My girl has been giveing me a lot of stress because of my friend. I told her that I can't choose but she still wants me to. I've known my friend for 5 years and my girl feels threatened by her because we talk alot. Any advise would be very helpful. thanks
2007-03-14 11:51:25 · 12 answers · asked by blackbelt69101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont be dumb. You probably should think about getting rid of your girlfriend. If she is trying to make you get rid of a good friend now what will she be like down the road?
2007-03-14 12:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by Steveo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been through that situation (me being the friend).
If she can't handle you talking to your friend then what kind of a girlfriend is she? You shouldn't have to choose between people. As long as you don't have feelings for the friend then it's alright.
Talk to your girlfriend and reassure her that there's nothing going on.
2007-03-14 11:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got asked to do the same thing and i chose my bf over my best male m8. Biggest mistake of my life! However, there must be something between u and your friend that makes your gf jelous. Flirt much? Maybe you can keep both, but dont talk as much, or flirt or hang out with your friend as much as you would. When your with ur gf be all over her, but not too much incase she thinks you are trying to make your friend jelous. Make your gf feel so special over her she does not need to worry. Invite ur gf to the movies when ur going with ur friend and stuff like that. If that dont work, you have to make that choice. Who is more important to you?
2007-03-14 12:02:41 · answer #3 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime it hard for some GF to expect that their BF talk more with their female Friend and you need to understand that she maybe be feeling like to cannot talk you her about anything, yes it wrong that she making you choose her or your female Friend. But you need to put yourself in her shoes....
2007-03-14 11:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love your girl, then pick her. Or better yet, try to compromise. If you cant choose a love over a friend then you dont have true feelings for your girl. Try to compromise, saying u will try to talk to your friend less or something
2007-03-14 11:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by kaybethj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be carefull of Women who want to push others out of your life. This is an issue that they have and can never be resolved by actions you teke. Next it could be your family, etc. Ultimately, ultimatems are redundant. In that she is telling you to choose, she is ignoring the fact that you have chosen and is refusing to take the responsibilty of choosing what to do herself... another important warning sign to look out for friend.
Good luck.
2007-03-14 11:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls come and go, but, real friends are forever. You can get another girlfriend, but, good friends are hard to come by. She shouldn't make you choose anyway.
2007-03-14 11:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
without trust there is no relationship..if she really doesnt trust you as harsch as it sounds theres no relationship neway n u should just try to let i go..if u isolate ur friends n forget about them in the end when and if u and ur girl break up, ull have nothing and no1..dont let a relationship do that to you...part of lovin you is accepting ur friends as well...stand ur ground
2007-03-14 12:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by serialshopper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that your friend is your friend and if she has a problem with it than you're sorry it's over. She can't make you stop being friends with her. Tell her to get over it.
2007-03-14 11:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why ask? hey if you love your girl, you know what to do. If she's your friend (the other girl) she would understand if you'll explain to her, unless you do have something for that friend that's why you cant choose...
2007-03-14 11:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by mushy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋