this new guy in my life has chosen one of his friend to severly control me, and anytime he is not there or is to proud to show interest his friend will come around, acting kind of normal but is obviously keeping an eye on me, once i caught him talking on his cellphon with me guy but as hesaw me soon he stopped the conversation!! why does a mature boy 24 chose his friend to control me when he is not around??? why?
2007-03-15 09:04:46 · 12 answers · asked by Linda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound secretly flattered by this attention when you should be running in the other direction.
2007-03-15 09:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all he's definitely not mature if he's got to have some friend checking up on you! You need to get this problem squared away as soon as possible, especially if your newly in a relationship. You need to tell him the deal is either trust me enough to not have me checked on or sorry; Cause' where there's no trust there's no relationship!
2007-03-15 09:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by Green eyed girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He most likley wants to make sure that your not cheating/hanging out with another boy behind his back.
Take this from me, Im a normal girl thats NEVER been in a relationship(because every single guy hates me) but i Know what it's like having someone watch you when the other is not around/paying attention. Mostly because they don't want you to make a move/hang out with another guy.
2007-03-15 09:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by cutegirl67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously is insecure and doesn't trust you...i would rethink the part where you said "mature 24 yr boy"
Don't you think...
Tell him to knock it off or you will hit the road...you don't need people like that in your life
2007-03-15 09:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he is 24 it doesn't make him mature, just sounds like he is controling and it will only get worse. Believe me I know from experience. get out of that relationship now.
2007-03-15 09:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by dreamangel1102002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's not mature. He's insecure and that is a red flag for an abusive relationship. Run far and fast from this guy and his creepy friend.
2007-03-15 09:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by beanie_babymama 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can only be controlled if you let them, 24, he sounds more like 4,.. find some new friends, how about having them both arrested for trespassing, harassment. Don,t let anyone treat you like that. That's no Friend !...That's a Stalker,
2007-03-15 09:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfirend is controlling you and he has trust issues. Run.
2007-03-15 09:10:18 · answer #8 · answered by m k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THAT BEHAVIOR IS NOT NORMAL. YOUR BOYFRIEND IS OBVIOUSLY JEALOUS AND VERY INSECURE. YOU NEED TO GET OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP BEFORE ONE OF YOU SERIOUSLY GETS HURT. i WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP LIKE THAT BEFORE AND AT FIRST I THOUGHT IT WAS CUTE UNTIL HE BECAME ABUSIVE. SO PLEASE DO YA SELF A FAVOR AND GET OUT OF THAT!!
2007-03-15 09:09:05 · answer #9 · answered by msmarieww 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
2 options- or he is not sure about You, or he is a tyrant
2007-03-15 09:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by khachik1975 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋