Family & Relationships - 15 March 2007

I haven't spoken to my father in years, well, I have, but, not civilly. In anycase, I am planning a wedding and I do not plan on inviting him. My Mother(they have been divorced for over 15 years) says that she thinks my father is going to send us a check as a gift. I told her it will not be cashed, it will be returned to sender. I do not want his money. She says I am being ridiculous. Who is right here? Should I just take the money, knowing full well I can't stand the man, or send it back to him as a matter of principle?

2007-03-15 09:13:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm not a huge fan of basketball, so I don't want to cheer and seem like I am being fake. I am going with another couple as well.

2007-03-15 09:12:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ever since i've been born,i never had intercorse with the opposite sex. i've had chances but i was too involved with a girl who i went to high school with (me and her think of her as a guy---not a "girl"),cause she soo looks like a guy (even though she never tried to change--she was just born with the looks of it really bad) and she's really cute and handsome. so that's why i never had the chance to get into having sex with a male. i've always wantted to get down and freaky with a male, and share it as a special thing. i don't wanna stay a "so-called" lesbo forever. i've only been with one girl and one girl only, no more then that. although i don't think i would call myself a "lisbo".....she is (my girlfriend) and i so do LIKE guys! lol,so please help me answer this for me....am i still a virgin? anyone-and i mean "ANYONE" just answer with the best you can. thank you!

2007-03-15 09:12:32 · 20 answers · asked by doctor p 1 in Singles & Dating

there's this lad i know...and i only just used to chat to him round school as he was in alot of my lessons and i know he has a bit of a reputation for being a flirt but i never liked him in any other way as a mate, and suddenly for about a month he kept askin me out repeatedly and i was a bit uneasy about him so i always said no. anyway he got so annoying and forward with it after the second month i just said yes to get him off my back, and went to the cinema with him. i didnt know what to do, he didnt say a word to me, and when we got in the cinema he start feeling me up...i wasnt comfortable with it, but i worried if i said no he would be angry and would say horrible things about me. i let him do it and all the time i just wanted it to stop. Then when i was at school, he had told people about it and now i have people calling me names, i know it was stupid, this is the first thing i've done with a lad and now i'm a whore. i feel so guilty. Why didn't i say no? what do i do now?

2007-03-15 09:12:31 · 1 answers · asked by bubblyfool 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 09:12:15 · 3 answers · asked by sixsgm 4 in Singles & Dating

...Saty with my girlfriend? she is thinking of breaking up with me because of one of her friends. she also does not know that I know. anything might help please! PS. I am 16 and she is 15. thanks in advance.

2007-03-15 09:11:27 · 17 answers · asked by SWIFT 3 in Singles & Dating

i have a band, captain of tha football team is my bf, and i'm a lifegaurd. Why do people keep on calling me fat when im not. they pick on me when my bf is not around. every since i had a hot bf no1 has been hanging with me. not even my best firneds in the wole world. i dont no wat's rong. could some 1 plz help me.

2007-03-15 09:11:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've always been curious. What do women think about weight on a guy? Does a stomach gut really turn women off? I don't understand it.. If it is so unattractive, then what can I do to attract women?

2007-03-15 09:11:11 · 18 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Singles & Dating

Well me and this girl have one class together, and lunch together.(in highschool) We are friends and we talk in class, one time I caught her kind of playing with her hair when she was talkin to me. We joke around alot, she'll say hey in the halls to me sometimes, we keep good eyecontact when we are talkin, what else can I look for to tell if she likes me?
Does it sound like she likes me, what other info should I give?

2007-03-15 09:11:08 · 7 answers · asked by Wolfpack 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-15 09:11:03 · 1 answers · asked by trimstitch_1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-15 09:10:35 · 14 answers · asked by Andii 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do when you see a really cute guy?

2007-03-15 09:10:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need a some answers to this question, the link below:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070315125106AAYTd2H&r=w
If you read past the speech/letter which is not long, you'll see why I wrote it but you don't have to read it unless you want to understand what had happened between me and the girl to be able to answer the question. I'm also asking should I get her anything for her birthday and what to get her (or I'll just ask her friends what she'd like)

2007-03-15 09:10:10 · 1 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

Hey i need some help..at school i have to friends..i am inviting them both to my birthday party...but the thing is that they HATE each other... i really want them both at my party..but i dont want them to ruin my birthday party!!! sooo.. i need some help! what should i do?

2007-03-15 09:09:34 · 16 answers · asked by soobvioustoday 2 in Friends

On the plus side I'm sober at least once a week.
And I'm spotless underneath.
Please don't apply if you are not gorgeous

2007-03-15 09:09:19 · 21 answers · asked by mickeok 1 in Singles & Dating

hispanic female with black male? please only respond if you have experienced and/or have something nice to say....

2007-03-15 09:09:08 · 14 answers · asked by jen.v 1 in Singles & Dating

Be onest i need to no, and also i have a girlfreing shoul i teel her?

2007-03-15 09:09:01 · 8 answers · asked by X Princess jade X 1 in Singles & Dating

I know arranged marriages still happen in Japan, but I want to know exactly what parts of Japan. Please answer. Thank you.

2007-03-15 09:08:45 · 5 answers · asked by Mizuki 1 in Weddings

My husband got a new job. He wakes up now stressed out, comes home stressed out, and goes to bed stressed out. In the morning when he doesn't respond to anything I or the kids say, I ask if he's already at work. Three weeks ago, I asked that he check on our health insurance cards because he is primarly on the account and they won't talk to me. He still hasn't done it (he says he hasn't found the time). He has a stack of job expenses that he hasn't submitted (a lot of money to us). He said he was going to do it a month ago, today he says "it's just not a priority to me". I asked if he will be able to get the lawn mowed this weeked, his response was "probably not". He promised to work on my daughter's science fair project with her but hasn't found the time.

How do I explain to him that we feel shortchanged without coming off as insensitive to what he is dealing with at work?

2007-03-15 09:08:40 · 7 answers · asked by 4532 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-15 09:08:03 · 9 answers · asked by scooby31558 1 in Family

I'm going out with this guy and hes pretty quite. He would talk to me a little before we started going out but now he really wont becuase i think hes scared. If i aproach him he just kind of gets red and will talk back but i have ot start talknig to him. I dont want to be clingy. He calls me like evry other dya and we sort of talk online but i dont know what to do? Please help me!!!!

2007-03-15 09:07:56 · 8 answers · asked by Micro spice 3 in Singles & Dating

How should I break up with a guy that I've been going out with for a long time...without hurting him, and ruining a chance to be his friend?

2007-03-15 09:07:52 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley M 1 in Singles & Dating

Why dont guys like rocker girls? I mean i am not a freak and i am not gothic(not that threre is ne thing wrong wit that) but i have my hair dyed black, blonde and red which isnt that bad! And i am really laid back and easy to get along with, so what is the deal? why cant i get a guy???

2007-03-15 09:07:24 · 4 answers · asked by hayden p 1 in Singles & Dating

guys what do you like in a girl?? and please be honest.

2007-03-15 09:06:33 · 18 answers · asked by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3 in Singles & Dating

Person # 2 got me involved with a group called "REBEL" it's people against smoking. It used to be a county based even but now was put into every high school instead to get kids to stop smoking. My Best friend was put in charg of the club who became president vice president etc. I had asked her if it was possible for me to become a member of the board because i was involved with the club for 4 years. She told me she felt it would be better if she allowed freshman to become members of the board because that would make it easier for her and this other girl who was president to train them so that they would be able to lead the club next year when the seniors graduate.respected her decision and said that was fine and if she ever needed help to call me. At the next meeting i found out that she put 3 other seniors who were also her friends onto the board. She never put any freshman on and those 3 seniors were NEVER in the club EVER this was there first year joining it. I felt really betrayed!I also ran for a position in another club that she is involved with me in and she told the person who was in charge of choosing who should be president etc. that she objected me being president and though there was someone who could do better for the job. Her other best friend. She got the position on the board. I felt betrayed again.She ALSO allowed her best gay male guy friend to call me using her cell phone to tell me that i should go commit suicide and die and how the whole school wants me dead and how the world would be a better place with me dead.She knew he was using his phone and when i approached her about it she said "yeah i don't know why he did that" I never got an apology or anything!

2007-03-15 09:06:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was talking having a debate with one of my friends the other day about what a bug-a-boo was because i told him he was but he said he wasnt so i just said i we should get a female's point of view

2007-03-15 09:05:50 · 5 answers · asked by mark c 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, this might the first time i ever talk about this subject ....
i am reallly mad right now, frustrated, my eyes are red coz of my continiuos tears.. and the reason: my husband is still in contact with his ex girlfrined...
i knew she existed coz i saw her name several times on his mobile phone.. and i know he talks to her coz i see his contact history numbers..
i faced him once with an sms he sent her once tellling her that he did love her but everything id finished now..a dn he replied that it is just an old girlfriend and there is nothing between them anymore........
but all i could think of is why till now he is telling this to her? shouldnt this have happened b4 we got married? shouldn,t he have made it clear to her b4 we got married?...
anyway, i got it out of my mind...but then i knew he talked to her behind my back...she sometimes calls when we r together but he turns the moblie off...which is quite frustratting cz if honestly he is not in love with her anymore why not talk with her infront of me?,
and still i ignored all of that till yesterday.......
there was a little party my husband and i had at a restaurant.. there was a lot of ppl invited: friends of him and friends to us..
i was standing with friends when she came saying hi to all of them then turned to me intoducing herself and asking my name.... the second she said her name i knew who she was.....i froze, my friends went red of embarrasment and told her i am the wife...
i dont know why i froze, although a lot of times i told myself that if i ever met her, i will do my best to look natural .. but i just couldnt.... i wanted to kill her at the moment..so i ignored her totally..
then a few minutes later she found my husband and talked to him.. and i saw the look in his eyes... he was happy and at the same time afraid...he starteed searching for me to see i saw him with her....
i wanted to kill them both... she left after 10 minutes....
i dont know why i am sad, why i am feeling that way now i dont even know what they talked about yesterday...
but all i know is that why is he so interested in talking to her so often? why is he telling her everything he is doing... is a sign of cheating? i dont know/............
please somebody help me

2007-03-15 09:05:19 · 62 answers · asked by hib hib 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is sex mandatory for marrige?

2007-03-15 09:05:16 · 21 answers · asked by Brianna P. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what can i give my boyfriend for his birthday...any ideas? I've actually run out of ideas myself, cos i'v already bought him pretty much everything that ppl normal buy for each other...(i've already got him 2 bracelets, choker, ring, 2 t-shirts...) And when i ask him whether he actually NEEDS anything in particular, he always says no.. is there anything you think men would like as a birthday gift? (within reasonable expense ofcourse!!)

Btw, his birthday is next tuesday, next monday is a public holiday where i live so shops are closed...so i need your help pretty quickly pls!! thanks a lot 4 ur help ;)

2007-03-15 09:04:48 · 16 answers · asked by Eevaya 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

this new guy in my life has chosen one of his friend to severly control me, and anytime he is not there or is to proud to show interest his friend will come around, acting kind of normal but is obviously keeping an eye on me, once i caught him talking on his cellphon with me guy but as hesaw me soon he stopped the conversation!! why does a mature boy 24 chose his friend to control me when he is not around??? why?

2007-03-15 09:04:46 · 12 answers · asked by Linda 2 in Singles & Dating