oh well i have a bf who lives 5 hours away and just turned 14. and i really really lik him. well i was gona break up with him but i culdnt do it on his b-day so i waited. and thr was this boy who i was gona go out with wen i broke up with my bf. so wen i go 2 do it he says he luvs me and is glad i put up with this long distance relatioship 4 him. so i culdn't do it then i culdn't bring myself 2 do so. but now i'm not so sure if he cares about me any more. he just plays video games and goes, "yea, uhuh. i knw baby" and rarly do i get the baby. he neva says he luvs me wen were done talkin any more and i call him, he neva calls me. but the thing is im not as big on the boy here. but he still is here and i knw he cares about me. who shuld i date? dump my bf and go 4 the othr guy, or stay with my bf and hope it gets betta?
2007-03-13 11:51:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you're bf is the one you're really sweet on just talk to him about this problem and if he understands and tries to fix it then you know hes worth putting up with the distance for.. if he jsut flat out doesn't give a care then i'd give the other guy a chance.. goodluck with everything
2007-03-13 11:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by brittaboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,No,No, u got it all wrong!
You break up with ur bf and don't go out with the other guy yet, he'll think u dumped him for the other guy and u dumped him cuz he doesn't pay attention to you and ignores you, right?
That's why not cuz u want the other guy instead!
2007-03-13 11:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think long distance relationships never work. And 50 percent chance he's cheating.
I think you shoudl get it over with and dump him.
Explain to him how long distance relationships NEVER work out, and that you may like some other people.
As for this other guy.
I think you should wait a while to go out with him.
Try being single.
I promise it's fun!
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2007-03-13 11:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump ur bf it sounds like the long distance is sort of a stretch anyway, and also u were going to break up with him before thenn...so it sounds like you need to let go a bit and it's better to have a bf who cares about u than one that doesn't.
2007-03-13 11:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by insane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. YOU'RE TOO YOUNG
2. dont worry about these things so early, don't worry about these things. Brake it off with him and leave it alone for a while, like maybe until you're 15 or in high school.
2007-03-13 11:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by hatchly758 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump your bf and date the othr guy.
2007-03-13 11:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by andrewshfr639 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well talk to him, tell him how you feel (with out the dumping part) see how he responds then if he still acts the same way, dump him! if not, well, that's your decision.
2007-03-13 12:11:33 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, if he treats u like that, dump his sorry ***. u deserve to be with someone who actually cares about u and doenst just use u
2007-03-13 11:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooo i vote dump him...girl if he dont talk to you then dump his sorry *** on the side of the road!
2007-03-13 11:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by Punk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋