I didn't say it until I was ready to propose. I have no hang-ups about saying it when I know it is real but I have to know it is first.
2007-03-16 11:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by Pooky Bear the Sensitive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way
2007-03-16 11:48:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋