I'm currently going through a divorce, but i have kids, I love being married, and in love,, is it possible to still find happiness after all this,,?? can my soul mate still be out there? where do I begin to look,, or dont look and let it come to me??? how do I start from scratch?
2007-03-16 12:44:25 · 6 answers · asked by mngnyc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is very possible to find love after a divorce. My grandmother's marriage did not work out yet she fell in love with a guy she felt was the true love of her life. There is definetly more than "the one" for everyone. Some people are just meant to be seasons in your life. It is not really looking for him beacuse he may already be under your nose and you haven't noticed yet. But just be open minded of people who find interest in you and vice versa. Take a chance on love and you WILL definetly find the love of your life.
*Good Luck*
2007-03-16 12:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by chauntee d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a soul mate. Lov eis what you make it. Also love is not an action, it is a choice. So you can choses to love anyone you want, and the only thing close to a soul mate is finding someone to love you back. Love is also something that has to be worked at, so maybe you should call up your ex and see if he wants to love again, because I can tell you from experience, you ca nlove somebody else, but in the end, it will be the same unless you work at it. Besides, you will make your children very happy also if you decided to love their father.
2007-03-16 19:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by DeAnn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are (if you believe in that). Obviously your husband wasn't it so the true representation must be out there some where. You don't look for a soul mate. You don't even look for a boyfriend or girlfriend. It's pathetic. You just enjoy your life. Love yourself and your kids and when you meet someone you go from their. Appreciate what you have before you try to add something (or someone) to it.
2007-03-16 19:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be prepared to find that it's all different now. More than likely your soul mate has kids, too, by now, and there is some baggage. So be prepared to deal with that. Don't look too hard...most of the time when you least expect to meet someone, you aren't even looking. Good luck!
2007-03-16 19:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by sugarbud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There certaintly is. My parents were married for 20 years, and four children. They both found someone else who makes them happier than I can ever remember them being when we were growing up.
2007-03-16 21:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by dreamingtree41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it fine yu.
2007-03-16 19:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by coffee37man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋