and thats the reason most of your good relationships ended?
2007-03-16 12:39:48 · 9 answers · asked by answer! this 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg yes! i've gotten some of the nicest sweetest guys every.... but the minute they start to show me they're really feeling something... i can't help but wind things up! i dunno about you but i've gotten b urned pretty bad in the past, and some things you just never forget....
i wish i could get over it because its hurt all of my relationships since then.... and i really don't want to be afraid of commitment my whole life... haah i want love!
if you're the same way then power to you... i wish the best for you because i know what you're feeling!!!
2007-03-16 12:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid of commitment.
I never thought I was but now that I look back I am.
One additional thing about me is my standards are too high. I've created this imaginary dream man and wont settle for anything less than that person, which is almost impossible.
It's part of the reasons relationships ended.
I went out with this really great guy and like 5 minutes after it started getting around school I like stiffed up and I felt like I wasnt going to be free and something like it was a burden.
So I broke up with him.
We continued liking each other, now we goto diff schools. I havent saw him in about a year.
I wish I wouldnt have did it, but I did.
2007-03-16 19:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by MiiKEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look everyones is scared of some type of commitment.
That's not true, everything happens for reasons and it was reasons y relationships came to the end.
2007-03-16 19:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by Tel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm 50 and have never been married nor had a relationship ever lasting more than a year. Does that tell you anything?
2007-03-16 19:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, l have been cheated on too many times.
But when i was proposed to l knew that l wanted this. I love my fiance, and he loves me. I know l can trust him.
If you think you are ready, you'll just know. You have a gut feeling, and know you are loved. If you have to think about it for more than 5 minutes, then you'll know its not right.
people say that you'll need to think for a while, but you wont. If you know he loves you, and you love him. Nothing else matters cos love can make anything work.
2007-03-16 19:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep everytime it's time to make things official i somehow find a reason (not intentionally) to not allow it to happen. I dont know what the HEL*!
2007-03-16 19:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Bonnie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because it means being all to one person. And after a while you get tired of that person.
2007-03-16 19:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by Diamondbch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes......... but Its getting better.
2007-03-16 19:44:20 · answer #8 · answered by venom! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dunno im not afraid
2007-03-16 19:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Martin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋