i split up with my ex just over two weeks ago.During our year relationship,we had a month's break,during which he kissed two girls.He invited them to all our friends parties that i was at and it hurt me.We got back together,but eventually i left him because he did something...the same night we split,he slept in bed with one of the girl's innocently, which i believe.We have decided to stay friends,but he's bombarding me with messages that say 'love you',is hugging me,saying he misses me and acting overly-friendly.Now,i have found out he has been seeing the second girl since we split up,but wants me back.I just wanted him as a friend,i want to move.I need to stay friends with him because we are still at school and i see him constantly.I dont know what to do.
2007-03-14 11:50:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be done with him. It obviously didn't even work the second chance, so it's probably not going to work out if you get back in a relationship with him. HE's just wanting you back now cause you're gone. I had the same thing happen to me, it'll just get worse when you get into another relationship... You need to tell him you only want to be friends and if you can't do that you can't be anything at all.
2007-03-14 11:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by LoveisfirE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing is you should not accept any ex's as friends that is just a slick way of holding on. When you split up with him the second time that should have been it. Even though you may attend the same school doesn't mean that you have to associate with him. You need to let it go friendship and all. He has shown you what he is about. You can speak to him to show him who is the bigger person and that is it! You don't have to do what you don't want to do so get a grip and move on to something else or someone else.
2007-03-14 18:59:40 · answer #2 · answered by doodie315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl u need to break all contact with him on that cuz he sound like the type that wanna have both of ya'll, and I know I dont know him so I really can't be the judge of that. But you dont need to talk to him no futher than inside of school. But yea I think you need to leave him lone all together!!
2007-03-14 18:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by Tanya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well since you do have a history and you HAVE to see him constantly...it's smart on your part to choose to stay friends..but you have to make it clear to him that you want nothing more than that. If he starts with the I love you and all that..fine..maybe he realizes what he had...and really does miss it. If he's not what you want and you're sure of it..make it known....clearly known.
2007-03-14 18:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by Tasha D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay happy, no matter what , he want to talk to you speak to him tell him what an *** he is as a loyal boyfrined , and that he needs to change for his own's future happiness.
2007-03-14 19:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a healthy friendship to have just be civil enough to say hi and bye.
2007-03-14 18:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by Noree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him exactley how u feel and lay down the line if he doesn't like that's his problem not urs!
2007-03-14 18:56:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha call the police ahah nice.
well tell him to stop.
cause you dont like him like that.
so just remain friends with him.
2007-03-14 18:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends but limit how much to talk and how much you are around each other.
2007-03-14 18:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police and say he raped you.
that will get him some jail time, and he wont get to you.
2007-03-14 18:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋