I'm going out with this guy and hes pretty quite. He would talk to me a little before we started going out but now he really wont becuase i think hes scared. If i aproach him he just kind of gets red and will talk back but i have ot start talknig to him. I dont want to be clingy. He calls me like evry other dya and we sort of talk online but i dont know what to do? Please help me!!!!
2007-03-15 09:07:56 · 8 answers · asked by Micro spice 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aww.
Haha, he likes you and he gets "stomach butterflies" around you...thats cute to me =) at first, but not after like a month.
At least you know your guy is interested.
Men that are too comfortable around you will most likely break up with you because they feel like your more of a friend than a girlfriend.
Talk to him, not us, and let him know how your feeling.
OR: maybe he has a girl and he doesnt want anyone to know yall are going out. Sorry, thats probably not it though.
2007-03-15 09:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by MiiKEY 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you tend to be a loud person, you may intimidate him.He may think that since your loud and you talk a lot, that you will do all the talking and he will just listen.When he calls you, wait for him to ask a question, don't keep on talking.Trust me...he will say something.OR if hes never had a gf before then he may not know what to do.Just try to make him feel comfortable!If he continues to do this after a while, i say BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!!!!!!
2007-03-15 17:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Should Confront Him, since you obviously are more secure and realize the fact that hes shy and your not, bring up how your feeling, but dont just say it flat out. You can do this. He'll open up eventually.
2007-03-15 16:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by Stacy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because he has another girl friend an was just taking a taste of the water an he dont wont his other girl to find out
2007-03-15 16:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by trimstitch_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he's the shy type which, in my opinion, is kind of cute. You can try talking to him and telling him that he seems laid back when it comes to you two talking. Or give it time.
2007-03-15 16:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by blank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your in junior high right well hunny he needs to get comfortable with you make him feel like he can talk to you be being open and always smile and be nice
2007-03-15 16:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there could be a few reasons: he doesn't like you, he doesn,t know how to carry on an interesting converstaion with you, and or he's intimidated by you.
2007-03-15 16:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't like you anymore!
2007-03-15 16:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by Holly Ann 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋