Family & Relationships - 16 March 2007

Myself and my partner are 38. He is kind, gentle, caring, and good looking. He has the 3 qualities I wanted: eg does not drink, smoke or swears; he is a nice boy. We hug lots.
We've been together 2 years and lived together for 8 months. When we moved in together I expected our sex life TO BEGIN BUT IT DIED. WE HAVE NEVER HAD 'FULL SEX' but had great touching before we lived together. At bedtime my partner just nods off within seconds of hitting the bed. I give many hits of my sex desire but get no response or am told 'I'm just so tired.' I find it hard to talk about this with him. I do love him so much though.

2007-03-16 12:46:07 · 7 answers · asked by pinky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just want some advice with this person I'm getting to know more, before I make any plans and what to do.

Part 1: It started today, after class, my friend showed a picture to our guy friend and then to my crush about me "pole dancing" outside. He didn't say anything to it, even though, my friend kept saying that I looked cute.

Part 2: I was on the bus, with my friend, guy friend, and my crush, and we were sitting face-to-face. Our guy friend, asked my crush, about relationships, and he said, he didn't want to say anything. I think he never been in a relationship before.

Part 3: During class, we were sitting across from each other and I saw him smiling at me and kinda leaning his head on the table and was kinda blushing. He looked soo cute and coy looking.

What do you guys think?

2007-03-16 12:45:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i fell out with my best guy mate who i am in love with. i recieved growlers off him today. we fell out the other night, it was my fault. i want to call him and tell him i'm sorry. should i?? and should i tell him i love him??

2007-03-16 12:45:18 · 17 answers · asked by confused 1 in Singles & Dating

I was walking around the mall with a friend and all of a sudden I see this guy that used to like me in like the 4th grade and in the 10th grade probably...I am now in grade 12...and he waved to me...then he went around the corner and just popped up and was like hey NAME... I was like hey and he started to talk to me...he then said he was going out with this girl named SOMEONE...Does he still like me??We never talked for like the longest time and it was really akward. He even made a joke of how he should go shop around with us... why did he just randomly come and talk to me like that? Does he still have feelings for me and what should I do??

2007-03-16 12:45:13 · 9 answers · asked by Cheyenne F 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who had 4 boyfriends. One in 4th grade, two in 5th grade, and one in 6th grade. How can those be boyfriends if she has never been kissed and never been on a date before? She is 14.

2007-03-16 12:45:07 · 7 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

..i know parents are annoying sometimes, but whenever they get on my case about certain things i get soo angry and pissed off and then they always say "u will thank me later on when ur an adult," they say when im an adult ill say something like "man my parents were so right" is that true? im a teen..

2007-03-16 12:44:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

am.How do I stop loving him...considering that the height differance will never work???(tears)

2007-03-16 12:44:46 · 23 answers · asked by Sammy 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm currently going through a divorce, but i have kids, I love being married, and in love,, is it possible to still find happiness after all this,,?? can my soul mate still be out there? where do I begin to look,, or dont look and let it come to me??? how do I start from scratch?

2007-03-16 12:44:25 · 6 answers · asked by mngnyc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

help

2007-03-16 12:44:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you convince a really stubborn man that it's ok to let go and trust a girl again and to let you in. Especially when his dad tells you that he knows that the guy likes you a lot. THis guy and his dad are really close. THe guy is playing hard to get and when he keeps a teddy bear that you bought him and phones you at 9pm because he needs someone but is too proud to admit his feelings. How do you convince him that you love him no matter what he has done and that you won't hurt him like other girls have?

2007-03-16 12:44:01 · 1 answers · asked by titania 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 12:43:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are on a strict budget for our wedding and based on the quotes I've been told, we can't afford a florist. A friend of my Mother told us that we should buy real flowers in bulk online and just do the arrangements ourselves. (that's what they did at her daughters wedding) I love the idea, especially since we aren't doing that many decorations. My fiancee is afraid real flowers will be too much work since we have to care for them overnight. My question is, for those who did their own flowers, how do I know how much to order? Whether I go with silk or real I don't want to overbuy. I do have a floral book that I'm getting ideas from. Also, If it ends up being easier can I mixed silk flowers with real, or is that tacky? The bouquets and stuff will be real. Any advice would be a great help!

2007-03-16 12:42:52 · 8 answers · asked by Wendy Kim 2 in Weddings

I think she's a little upset. I watched a lot of basketball yesterday and was drinking pretty much the entire time. She came over after I got home (which was before 10). The icing on the chaotic cake was she got up about a half hour late for work today which I had nothing to do with but it's still all related. So today I haven't heard from her since this morning. I didn't exactly do anything wrong last night, wasn't acting too stupid or obnoxious (I don't think) but I sent her a text a while ago and haven't heard back. She's obviously upset about it and it was dumb of me to agree to see her after I had been drinking for that long, but I can't undo it now. So what do I do to assure her I am sorry? Should I wait for her to call me, tell her I'm going home and she can come over later if she wants, something else?

2007-03-16 12:42:14 · 10 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

s-x, but I said no because I'm not realdy , I haven't done it before and I'm scared.... Now, I and my boyfriend are taking the four classes at university and there's a girl who flirted with my boyfriend...My boyfriend is taking one of the classes with this girl and I am not in that class. They usually walk together to the class. At first, I thought it's normal because they are friends...However, .I notice that my boyfriend won't hang out with me anymore for a week arealdy...Whenever I call him, he says he's busy...One of my bestfriend told me that she saw my boyfriend with that girl at the restaurant two days ago. I am so mad and sad....What do I do now?

2007-03-16 12:42:09 · 9 answers · asked by yenhu 1 in Singles & Dating

I HATE my mom. Seriously, i'm 14 and i still don't get to choose what i wear. She's always making me wear 80's and 90's clothes which she thinks is "pretty". Every time i ask her to buy jeans or T shirts (that are well fitted and never show a lot of skin) she'll just say she just doesn't want me dressing "unclassy". My family is vietnamese so they are VERY strict. i have to go to a private all girls catholic school, get straight A's, and manage to stay under 100lbs. I think they expect too much of me! In 6th grade she pushed me so hard that i got an eating disorder and almost committed suicide.
Is it me who has the problem or is it them? My parents and I hardly ever talk but they annoy me so much even when they're not in the house! And even though we have a maid, they always make me do the laundry.And thats not all. Whenever i buy more than 20 dollars from itunes, they get mad at me! I'm not allowed to go to friends houses or have any other type of freedom! it's getting on my nerves

2007-03-16 12:41:10 · 19 answers · asked by somethingcompletelyrandom 3 in Family

I would like to pose nude for him but i am alittle shy..i am not the skinny little thing i use to be...he likes to look at other womens photos.. what can i do.

2007-03-16 12:41:02 · 24 answers · asked by Kent_Dawnita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok im 15, i like this guy in my school who is soo cute , and i think that he likes another gurl im not shure, becouse the roomers where going on before that he like some other girl, bu ti knwo its not me. but he doesnt knwo that i like him but his close frined does and few other people. tell me what should i do now ?

2007-03-16 12:40:39 · 2 answers · asked by babe 2 in Singles & Dating

and thats the reason most of your good relationships ended?

2007-03-16 12:39:48 · 9 answers · asked by answer! this 3 in Singles & Dating

I still keep in contact with several of my ex's and even find myself flirting with them when I run into them either in person or on-line. I really do love my boyfriend and I know he loves me as well. I am 26 years old and as happy with him as I have ever been with any man and I would never want to hurt him. What should I do? Will I just eventually forget about those other guys?

2007-03-16 12:38:41 · 10 answers · asked by Shezsoofyne 1 in Singles & Dating

i cant stop crying ? what do i do i mean i keep thinking about how much fun they are having

2007-03-16 12:37:44 · 31 answers · asked by meredith h 1 in Friends

2007-03-16 12:37:43 · 15 answers · asked by bigmuthaluva 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if a girl really likes you or just want to be good friends because i swear she is just teasing me. One day she seem very cool talking and asking when we going out but then the next day she seems to be giving me the cold shoulder and not giving me any attention. and by the way i live in the ghetto and shes from a richy rich neighborhood...

2007-03-16 12:37:03 · 14 answers · asked by Empty_Glass 3 in Singles & Dating

after fighting a long and hard battle with cancer, my uncle passed away about an hour ago. He had 2 kids, both are engaged to be married late September. Me and my family are a mess. he was 61 and fought a hard, long battle with cancer for 5 years. I ask one thing. Pray for my family. Please, pray for us

2007-03-16 12:36:49 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well my x bf doesn't break up with girls he just gives them the silent treatment because he says he doesn't want to break their heart but i think it would of been easier if he would of broke up with me. but every thing was great and for sum odd reason he just stoped talkin to me one day

2007-03-16 12:36:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Please help. My boyfriend's birthday is March 30th. He wants me to plan his birthday weekend but I have no ideas. Its not like is the summer where I could take him to six flags or anything. He's not giving me any clues as to what he might be interested in. Please help me. Thx in advance

2007-03-16 12:35:57 · 24 answers · asked by laquay723 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-16 12:35:50 · 8 answers · asked by ShrimpCrackersMmmmm 3 in Singles & Dating

i like a guy named Ryan and he likes another girl!! he ignorse me a lot and he acts like l'm invsable. what should i do?

2007-03-16 12:35:24 · 6 answers · asked by cool girl 100 2 in Friends

I just read how a father raised a child to adulthood and then found out it was never his , he thought it was.Deception on the womens part. I think any woman who does that should be made to pay tthe man child support for all those 18 yrs of her deception.What do you think?

2007-03-16 12:34:44 · 15 answers · asked by Sxoxo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you know?
I heard some people say if you don't know if you love them or not then you don't love him. But I disagree.
Sometimes you can be scared to love someone...

2007-03-16 12:34:39 · 3 answers · asked by MiiKEY 2 in Singles & Dating

ok..i met this guy almost three weeks ago...and we have been going out. recently i had a few friends tell me that he has been saying that he likes them...and that he has even said he loved them...lately he has been very distant from me...and i know my friends would never lie to me...but i think he is so distant b/c he doesnt want to hurt me...or he doesnt want me to find out. which i have..and i recently (almost two hours ago) what he is saying and why he thinks its ok to hurt me like he has...HELP!!!

2007-03-16 12:34:15 · 7 answers · asked by italiana 3 in Singles & Dating