i have a bf and my mom and gma dont like him so him and i (when we r on the fone) i call him sum1 else like my bffs name or the first one that pops into my head if my mom asks and my gma has cancer so i dont want her to die w/ me keepin this lie but i dont wanna tell them unless i kno its true love... i think it is cuz hes all i think about, and we talked on the fone the other day and i keep replayin that convo in my head over and over. i cant wait till that time that he calls me and i get all hyper and i get butterfly's in my stomache when we talk, r close to each other, or i think about him................ is ti true love? should i tell my family, or keep him my special secret (thats wat he calls me) :) ♥
2007-03-11 12:56:25 · 5 answers · asked by hotchikdancer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont ever keep secrets from my gma and having one from her is eating me alive... especially since i spend a lot of time with her. and i feel that i should tell her (before she dies which is most likely soon) but if its not true love wats the since....... they dont like him cuz they think im to good for him, but i dont feel that way. AND PEOPLES... IM 13!!! IM NOT HORNY!!!! ugh!
2007-03-11 13:13:27 · update #1
i think alot of the reason that you loke him so much is because you have to hide your feelings for him around your family and yes you should because theres obviously a reason why your mom and grandmother dont like him so try to have a mature calm conversation with them about him you never know you might be surprised at what they say
2007-03-11 13:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by theodore_crtr 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
according to me u should tell ur mom. but i didnt understand the connection between ur secret and gma's cancer.if ur mom used to let u hang with a guy before this one,then absolutely tell her because im sure she has a good reason about not liking him and u can get hurt in future.(experience) same thing happened to me 2times
2007-03-11 20:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by Derin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lie is a lie. Tell the truth always.
2007-03-11 20:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont tell your family,all your going thru is called being Horny!!!!!! it's a nasty thing i might add as well! go buy Ton's of condoms!
and lern how to use them! good luck though
2007-03-11 20:02:20 · answer #4 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you can tell your family but i certainly do not think it will kill your grandmother , true love i do not know i think that depends on you
2007-03-11 20:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋