I hate how feelings are, how emotions can weave such intricate patterns that can't be undone. I have a hunch that if I tell him I love them or even like him those feelings will disperse, but when I try and suppress these feelings it just kills me inside. The thing is I know I can't like that person. There's absolutely no possibility in it happening. I've thought to myself and told others that anything can happen. Maybe all it takes is time. If I think of different scenarios in my head I have a feeling that it definitely isn't going to happen.
2007-03-11 13:02:16 · 9 answers · asked by flowerlily629 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So your saying that if like a person and wanna tell him that, he'll say no and you'll be heartbroken. Well what if he said yes. You'll have to find someone that likes things like you. You know, same hobbies, or favorite things. O yeah, you should always start at friendship. Then later on the road of life and y'all get more intrested in each other, than take up to relationship. You can also pray to God to help you find the speical someone too. I'd never had a girlfriend yet and I'm still looking for that speical someone. Always have faith and hope.
2007-03-11 13:11:28 · answer #1 · answered by Robby M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!!!!! and stop listening to those negative voices in your head and be honest with the guy and yourself for it could turn into a relationship of a lifetime for you and if it doesn't then maybe it could be a friendship for a life time but you will never know until you b honest and talk to him about your feelings and find out his. Suppressed feelings always come up to the surface and you'll have to face them sooner or later so you might as well face them know and stop killing yourself inside for that is no good. Like I said in the beginning BELIEVE IN YOURSELF and you will get what you want. Good Luck!
2007-03-11 20:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by outlawprincess5321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut feelings they will never steer you wrong. I remember having somewhat of the same questions 10 years ago . So many times over the years I wish I would have kept my feelings suppressed and to myself. Its because of me allowing words spoken to penetrate my soul and I let all my walls down. They listened, validated my concerns & feelings, simple conversation made me feel secure that lead to sex which I believed was love (that's what he told me) From there an emotional weave that took me years to resolve within. You are wise to be asking for direction. THE SIMPLE FACT THAT YOU ARE QUESTIONING (flag) and ARE CONFUSED (red flag) are spiritual gifts to keep you from getting hurt, feeling shame, regret or worse. Trust me on this one!!! They probably haven't even shared about their personal life(keeping walls up protecting their emotions) Are they married? Just cause they don't wear a ring (spouse might not mind) Lives life in another state loves them despite the Sexual immorality... Be REAL and Go with your GUT. I wish I would have after the first stupid like I caught them in. I believed their apology and forgave. I had no clue until after years of promises of a future, marriage, how my money would be all mine and they would take care of me. All they wanted was sex sex sex then listen from another room wanting me to have sex with another then come in and watch us (but not participate) Then wanting 3 on 1 / 5 on 1 (but still just watching not participating) Then being put on a stage then one by one while everyone watched. People roughing me up. He just wanted to watch ( I would have never dreamed this of someone with his integrity, social status, respected by all)
GO WITH YOUR FIRST INSTINCT.... You'll end up loosing everything your Mind Soul and all you have worked for as a human being all your life. BE VERY CAREFUL
2007-03-11 21:01:48 · answer #3 · answered by ABC242220 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now what aren't,t you telling us ? HUM ! Someone needs to let that thought go, it sounds a little, well, Maybe someone you should,not feel that way about.
2007-03-11 20:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by ThomasL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel, i am just trying to slowly let it go, because i know in the end i will just wind up hurt
2007-03-11 20:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry, but what exactly is your question? well anyways, i think that you should have more confidence in yourself... if thats what you are asking.. sorry i really wish i could help you.
2007-03-11 20:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by &thalia.belle; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, the beginning was like a poem.you should write!
2007-03-11 20:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
your just to Deep to be on here,I mean are you drinking? are you pretty? are you single?
the list could go on and on!
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2007-03-11 20:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What exactly is your question?
2007-03-11 20:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋