Family & Relationships - 11 March 2007

my ex an i split when our baby was 3 month old i have had nothing to do with him my ex for just over 3years he has had no contact with our son since he was 3 month old i know its better this way cause kids need stability in there life, he doesnt need to keep seeing dad with different girlfriends, what happens is that after he gets with some one he starts cheating on them an trying it on with me yet when i ask him he like says oh you didnt really fink anything was goin 2 happen did ya, lol er no i know nothing was going to happen but why is he doing this like i say my baby was 3 month old he now just gone 4year old my ex is doing my head in, i dont want him back cause i know he will just hurt me an ma baby again, i really like this other guy tho a mate of my exs i think he like me cause of the way he look at me i know he loves ma lil boy 2 bits, but like i said he a mate of my ex what do i do and how will i know for sure i dont want to look an idiot

2007-03-11 13:02:43 · 9 answers · asked by loubylou 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I hate how feelings are, how emotions can weave such intricate patterns that can't be undone. I have a hunch that if I tell him I love them or even like him those feelings will disperse, but when I try and suppress these feelings it just kills me inside. The thing is I know I can't like that person. There's absolutely no possibility in it happening. I've thought to myself and told others that anything can happen. Maybe all it takes is time. If I think of different scenarios in my head I have a feeling that it definitely isn't going to happen.

2007-03-11 13:02:16 · 9 answers · asked by flowerlily629 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend who I love so much. We've been together for a year now. We used to go to the same school but he moved in a different city 7 months ago. I know that he cares about me and he loves me alot but why is it that sometimes when we dont talk on the phone or see eachother I feel like all that is just a make believe and that he probably talking to another girl and I get mad and i start thinking about negative stuff like what if he cheats on me, but when im talking to him and he reminds me how much he loves me which he always do when we talk on the phone...then I cry and I felt bad because I know he loves me but I just cant stop worrying that one day he'll just lie to me and cheat. My last boyfriend cheated on me and maybe thats was the reason i assume things too much. Do any of you felt this way before?? Or is it just me?

2007-03-11 13:02:09 · 8 answers · asked by honeyy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont have a prom partner but the people I do talk to they lame and reserved, what should I do?

2007-03-11 13:02:05 · 4 answers · asked by Sonia2003 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm good friends with this girl. I like her but she doesnt know it. How can I tell her without making her feel uncomfortable? If I tell her and she doesnt like me back, do u think we can still be friends?

2007-03-11 13:02:01 · 9 answers · asked by john H. 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not allowed to ask him out because I'm only in 5th grade soo ya.

2007-03-11 13:01:10 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

I don't know what to do anymore. My husband won't kiss me, more than a VERY quick peck on the lips...and it's rare. He says it's because I smoke. (I did not smoke for much of my marriage.) I'd believe it, but he won't kiss me longer or more deeply even if I've abstained for few hours and use breath freshener after brushing my teeth. He hardly ever holds my hand. He never puts his arm around me in public, and very seldom does it in private. We don't have sex and he doesn't even really notice when I'm naked. In 18 years of marriage, I think he has given me oral twice. And those times were brief. He doesn't easily get erections anymore. He is 44 years old and claims he's "old" now and that's why he's not interested. I'm 38 and I cannot imagine spending the rest of my life like this. Please don't tell me to get counseling, or to tell him to see a physician. He tried it once several years ago and i think the dr made him self-conscious so he won't go back. Any ideas?

2007-03-11 13:00:45 · 3 answers · asked by Flavorsplash 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-11 13:00:07 · 13 answers · asked by hawaiiangrl12 1 in Friends

he is so cute but i dont know if he is right every guy likes me but i dont know i thik he is cheating on me

2007-03-11 12:59:10 · 10 answers · asked by MOST_HATED AKA:ALYSSA 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance's parents are paying for the dinner but his mother only told me 20 people are allowed to come. Well including me and my fiance there are 12 people in the wedding party without their spouses. My fiance brothers are in the wedding and so their spouses and children are coming but all that adds up to 20 people. His mom said i can have my dad (my mother passed away) and grandparents come but not the flower girls or their parents. I think my aunts and uncles should be able to come and my wedding parties spouses. Who is supposed to come to the rehearsal dinner and what do i do with all my family coming from out of town??

2007-03-11 12:58:46 · 19 answers · asked by Laura T 1 in Weddings

well my dad dont live with me annd i want to know if i should live with him and my mean stepmom or my mom what should i do

2007-03-11 12:58:38 · 8 answers · asked by hailey a 2 in Family

i dont really get jealous of celebs but then again im not a jealous person

2007-03-11 12:58:03 · 9 answers · asked by Swett As Sugar 1 in Friends

please help! i have liked him for 3 years now, and he never even talks to me that much...how do i make him notice me???

2007-03-11 12:57:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a bf and my mom and gma dont like him so him and i (when we r on the fone) i call him sum1 else like my bffs name or the first one that pops into my head if my mom asks and my gma has cancer so i dont want her to die w/ me keepin this lie but i dont wanna tell them unless i kno its true love... i think it is cuz hes all i think about, and we talked on the fone the other day and i keep replayin that convo in my head over and over. i cant wait till that time that he calls me and i get all hyper and i get butterfly's in my stomache when we talk, r close to each other, or i think about him................ is ti true love? should i tell my family, or keep him my special secret (thats wat he calls me) :) ♥

2007-03-11 12:56:25 · 5 answers · asked by hotchikdancer 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 23 and my fiance is 37 and we have been together for alittle over 3 years. We recently got engaged and all i have been thinking about is having a baby.My fiance says now is not the right time because we have lots of bills and were not too good with our money and paying bills on time. I am just finishing up college and getting myself into a good career,doing everything i can to better our situation while he is not,which really upsets me. He wants to wait till after we get married,but he is making no effort to even start planning for a wedding,and wants to get married late next year. Is it selfish of me that i dont want to wait that long and i want to start trying maybe at the end of this year?

2007-03-11 12:55:36 · 35 answers · asked by peacelily0107 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-11 12:55:28 · 8 answers · asked by Danny D 1 in Singles & Dating

I like my sisters BFF brother hes really cute but my sisters BFF says Its creepy and My sister thinks its cute but the only problems are he is 7 years older then me

2007-03-11 12:54:33 · 14 answers · asked by Popular girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boy best friend who i have hung out with scince i was little! He is cute and I really like him, but wat if we break up will we hate each other?

2007-03-11 12:53:45 · 7 answers · asked by taykuly 2 in Singles & Dating

an obsessive all day thing?

2007-03-11 12:53:09 · 14 answers · asked by boo 1 in Friends

i have a cap in mind. how can i tell the difference between friendship and fancy? so far this guy cooked me a lavish meal, then asked me if i would be interested in being set up with other men. he flirts often. we had a 9hr long discussion about intellectual stuff, until 1am. he told me about his family, past relationships, past depression. he's considerate, etc. but i am not sure if this is different than what he would normally do with any other girl. and him being a cap, he's moody, so i just don't know. he's kind in private and dismissive in company. oh and please, don't tell me to disregard the zodiac, this is pure inquiry, i do have a brain otherwise. i am a virgo by the way.

2007-03-11 12:53:05 · 5 answers · asked by moosekid 2 in Singles & Dating

well i am new here but i feel that people should keep their information like your real names things of that sort to themselves and not share you could be putting yourself in danger and another person i think that if this keeps happening that yahoo answers will not differ alot from myspace .... thank you for answering my first qestion.........) do you agree

2007-03-11 12:52:56 · 17 answers · asked by alex 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in September. The more I plan and the closer it gets the more money I am spending. It's stressing me out. I was just wondering if you have any tips on saving money and planning a wedding.

2007-03-11 12:51:53 · 16 answers · asked by Heart 1 in Weddings

Me and him have known eachother for a while and we are really close. We say I love you to eachother and we both like eachother but we are in school together and he turns red and is shy.. the total opposite of his normal self. When we talk on the phone and text eachother he is his normal outgoing self.. but in school he is totally different. Is this just because of the situation that we are in, because he never used to be like this. If we do start going out and become "official".. would it be different, or does it just need time?

2007-03-11 12:51:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It relaxes me and make me happier so things are better with my husband...I don't want to leave him I just don't want to lose my lover either. It's just that my husband doesn't make me happy sexually and doesn't know what to say or do to make me feel good...and by me seeing someone else I don't annoy him with my demand for attention...I don't bother him and just let him ignore me and seek me when he wants water a blanket or some food or ironed clothes....doesn't it sound fair?

2007-03-11 12:51:06 · 52 answers · asked by Melina A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Should just out of the blue kiss him?

2007-03-11 12:51:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i found out the next day and people were laughing at me and it told everything that i worte in it my secret and crush .i finsh the day in sham. should i forgive my brother cause his my brother or should i distor him like he did to me.PLEASE FEEL FREE TO WRITE ANY THING U FEEL LIKE TO SAY I DON'T MIND.so tell me america!

2007-03-11 12:50:12 · 14 answers · asked by pamela t 2 in Friends

My spouse, who I am in the process of getting a divorce from, is considering filing for bankruptcy. How will this affect my credit? If he files does that mean I am bankrupt also or is there a way for me not to be bankrupt? I don't want to lose my house!!!

2007-03-11 12:49:30 · 9 answers · asked by Naked Diver 69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend doesn't trust me. I have lied to him in the past, and he has forgiven me, but he is always paranoid. He hates all of my friends. He doesn't want me to go out with them. I don't lie to him anymore, but he still does not trust me. I don't think that it will work out, but I don't want to let him go because I love him too much. What should I do? (We have been off and on for the past 4 years, and I live with him.)

2007-03-11 12:49:21 · 14 answers · asked by WTF 4 in Singles & Dating

I have never had a bf. I guess im not to old not to have one but still. I have turned down so many boy that i dont think anyone wants to try any more. How can i fix this or let people that im ready to date?

2007-03-11 12:48:21 · 2 answers · asked by Dancer24 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you think there are men AND women out there, who make a profession out of breaking up marriages and then remarrying the divorcee to gain wealth?

2007-03-11 12:47:19 · 19 answers · asked by monza 2 in Marriage & Divorce