Met this guy all is going good, his ex girlfriend announces she is 3 months pregnant! What should I do? i really care about this guy and I dont really believe that she is pregnant. He told her just before she announced it that he is moving away and he had met me then she tells him. He said he wants to do the right thing and support her. I dont want to lose him especially if she is doing this to get him back. Plus 3 months ago she had been cheating on him with 2 guys- it may not even be his??
2007-03-13 11:53:07 · 9 answers · asked by seza 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ill step aside.... have u ever watched the Maury show.... lol.... nothing worse than being the girlfriend that keeps the guy from his child and saying its not his and shes a slut.... not good... do urself a favor and just find someone that has NO issues...
2007-03-13 12:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is quite the sticky situation.
Tell your boyfriend that you love him, and you think the noble thing to do would to be to support the child, but that the noble thing isn't always the smart thing.
Make him wait until the child is born (If it is) And the demand a paternity test.
Then go from there.
I hope everything works out to your favor!
(PS I think you should also tell him it's not good to sleep with multiple people, such as this skank who seems to be sleeping with every other guy!)
2007-03-13 12:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you care about him and that you will be there for him. Let him know that even if it is his it doesn't mean anything has to change between yall. Keep letting the girl say she is pregnant and when/if the baby comes test and see whos it is. If it is his then he can support it and be there for it but it doesn't mean he has to marry her. If it isn't his then get her out of your life and fast. hope this helps.
2007-03-13 12:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by Daze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is achieveable he's being thoroughly truthful.. yet you would be able to desire to make different sacrifices and settle for the reality the ex will continuously be in his life. the baby binds them. are you able to settle for sharing his time with the ex and the toddler? it will be exceedingly complicated for you because of the fact the being pregnant will make her reliant on him. he's doing what he feels is sturdy and feels accountability certain. he's not fairly a father yet... not likely. females have the income.. they adventure the pass of the toddler and each and all of the emotional transformations in the time of being pregnant that practice her.... adult adult males basically basically watch this ensue. they actually don't comprehend the impression of fatherhood till they might desire to purchase needs, exchange diapers, freshen up toddler barf, and then they ask your self what the hell they have been given into... because of the fact the toddler would not do lots yet sleep, make noise, and improve messes than what you put in it. while the toddler starts off smiling, giggling, and would react to Daddy.. this is while the daddy shines. this would make you jealous and sense ineffective. then you would desire to locate what your place in it is because.. the toddler isn't yours. this would reason themes on your courting. this is fairly as much as you in case you are able to settle for those as information.
2016-12-19 04:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by symons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least he is willing to step up to the plate if he has gotten someone pregnant. While she may be lying, are you prepared for the consequences if she is not? This means she will be forever in his life (even just as his baby's mother).
2007-03-13 11:59:27 · answer #5 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maury Povich!
2007-03-13 14:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by ryan_dobson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing u can do is say " i will be with u and help u when u need it . " i meen think about it . the best thing he could do is help but he doesnt hav to marry her unless he loves her but it doesnt sound like it . let him help her just keep a little eye on her just to make sure . help him 2 if he needs it . best of luck and hope it works !
2007-03-13 11:58:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for her to get a test to make sure the baby is his. If the baby is his I would stop seeing him, and if not go on with life!
2007-03-13 12:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by OceanBreeze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
test to find out whos it is first of all then if its his he better support her
2007-03-13 11:56:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋