I would like to pose nude for him but i am alittle shy..i am not the skinny little thing i use to be...he likes to look at other womens photos.. what can i do.
2007-03-16 12:41:02 · 24 answers · asked by Kent_Dawnita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-03-16 12:43:23 · answer #1 · answered by coffee37man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that many of us can answer that, because most of us are not men with low sex drives. What would work on us is likely to fail with him.
Its interesting that he 'likes to look at other womens photos'. Are we talking a nice headshot, or porn? Honest, porn would be more promising - suggests some hint of libido.
If he's looking at porn and masturbating, either he feels really turned off of you, or he's feeling too pressured to want sex. Does he have a performance issue? Something like that?
When you say 'I am not the skinny little thing I use to be', what does that mean? Men care a lot about weight BUT are also more forgiving then women realize. If you've gained 30 lb, I can't see him not wanting sex at all. If you've gained 100 lb, it might be a serious issue.
2007-03-16 22:45:45 · answer #2 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, when I first read this I almost laughed. Your husband likes to look at other women's photos and isn't attempting to hide it? What a guy he is. As far as turning him on, I think that the pictures could be a good idea if that is something that you want to do. You shouldn't be shy around you husband. You 2 are in it for life so don't be insecure. Personally I think that there are other ways to get the job done. You know your husband significantly better than I do so it's your call but setting up a romantic dinner at home for the two of you would be effective as well. Think about it.
2007-03-16 19:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I would tell him that theohter womans photos ditrurb you and make you unhappy he married you for you he should not be looking at other women that he may be lusting over.
Secondly I would consider having a couple of drinks this can make you lose some of those inhibitions you may have. Consider looking into some supplements that increase libido
I'm not talking about viagra ask a pharmacist they may be able to steer you in the right direction or go to your local GNC
store they carry lots of supplements for men and women to help with declining sex drive. Or to further increase your chances get to the gym and shed some weight if you are aware yopu have put on a little bit of weight maybe it is the time to get rid of it look at supplements for this as well like a thermogenic that helps increase your metabolic rate look for something that is stimulant free since alot of these can contain caffiene.
2007-03-16 20:25:19 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling it is not always the 'skinny little thing' that turns on men. Men are very visual and like the 'nippley things' and the little hairy things down below too (or hairless). What will turn him on the most will be seeing your nakedness, un-inhibited, confidence and those gyrating hips. You will look like the beautiful goddess that you are. Does he look like the cover of GQ magazine? You love him and think he is sexy just the way he is right? It's confidence and the absolute look of lust in your EYES and the sexy talk coming out of your MOUTH while he is looking at your boobers and bush that will make him salivate and jump your bones. Go for it!
2007-03-16 19:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk sweetly to him. Give him a back rub. Be his slave for a few hours. Do you have long fingernails? Run them slowly down his spine with just a little pressure. Touch him sofly on the inside of his thighs and across his butt cheeks. Kiss him all over his body but stay away from his "stuff" kiss everywhere but there.
2007-03-16 19:46:43 · answer #6 · answered by Gwynny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what Kathy Bates did in Fried Green Tomato's, Greet your husband at the front door, nude but wrapped in Saran wrap.
2007-03-16 20:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you see when you look in the mirror is not what your husband sees.Men don't see all the imperfections that we do so go ahead take some nude pictures of yourself and see how much your husband are turned on when he sees them.
2007-03-16 21:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he loves you the way you are and looking at your nude pictures will turn him on more than you think. I wouldn't tell him about it and maybe slip him a sexy picture and tell them there's more where that came from to get him thinking about it before showing him more.
2007-03-16 19:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy! Let me tell you what...if you were more comfortable with your body (ie: loose weight) and posed for him in a photo and gave it to him ....you would be like rabbits again. BECAUSE, you would have more self esteem and he would go wild! Best incentive to loose weight that I ever heard of.....DO IT!!! You have the will inside of you....just do it!
2007-03-16 19:45:46 · answer #10 · answered by sugarbud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mutual Masturbation. My husband gets so turned on when I do this for him, and in return, he starts in and it is just the most exciting thing you could ever imagine. If he does not join in the first time, don't worry, once he gets comprotable, he will and you will love it.
2007-03-16 19:46:31 · answer #11 · answered by DeAnn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋