Family & Relationships - 14 March 2007

ok... so i dated this guy off and on for about a year. before we dated... he was one of my best friends.. i liked him for as long as i can remember... and still do. he's crazy in love with one of my friends... it kills. he knows how i feel... and i would just do anything to get over him, but i just can't! we were perfect when we were together and i miss him to death. we still talk a lot and are pretty good friends.... but we sometimes get in super stupid fights and everything gets messed up. my friend pretty much dumped her boyfriend for him... even though they both won't admit thats the reason. i'm jealous. should i try to let go... or keep holding on?

2007-03-14 11:59:03 · 2 answers · asked by greysanatomylover3 1 in Singles & Dating

He is very funny, good-looking, smart, popular, and has a girlfriend. His girlfriend is my friend too. I like him secrectly. But if I ask him out, and he says yes... he would have to dump my friend... and I don't want that to happen since they have been going out since the beginning of the school year. If he says no, he would tell his friends and my friend cause they tell each other everything. But remember its a secret that i like him and i don't want that to go around the whole school. What should I do???

2007-03-14 11:58:50 · 2 answers · asked by Catherine (: 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband has chatted on occasion with someone who IMed him. I found that he had a new screen name and had sent a picture of himself to this person. He tended to do this when he was out of town or I was out of town. I installed spyware on our computer and have not discovered him doing this again. I still have some trust issues though. I don't want to keep checking on him, then again I don't want to let my guard down and be blindsided either. BTW...this was almost two years ago.

2007-03-14 11:57:41 · 9 answers · asked by Counselor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What traits and characteristics make you go after a girl?

2007-03-14 11:57:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Stations dinner or heavy appetizers party? Destination wedding? Something else?

2007-03-14 11:57:26 · 1 answers · asked by Cinnamon 6 in Weddings

7th or 8th grade?

2007-03-14 11:57:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am 28 years old and mother of 2 and my mom tries to control me and what i do. She never has a good thing to say and always brings up the past . I am trying to be a good mother and do good for my kids and she always brings me down

2007-03-14 11:57:19 · 18 answers · asked by stopmom 1 in Family

I know this is not a question... but, since I don't have many friends to wish me the best I thought I'd share my birthday with you all (a bunch of strangers) lol:


Please, no rude comments on my birthday :)...

Thank you!

P.S. I only got 1 gift ;(!

2007-03-14 11:57:13 · 23 answers · asked by Sheyna 1 in Friends

i just started going out with a girl that i have liked for a while now, but there is a problem. there is this other girl that really likes me, but i really don't like her. for some odd reason, this girl thinks that bugging me until my hair falls out will make me like her. she knows that i am going out with the other girl, but doesn't care and has even tried telling me to break up with her today right in front of my new gf. she has been doing stuff like this for a while now, and i have tried to be really nice about putting her down, but she still persists. if she keeps this up, im going to snap!!!! the girl im with is getting pretty ticked as well, they have already gotten in an argument and want to take it further, but i would really rather not have them fight( even though my girl would win). how can i get rid of this psycho?

2007-03-14 11:57:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I heard their like that.

2007-03-14 11:56:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-14 11:56:54 · 3 answers · asked by chezplz 2 in Family

could do when making out (on bed/couch etc. etc)? what do u like and what turns you on? and not JUST making out if u know........

2007-03-14 11:56:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom refuses 2 everything that is okay to do!!!! I want 2 know if u agree with me or her.
OK my bff invited me 2 go to FL with her and her family over spring brake. I’m not doing anythin 4 spring break!!!!! My mom says its not safe and I should be in scummy Georgia at home w/ my family doing ****!

another time she was bitchy was when she wouldn’t let me go to barnes and noble to read with my buddies. it all started because to pass my grade there has to be 25 books read. My friends and I wanted to read books like a book club together at barnes and noble! My mom said no its not safe cause we’d get stolen since we were alone! Now for the third situation: my friend has tickets for the fray’s concert. Her mom and dad R going and she needs to invite 3 friends. She invited me and my other friends and my mom said nooo because the sound is 2 loud! Isn’t she a *****????????

2007-03-14 11:56:15 · 2 answers · asked by chezplz 2 in Family

2007-03-14 11:56:00 · 19 answers · asked by Mike 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been separated for more than a year and a half - process of divorcing - and even though I filed for the divorce, I still cannot get over how my ex is simply moving on. We had a horrible relationship (he physically and verbally abused me) yet I feel like I can't deal with the fact that he is going out with girls without a care in the world - leaving me to be completely responsible for the child we have together (except for the few times a month he sees her). How can I stop being such a bitter betty and just let go?

2007-03-14 11:55:39 · 18 answers · asked by MO 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my mate have all my class against us and their always shouting at us and even people frm other classes are at it too. we have to avoid all the people who decided they'd call us names and throw things at us.We've told teachers but they dont seem to be doing anyfing about it. any advice?

2007-03-14 11:55:28 · 20 answers · asked by melissa p 1 in Friends

what are things felling you happy

2007-03-14 11:54:59 · 9 answers · asked by yaseen e 1 in Family

At at dinner he keeps giving you a small portion, and he won't buy you chocolate, because according to what he says, as long as there is chocolate at home, he can't resist it, and he's trying to eat healthy.
Also when we're watching tv, let's say he goes to the kitchen, and gets something to eat like a snack, he never offers me any, he just eats everything by himself.
Although i'm not over weight, and sometimes i think maybe because i'm not he thinks that i eat like a bird and that i don't really need food, i don't know

2007-03-14 11:54:34 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey do i look overweight by any chance i am 5' 9 inches 170 pounds i workout in the gym 4 times a week and i do cardio i dont have no cut abs or nothing i still got some body fat on me dose that mean i am considerd overweight, i know its unusuall for a guy to be asking this question but i was very overweight when i was younger and people made fun of me. do girls like guys like me

http://s171.photobucket.com/albums/u320/deen_bucket/?action=view¤t=n507841068_33707_6736.jpg


http://s171.photobucket.com/albums/u320/deen_bucket/?action=view¤t=n507841068_33688_271.jpg

http://s171.photobucket.com/albums/u320/deen_bucket/?action=view¤t=me_and_deen.jpg

2007-03-14 11:53:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should I do? I am 90% sure that he feels safe, loved, etc. Why won't he talk?

2007-03-14 11:53:16 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This week, I have four birthdays to attend to, and on friday theres two of them! These four birthdays are for four very different people.

1. My cousin's (he's a boy, about to turn 8)
2. My little brother (about to be 3)
3. My aunt (probably somewhere in her 40s)
4. My friend Heather (about to be 12)

*** My little brother already as A LOT of cars.

any idea on what kind of gift to give them?

2007-03-14 11:52:56 · 4 answers · asked by !♥~FaY9512~♥! 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well, it happened. My ex girlfriend is dating. We just broke up 6 weeks ago. I knew this would happen eventually, and I'd never give her a hard time about it; I know I have no right to do that. It sure seems like she got over the whole thing awful fast, though. I'm dealing with all these emotions: jealousy, hurt, anger, even disappointment. How can I best deal with all of these chaotic emotions and feel better about the whole situation? How could she forget me so quickly?

2007-03-14 11:52:44 · 9 answers · asked by aquaman2964 3 in Singles & Dating

I need help! I like this guy that my friend likes but she hates me whenever he asks me to go do somthing with him. She is sometimes so mean to me that once she almost got expelled from school!!!!!!!!!!!! Can you help me?

2007-03-14 11:52:39 · 5 answers · asked by Chase 2 in Singles & Dating

im 15 and scince iwas 12 my heart have been telling me that this girl who i never dated but i knew her, who moved away from me was the one for me and that were meant to be together and in my gut i just know im the one who shes meant to be with,i dont know for sure if she loved me becuase she never told me but when ever she would stare into my eyes i just know she loves me and and in my gut i just know shes going to end up the mother of my kids even though were far away from eachother,im trying not to get my hopes high about her but shes been gone for like six months and i still think about her alot

2007-03-14 11:52:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can i convince my mom to let me go a little? to stop being so overprotective of me. i'm 13, but really, i have to have an adult there when i'm at somebody's house and i have to have supervised dates. any tips? plus i want to go to the keiki club and have big parties. somebody help

2007-03-14 11:51:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Alright, so I have a whole bunch of friends ( I love them to death..) and I introduced them to my boyfriend (at the time) and it was cool. They got to know him I guess. But now him and I had a really bad break-up, and they're always hanging out with him. He sits beside us, does things with us..and after school sometimes I have to walk home by myself because they wanna be with him, and it's too awkward for me to be there as well, because he just ignores me, and talks to them.

Is it right that I am slightly mad at them? Aren't friends supposed to understand these sorts of things?

Also, I don't want them NOT to be friends with him...I just want them to hang out with him and I seperatley, is that such a crime? What should I say to them?

2007-03-14 11:51:55 · 5 answers · asked by bronwen4@rogers.com 2 in Singles & Dating

My girl has been giveing me a lot of stress because of my friend. I told her that I can't choose but she still wants me to. I've known my friend for 5 years and my girl feels threatened by her because we talk alot. Any advise would be very helpful. thanks

2007-03-14 11:51:25 · 12 answers · asked by blackbelt69101 1 in Singles & Dating

WE'VE LIKE EACHOTHER FOR ONLY THE SECOND SEMESTER SO FAR. WHENEVER PEOPLE TEASE US ABOUT LIKING EACHOTHER WE DENY IT. IS THAT BAD? WE EMAIL ALOT AND THATS WHEN HE ASKED IF I WANTED TO BE HIS GIRLFRIEND SHOULD I SAY YES?

2007-03-14 11:51:17 · 23 answers · asked by Naomi L 1 in Singles & Dating

i split up with my ex just over two weeks ago.During our year relationship,we had a month's break,during which he kissed two girls.He invited them to all our friends parties that i was at and it hurt me.We got back together,but eventually i left him because he did something...the same night we split,he slept in bed with one of the girl's innocently, which i believe.We have decided to stay friends,but he's bombarding me with messages that say 'love you',is hugging me,saying he misses me and acting overly-friendly.Now,i have found out he has been seeing the second girl since we split up,but wants me back.I just wanted him as a friend,i want to move.I need to stay friends with him because we are still at school and i see him constantly.I dont know what to do.

2007-03-14 11:50:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Something stupid, mean, funny, interesting,...whatever. Just say something to make my day brighter.

2007-03-14 11:50:10 · 25 answers · asked by Race Cars 1 in Singles & Dating