Myself and my partner are 38. He is kind, gentle, caring, and good looking. He has the 3 qualities I wanted: eg does not drink, smoke or swears; he is a nice boy. We hug lots.
We've been together 2 years and lived together for 8 months. When we moved in together I expected our sex life TO BEGIN BUT IT DIED. WE HAVE NEVER HAD 'FULL SEX' but had great touching before we lived together. At bedtime my partner just nods off within seconds of hitting the bed. I give many hits of my sex desire but get no response or am told 'I'm just so tired.' I find it hard to talk about this with him. I do love him so much though.
2007-03-16 12:46:07 · 7 answers · asked by pinky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My advice would be, talk to him about it, or ask him when he'll be in the mood to. Example-When he's off work, have a little "playtime" together. Or just do something really fun one day that both of you enjoy doing (Like going camping for the weekend in the woods, or something romantic) Men don't really seem to get women's hints unless we shove them in their faces. Men don't notice things as well as women do, and therefore, we have to make our wants so obvious that a blind man could see it. Like said before, maybe wear something sexy to attract his attention, or if he's really not understanding, be blunt and tell him straight out "Can we have sex tonight?". It may or may not work, just do whatever your comfortable with doing. And try to remember that there's alot more to a relationship then just sex.
2007-03-16 12:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Syn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I have never heard that a guy don't want sex. Very strange, but heck I could deal with a sexless relationship anyday. But seriously when a guy is not interested in sex and you have been together that long something is not right. A talk is in order and it might be awkward but its something you need to discuss before you start taking this personal and resenting him.
2007-03-16 20:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go home and just get the mood right cook him his favorite foods,wear something a man will kill to see you in,and light candles and play the freakyest music you have than after that he wont have a choice but to take u to the bedroom
trust me it always work!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-16 20:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by deangela p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will just have to talk about it. Tell him, how much you love him, and ask him, why you are not having sex. He could have erection problems and be afraid...there are several reasons, but if this is eating so much at you, you need to ask!!!
2007-03-16 19:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you know hes coming home, meet him at the door wearing something super sexy.
If that doesnt work, then I dont know what to tell ya, sweetie.
Good luckkk!
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2007-03-16 19:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by love anyway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how u feel if he doesnt listen then get a new bf who will do things u like to do
2007-03-16 19:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play wit him.
2007-03-16 19:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by coffee37man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋