Family & Relationships - 13 March 2007

It's one thing to get a guy off the site single, but it's sick to do it married. Has anyone acheived anythng on this site? A friend of my began talking to men on the site. I put my ad on it this morning. The only man who has answered my ad is a man who supposedly has a sick wife. I e-mailed him back saying that I don't want a cheat. A man who cheats with will cheat on. I want a committment not a man who needs to be committed.
I saw the profile of the guy I saw on "Phil",too.
There were only six men from my state in the site.
I have never been a golddigger. It's hard for me to find a well off guy. Actually I want my own career besides, what if the relationship ends and I'm held out to dry? I still plan to have a career despite it having been intricate dueu to a learning disability. I want it in computers.

2007-03-13 11:54:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After 28 years of putting up with a husband who I thought was Lazy..and may still be, because he could only get one thing done a weekend. He has been diagnosed with attention deficient disorder and put on drugs for this. While it focuses his attention he turns into a nasty, sniping, hyper, horrible type person to his children and me. They have adjusted the dosage of meds, changed meds even, yet he still remains nearly unlivable with. He is also sneaking vodka..has a partial bottle in trunk of car, putting booze in cranberry juice at home. His partnership at the office has come apart (20+ year business) due to his lack of patience with partner, he is starting another business but doesn't want me to help. Counselor says I'm the natural organizer and should be helping but husband won't let me. 2 kids. One Freshman college, one junior high school. Should I just tough out till she graduates and then bail this marriage?

2007-03-13 11:54:22 · 13 answers · asked by goatgal88 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok how many holesdo girls have in their butt

2007-03-13 11:53:55 · 1 answers · asked by david k 1 in Singles & Dating

Are there any reports or web sites on this subject so that I can get an Informed un-biased opinion?
Children need toys YES obviously. But must the floor be completely covered? Do children need some degree of order with play time. Ok lets not get too strict either way on this subject. Am looking for an average responce with regards thoughts on childs development. What sort of enviroment do we feel best suits our children..messy cluttered toys everwhere or most toys in bedroom with certain toys in family room???

2007-03-13 11:53:52 · 26 answers · asked by mac_mac_uk 2 in Family

Met this guy all is going good, his ex girlfriend announces she is 3 months pregnant! What should I do? i really care about this guy and I dont really believe that she is pregnant. He told her just before she announced it that he is moving away and he had met me then she tells him. He said he wants to do the right thing and support her. I dont want to lose him especially if she is doing this to get him back. Plus 3 months ago she had been cheating on him with 2 guys- it may not even be his??

2007-03-13 11:53:07 · 9 answers · asked by seza 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Women are often very subtle and therefore don't always fully express what they really mean.

When a man asks a woman out for a first date, how can we recognize the difference between:

(a) no means = "No, thanks. I'm not interested. Please leave me alone and don't ever ask me again."

(b) no means = "No, thanks, I'm not interested right now, but I hope you will ask me again another time."

Please bear in mind that I am talking about a respectful, mature, polite situation in both "a" and "b" and nothing creepy. Just because they illustrate negative responses doesn't mean it is a *bad* situation. For example situation "a" could be she thinks he is a decent guy but he just isn't her type and feels no attraction towards him. Situation "b" could be she is interested but she's got her hands full with stuff that she might not want to talk about, e.g. work, college, kids, family, etc.

2007-03-13 11:52:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

oh well i have a bf who lives 5 hours away and just turned 14. and i really really lik him. well i was gona break up with him but i culdnt do it on his b-day so i waited. and thr was this boy who i was gona go out with wen i broke up with my bf. so wen i go 2 do it he says he luvs me and is glad i put up with this long distance relatioship 4 him. so i culdn't do it then i culdn't bring myself 2 do so. but now i'm not so sure if he cares about me any more. he just plays video games and goes, "yea, uhuh. i knw baby" and rarly do i get the baby. he neva says he luvs me wen were done talkin any more and i call him, he neva calls me. but the thing is im not as big on the boy here. but he still is here and i knw he cares about me. who shuld i date? dump my bf and go 4 the othr guy, or stay with my bf and hope it gets betta?

2007-03-13 11:51:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am planning on having just a regular spend the night party with a bunch of my friends so can you give some ideas of fun things that we could do? thanks! i will report people who give me an answer with curse words or anything else not appropriate

2007-03-13 11:50:47 · 13 answers · asked by Sevyn 2 in Friends

Well, lets call my best mates E & B
The boys, C & Ch
And me, um Miss. Cazzi duh

Well, E fancied Ch, who fancies me (and is also my mate), but i only half fancy Ch, but mostly fancy C. But B fancies C, and C fancies somebody entirely different!

ITS ALL SO CONFUZZLING!!! any help?

2007-03-13 11:49:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We've dated for a month, after 2 weeks, we agreed we were boyfriend and girlfriend. She's a virgin, I'm not. I wonder why she never calls, I think it's cuz she doesn't know how to be a girlfriend...what do you all think? Please be serious, i know this is funny, but still...lol.

2007-03-13 11:49:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I told my husband I did not want him smoking weed anymore and he does not want to give it up! It really bothers me because it makes him want to go out more than if he didn't smoke. We have two small kids and I told him we need to set an example for them and I didn't want it around them. Today he told me he will stop until we get our house built and then see about stopping completely, but I know it's not going to happen. I want to start going back to church and start living a better life and he does not. Should I have to stick around and put up with it?

2007-03-13 11:49:11 · 26 answers · asked by wifey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He seems to have cut himself off from me, while he claims he needs to fix this problem on his own. The distance is really bothering me, because he has always confided in me when something is wrong. But in this case I just don't know what to do because he won't open up.

2007-03-13 11:49:05 · 1 answers · asked by Mal 1 in Friends

This is something that I was recommended to try with my friends on a different question, and was told that someone would probably puke. Is that ture? And, if so, is it still a fun thing to do for everyone c hugging, or do we all just get sick and feel like we need to throw up for an hour?

2007-03-13 11:48:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My wife is an alcoholic and the only time i can get some is when she passes out. Is this wrong of me.

2007-03-13 11:48:43 · 30 answers · asked by maxexposure2003 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If your the "lets wait" type.

whats your usual hold out time?

3 dates,2 weeks a month?

help me out.

2007-03-13 11:48:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband doesn't understand why i feel so empty but it is because he will not open up to me or show me the affection as he once did please help me write me a letter and explain how i feel.I'am not good at putting my feelings into words.I want it to be greta!!

2007-03-13 11:48:09 · 6 answers · asked by jessica b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a junior girl and i like a freshman. will he think this is totally weird if i ask him out?? He smiles and stares at me a lot. But is kind of shy.... i think thats because of the age difference. Do i have a chance with him?

2007-03-13 11:47:24 · 19 answers · asked by Caca L 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 11:47:12 · 6 answers · asked by DizziDazi 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 11:47:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you were just walking on the street and a chick came up and grabbed your balls out of the blue. She just walked up to you in bright daylight and did it. What would you do? Be serious!

I have thought about doing this to a few guys on the street, but never could figure out what they would think. I think I' am freak.

2007-03-13 11:46:53 · 11 answers · asked by Kalin J 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been casually dating this guy for about 7 months now. in the begining he was saying that he wanted a relationship but now he doesnt at first it was okay but now I got feelings for him and its hard for us to be friends. i told him that i didnt want to continue messing around with him and that if we was gonna be friends we should just be friends. At first we didnt talk for almost a month but now we are back at it again. He says that he cares for me but Im not sure anymore.We are still playing these games. Its not about sex because we dont have it all the time. He said that I have to many male friends is that why he is playing these games

2007-03-13 11:46:48 · 11 answers · asked by tboo24lif83 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 11:46:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 11:45:58 · 9 answers · asked by Brishna M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-13 11:45:43 · 8 answers · asked by the man 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-13 11:45:33 · 2 answers · asked by treversweet 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been on and off with my ex and i may still feelings for him but the thing is, i have a boyfriend and that's not fair to him if i like another guy. i need help!!!

2007-03-13 11:44:57 · 35 answers · asked by Sadie 5 in Singles & Dating

My friend tina is considering marrying her friend from India so he can gain permenant residency. She thinks that it is going to be a short time ( 2 yrs. or less) I keep telling her A) this is illegal B) I read about it and you only get a conditional residency after 2 yr. So a permenant one has to be longer. Can I get a website or something to support this from someone ? He's a great guy, but she can't keep a plant alive let alone a marriage.lol

2007-03-13 11:44:50 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known her for about a month, we went on one date, but we talk on the phone and online everyday.
She calls me Lovebug, Cutie. My Prince, Babe...
She is the best guys she could ever dream of....blah blah...

Should I ask her "Do you want to be my girlfriend?"

2007-03-13 11:43:40 · 6 answers · asked by rockability 1 in Singles & Dating

Some women say that clitoral stimulation is what causes them to orgasm. While the penis is just a arousal tool. Is this true? Do more woman orgasm from clitoral stimulation or do they orgasm by having a strong, nice looking blackman lay his love muscle dowm?

2007-03-13 11:43:29 · 7 answers · asked by citizenparticular 2 in Singles & Dating

I have waited too long to order my bridesmaids dresses. Is there anywhere I can order from with more like a 3-4 week or even 4-6 week delivery time? or is it too late??? I had originally wanted to order Jim Hjelm bridesmaid dresses but they take 12-16 weeks to be delivered and then alterations!

2007-03-13 11:43:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings