I've always been curious. What do women think about weight on a guy? Does a stomach gut really turn women off? I don't understand it.. If it is so unattractive, then what can I do to attract women?
2007-03-15 09:11:11 · 18 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you could stop assuming they all think the same way.
2007-03-15 09:15:29 · answer #1 · answered by Chanteuse_ar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both men and women care about looks. Of course it has been traditionally inappropriate for women to be a driven by looks as guys but that has changed. you have to remember that different people like different things. there are plenty fo guys who go out with women with "stomach guts" and plenty who will not. It's the same with women although some will still deny it just because they don't want to look superficial. Do you have problem with your appearance? If you think that you need to change yourself because you want to be attractive then you are on the wrong path. If it's for some personal reason that you have then the best way to do it is through diet and cardiovascular exercise.
2007-03-15 16:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on so much more than a flat stomach. Showing a good attitude and being respectful and making me laugh is what attract me personality wise.
As far as looks go, I like a man who takes pride in his appearance - a nice pressed shirt, haircut, clean shave, clean shoes, and cologne goes a long way. I don't want to go out on a date with a pretty boy or a player but it's nice to see that a guy put forth some thought and effort before he walked out of the house. Personally, I like some weight on a man.
2007-03-15 16:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy Sandals 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, a bit of chub doesn't bother me much. I'm critical with my weight, so I guess that could only carry over to what I look for in a guy. As long as he's not obese, it's fine. Because I like to exercise, that would be an activity I'd like to do on dates, like jogging, biking, etc. If he can't bike to the end of the block, there's going to be a problem...
But there are plenty of women who don't give a crap about their guy's weight. You just have to find the right girls that don't depend on physical appearance (which you may be depending on yourself...). So look for the inner beauty of women, and they will see the inner beauty in you!
2007-03-15 16:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by Tess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do care about the weight, just like men do - but not all of them though.
"Does a stomach gut really turn women off?" Would it turn you off? I thought so.
If it is so unattractive you know what to do - start exercising! Dont be lazy! - Its hurts to be beautiful - Just ask us girls!
2007-03-15 16:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by Java Chip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the sake of a guy's health, he should eat smart and excercise a bit - same goes right back at us girls, of course.
I haven't ever turned down a guy who was smart and could make me laugh just because he had a little extra weight. If he can get repeat dates, then he has as good a chance as any guy with a body like a greek statue...
Most important, is to be happy and comfortable with yourself - insecurity is as un-sexy as desperation. If you're not thrilled with your physical self, do something proactive about it, like join an amateur league for your favorite sport, or roller-blading, etc. You might even meet a woman with similar interests while you're at it, and then you have someone to do those things with!
2007-03-15 16:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by Megs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little stomach on a guy is really no big deal!! To attract women, be seductive! Flirt with her, be sexy and charming. This is far more important than having a flat stomach!!
2007-03-15 16:15:01 · answer #7 · answered by F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For most women it not all about appearances. I know sever guys with beer guts that get tons of women. Why you ask because the are confident and know how to create attraction. Now how to build confidence and create attraction, that will cost you $29.95. Or atleast another five points.
2007-03-15 16:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by kinreep 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you are as old as I am (24). The women care about things like job, money, cars, and how many kids you have. They can work with how you look . I mean we got proactive now. I just dress in the lacoste, wear jeans and boots, and rock the paris hilton cologne.
2007-03-15 16:33:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u can go to gym and lose that disgusting stomach of yours. i don't know about all women, because if they re fat maybe they like fat men. but i am not fat, so i hate fat people. and when i see a young guy with stomach like a pendulous pod i always think o, boy, with what place was he thinking when he just started gaining weight?
2007-03-15 16:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I honestly think the inside counts much more. That's what really matters in the long run.
2007-03-15 16:17:08 · answer #11 · answered by Garnet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋