well my dad dont live with me annd i want to know if i should live with him and my mean stepmom or my mom what should i do
2007-03-11 12:58:38 · 8 answers · asked by hailey a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Im the opposite to you. I am a dad and miss my daughter so much. She is 15 now and I have not seen her for 5 years. She lives with her mum. I write to her all the time but don't even know if she gets the letters. I sent my elder daughter an expensive watch for her 18th birthday last week but she never said anything. I have checked with the royal mail and my ex wife signed for it but I have no idea if she passed it onto my daughter. I think if your dad is like me he will be missing you so much and if you have his phone number or his address call him as he will be missing you so much. Why not live between your two parents I think that is the best idea. I really hope you get to see your dad so take care. His new wife/partner may see you as a threat but she has to understand your dad has a daughter as well as her. Good luck on what ever you decide.
2007-03-11 13:07:46 · answer #1 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am always so curious to know why girls always assume their stepmoms are mean. Here's my answer: it's always hard to miss your parent. If you'd like to spend more time with him, let him know. It doesn't necessarily mean that you have to live with one or the other. I would talk to both of your parents, in a mature, un-angry fashion. As to the stepmom...hey, give her a break, will you? It's never easy forging a relationship with someone else, and you probably feel she's taking your dad away from you. The truth is, she can never fill the place in your dad's heart that you do. Same thing if your mom remarries. Kids have a place all of their own. It doesn't mean they love you less. It just means they love you differently. I mean, hey, she has to have some good qualities if your dad married her, right? Put out the proverbial olive branch and see where it gets you. If there's not constant fighting and drama between you and her, maybe your dad will want to spend even more time with you than he already does! Good luck!
2007-03-11 13:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by jzmn2btrfly121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard spot to be in.
Will you be able to be around your 'mean' stepmom and remain some sanity? If so perhaps that is the way to go, if you think she would drive you crazy, perhaps you should live with your mom, and just visit your dad now and then.
Good luck!
2007-03-11 13:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 03:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by pereyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your unhappy in where you are and your stomach is telling you be with your dad go for it - has your dad offered you to live with him, if not hint at it.
I have a step father and my mother I didn't have a very good life with them, so when I moved out I got in touch with my real father and have nothing to do with the others. He was so happy we write to eachother emails all the time.
2007-03-11 13:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you feel most comfortable is the real question.
If you don't want 2 stay with your Dad because of you step mum then... Plan days out with your dad while staying with your mum.
2007-03-11 13:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really can't handle your step mom then maybe you should stay with your mom. arrange for more time with your dad,one on one.
2007-03-11 13:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him
2007-03-11 13:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by dan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋