Alright, so I have a whole bunch of friends ( I love them to death..) and I introduced them to my boyfriend (at the time) and it was cool. They got to know him I guess. But now him and I had a really bad break-up, and they're always hanging out with him. He sits beside us, does things with us..and after school sometimes I have to walk home by myself because they wanna be with him, and it's too awkward for me to be there as well, because he just ignores me, and talks to them.
Is it right that I am slightly mad at them? Aren't friends supposed to understand these sorts of things?
Also, I don't want them NOT to be friends with him...I just want them to hang out with him and I seperatley, is that such a crime? What should I say to them?
2007-03-14 11:51:55 · 5 answers · asked by bronwen4@rogers.com 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with you, if you are not comfortable being around him because of the bad break-up then they should understand!!! I would approach them individually and tell them how you feel, if they are true friends they will respect your wishes and your feelings.
2007-03-14 11:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by tha_best 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a crime, it's totally understandable. Just one day when you guys are talking or something bring up that you feel really uncomfortable around him. Sometimes if you're planning on hanging out just say "and can today be without so-n-so? i feel really weird around him". You gotta be honest with them.
2007-03-14 18:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by LoveisfirE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if ur friends know about ur bad break-up, they should understand if u want to hang out with them separately. if they really are good friends, they won`t reject you over him.
2007-03-14 18:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by blakeyboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like they are choosing him over you...
talk to them
2007-03-14 18:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by JOANclay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to be real friends. that's messed up. i'd be so pissed.
2007-03-14 18:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by cynfyx3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋