well my x bf doesn't break up with girls he just gives them the silent treatment because he says he doesn't want to break their heart but i think it would of been easier if he would of broke up with me. but every thing was great and for sum odd reason he just stoped talkin to me one day
2007-03-16 12:36:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I have had this done to me way too many times. They're not man enough to be up front with you and give closure. It's pathetic.
Just take the hint. Learn from it.
You don't need somebody who treats you like this.
It's his loss, not yours.
2007-03-16 12:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok with that you should realise he's a little *****! in my opinion you should leave him alone. apparently he's way too immature to be in a relationship anyway so what's the point. if you go talk to him he might come back but he for sure will do the same thing again. he doesn't seem to be as interested in the relationship. he's a coward and i think a girl deserves better than that. but you never know try talking to him and straighten him out. tell him how you feel and be firm about it and tell him you wont be there each and every time he decides to walk away and come back! he does it because he knows you will take it! don't let him!
2007-03-16 19:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by gaby5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you did something really horrible and just dont want to confess to it....HE OWES YOU AN EXPLANATION!!!! By not coming you like a real guy would he's being a coward. Any guy who doesnt care enough about you to tell you exactly why he cant be with you any more DOESNT DESERVE YOU. So, I wiuld try to call him just ONCE and ask him flat out and if u get no response, chalk it up as his loss and keep it moving girly. You dont need him or anyone like him around you, you can do bad all by yourself.
2007-03-16 19:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by Shezsoofyne 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that he just doesn't like taking responsibility for his actions. If that's his m.o., then don't expect for him to treat you any differently then he has others. We tend to think that some how we're different, that would never happen to me. Guess what? I would not go out of my way to quiz him. He owes you an explanation, even if he thinks it is OK to just walk out of the picture. Move on to people who know how to communicate their actions.
2007-03-16 19:57:48 · answer #4 · answered by cynthia2817@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I was you,and it is up to you,Iwouldn't give the jerk the satisfaction of going and crying to him,it's probably what turns him on and if you can manage it,if he finally calls you,don't answer him,give him some of his own medicine,I wonder how many girls he's hurt like that.Be the teacher,nail his butt!!!
2007-03-16 20:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother talking to an inconsiderate, immature idiot? Aren't you worth more than that? Show some respect for yourself and don't give him the satisfaction. Find someone else babe.
2007-03-16 19:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't respect you enough to give you an explanation then don't give him the time of day either. He's not worth it. Just try to move on.
2007-03-16 19:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by dil7827 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl find a new man that will treat u with a little more respect and use a little common courtesy. u can do better and he is probably with someone anyways so go find u someone better.
2007-03-16 19:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh oh!
I'm also guilty of that as well....
just ignore him, as he really wants to be left alone.
2007-03-16 19:48:40 · answer #9 · answered by venom! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been dumped , hit the gas and get moving .
2007-03-16 19:40:07 · answer #10 · answered by nuteddyboy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋