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I need a some answers to this question, the link below:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070315125106AAYTd2H&r=w
If you read past the speech/letter which is not long, you'll see why I wrote it but you don't have to read it unless you want to understand what had happened between me and the girl to be able to answer the question. I'm also asking should I get her anything for her birthday and what to get her (or I'll just ask her friends what she'd like)

Answer 1

OK...if you want to out of the kindness of yor heart then go a head and get her a gift...I would say maybe a cute summer shirt or something or maybe a cute hat or just a card because it's not too personal it just lets her know that you are acknowledging her birthday...nothing too personal or expensive...
...as for the letter/speech I don't know about that hold off on that...I would say to be true to yourself from now on...if your gut feeling tells you to give her the letter than do so (I say letter because she can read it on her own time in private instead of feeling like you are bombarding her with a conversation that she doesn't want in the first place which may annoy her and effect how she interprits what you are saying) if it tells you to just chill and see what happens then do that...I'm torn on the choice because I am looking at it from her side what if you give it to her and she is like this boy still ain't moved on it's been 8 months he's a stalker...or she could be like ok let's see what happens...you never know but if you want to put yourself out there and see what happens then go ahead...if you just got to get it off your chest go a head...
...I think you should keep communication open with her meaning say hello...don't purposely try to spark up a 10min conversation with her if you say hi and things flow and you find that you two are having a real conversation then fine but don't push that on her...you know what I mean?
...prepare yourself mentally for the results...be prepared for things to go how you want but also be prepared for the worst senario too...just try to be freinds and take it slow don't force anything on her and see what life gives you from that...you never know people get married every day that ued to hate each other so the odds aren't bad for you...but remember what you want isn't always what happens...
...I feel like you should just go from today and see what happens...meaning keep saying hi and see what happens...make sure you are there for her like if you know she's moving somewhere then call her up and ask yo do you need any help?...just make sure your actions let her know you are a positive person and you are in her corner...forget the past! and move on with life stop feeling like you need her live your life (if there is another girl who comes p and is showing you good things and you want to grow with her only your gut can tell you to either give it a try or just hold off for this particular girl...go with your gut feeling it won't stear you wrong...maybe 5 months from now you may still want this girl or you may have another friend who makes you feel like life can't get any better...you never know)and if it's meant to be you two will cross paths more and more without it being something forced like you know she'll be somewhere so you go there to see her...life has a funny way of working out...just hope for the best and prepare for the worst and see what comes out...GOOD LUCK and just go with the flow and see what happens...