Family & Relationships - 10 March 2007

My mom is a drug addict and continues to hurt me. i try to have little contact with her, but on birthdays and holidays, i feel compelled to see her. Last week was her birthday, so i took a gift to her and introduced her to my fiance...made a mistake and gave her my phone number. now shes trying to cause probs for me...what do i do?

2007-03-10 16:03:37 · 10 answers · asked by anngeez2005 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I believe that there is far more to life than sleeping around with every girl you can feast your eyes upon. I mean,I'm 19 and I love my girl,I'm still a virgin and everyone runs me down because I dont wanns sleep with someone everytime I get the chance. I do not want to have sex with my girlfriend yet besides the fact that she has had sex with one other man,because I believe there's more to a relationship than tha. Once I feel that the time is right I will try everything in my power to make the most passionate love to her!!! :-) plz,I need some views on this.

thank you

2007-03-10 16:02:47 · 17 answers · asked by J-Bone 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 16:02:01 · 3 answers · asked by sweet-p 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm really responsible. I always do my homework, I rarely waste my momey, I get straight A's, I practice the piano every day & I do extra math work every day.

I just want to date & have a boyfriend. She's always saying "You don't need a boyfriend" & "A boyfriend is just a waste of time & you're too young." I understand that she doesn't want me to do something stupid & that she thinks having a boyfriend is pointless & not productive.

But I think it's part of growing up, & she's not letting me date or have a guy to call my boyfriend :/ I can't even just go to the mall or movies or ice rink or anything if it's just going to be with a guy. Even if we really like eachother :/

Any advice?
Thanks

2007-03-10 16:01:24 · 42 answers · asked by Victoria 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 16:01:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a friend we are very close and she has currently told me she was a lesbian wich i do not care about because she is my best friend.. the girl that she likes played her and she told me she was never going to talk to the girl that played her again and NEXT THING U NO THEY are talking and on her top friends on myspace she is before me I think that that was rather fake of her soo i told her i dint want to be friends anymnore what do you think

2007-03-10 16:00:57 · 10 answers · asked by shar main lady 3 in Friends

i have heard that girls say they like the challange to change a bad guy into a nice guy. well in that case a girl all ready did that to me. i just wanna know if there is more to that cause girls always ***** about assholes. and that and then they say they want a nice guy. well im a nice guy what cant i meet a girl who dosent give up on things or screw me over.

2007-03-10 16:00:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 15:59:57 · 12 answers · asked by j0<3 2 in Singles & Dating

Are they the society leftovers?

2007-03-10 15:59:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's already been two months. He has told me over the internet that he no longer loves me and tat we will never get back together. We go to the same school and have the same friends but he dosn't look or talk to me. I know I should get over him, and that it should be easy concidering the way he is treating me but I can't. I have tride to focus on myself, my friends, and my school work, but nothing can take my mind off him. He was my frist love and I was his. It was special, but then it all fell apart so quickly. We broke up because he said half of him still loved me and half just wanted to be friends. But now were not even friends. I'm not going to try and force him to be my friend either because he seems so happy now and that's what is really important. Even though we will be with our friends it's like I don't exsist to him. And it hurts. How can I get over him? He is obviously over me.

2007-03-10 15:58:38 · 23 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Singles & Dating

Apparently, they went out over a year ago (I didn't know about it.) He claims nothing happened, but when I confronted him with some questions, he avoids eye contact and places his hands over his eyes. He said she would talk sexy to him and he liked it and continued the emails. I think there's more to it. They work in the same building. He's cheated in relationships before. I have lost trust in him. He emailed her and told her he was going to stop the emails to her. (Although they will still work together from time to time.) Should I buy this or move on? He's a really nice guy with a good profession and I know there are a lot of lonely women out there waiting in line.

2007-03-10 15:58:01 · 5 answers · asked by lavenderbluelassie 3 in Singles & Dating

I really like this boy @ school who just turned 16yr.old
on January 29th.And I just turned 17 yrs. old on Feb.22nd.
Is it weird or it doesn't really matter?

2007-03-10 15:57:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do guys really like a chick to have a big booty?? Why? I have a big booty and I feel that is the only reason they like me. For all of my junk in the trunk! Is this true or No?

2007-03-10 15:57:56 · 3 answers · asked by Amanda 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm a sopomore, and i have a crush on a freshman girl. i don't really know what to say to her, or really how to keep myself from looking like a jerk or embarrass myself.

2007-03-10 15:57:19 · 2 answers · asked by Phobos 2 in Singles & Dating

If you were separated from your spouse, and after a couple weeks yall decide to get back together- probably saw some other people- who probably gave you gifts...would you throw away that stuff if your partner asked you to? Does keeping them hinder the rebuilding of the marriage?
Ladies, would you be willing to throw away your stuff if he asked you? Guys, would you ask her to throw it away?

2007-03-10 15:57:12 · 11 answers · asked by Venus 2 in Marriage & Divorce

her for 4 years so cant leave how do i get her to become real skinny again

2007-03-10 15:57:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you ask me and my answer will be i don't believe in love but i believe in responsibilities and trust. that's important. LOVE? maybe but not that important

2007-03-10 15:57:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I let my 14 year old daughter watch Pulp Fiction, probably against my better judgement. Anyway, she has now become obsessed with anything by Quentin Tarantino and is quickly becoming a huge fan of his. Other parents of her friends have stopped letting their kids come over hear in fear that we will let them watch something by Tarantino. Are the other parents over-protective or was i too easygoing?

2007-03-10 15:56:48 · 7 answers · asked by brubabe 5 in Friends

i need to know a way to turn on a guy and wat should i be looking for in a guy to turn me on?

2007-03-10 15:55:36 · 24 answers · asked by Lexi 1 in Singles & Dating

this boy i like i dont see much
but i want him to notice me
not his friends
he doesnt go to my school
but anyways i just need normal how to get a guy to notice you and eventually maybe fall for u tips
other than flirting
thats obvious

2007-03-10 15:55:18 · 3 answers · asked by Kira 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-10 15:55:02 · 12 answers · asked by elmo_luvs_ewe 1 in Weddings

Becky was with John in high school & she got pregnant. They were both way too young & scared at the time. To make a long story short, the baby was adopted by Becky's parents. Becky & John split up, went their seperate ways. Before Becky's first wedding John called & spoke with her fiancee Steven, telling him that he was still in love with her & to take good care of her because she deserves it. A month later John married Stephanie (we think she was the rebound girl). Five years later, when Becky & Steven's marriage was coming to an end, Steven confessed to Becky what John had said. John is now divorced, Becky is on her second marriage which unfortunately, is not working out. Becky and John's relationship was more than just a high school romance. They were soulmates. Becky found John on Myspace yesterday & wrote him a letter. She came across his number last night, should she call him or wait for his reply?Note* John is not on myspace often, if we wait for his reply it could take weeks.

2007-03-10 15:54:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He always talks to me in class and hangs out with me at lunch were together 24/7 and when i call him for an assignment b/c i didnt go to school he says he missed me and starts talking about how boring it was without me and y didnt i go to school he also complements me at how smart i am =]....and im afraid if i reveal my feelings to him he might never talk to me ever again and were really close like brothers and sisters so what do i do

2007-03-10 15:53:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy , i think he have the same feelings too by the things that r happening but he is not telling me !! What should i do ?!

2007-03-10 15:53:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we just had a boy and she was a single mother til i came into the pic, we just moved in together and the boys are stressing us both out (age 2 and 2 months), I love her and I want to stay with her but we never get any time together anymore i feel like my life is going down, its almost are if we are only partners, I work 12 hour shifts so i barely get any time anyway when i do get time for us shes tired from taking care of them by herself all day, what can i do to see some light i am stressed all the way out!! help me

2007-03-10 15:53:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm dating the other girl and my ex is dating a different kid i still like her and i see her everyday but she says she doesn't care about me i wanna tell her i still like her but i'm afraid to cause for
1 i'm already dating sum1
2 she's already dating someone and
3 she pretends i don't exist
wat do i do?

2007-03-10 15:53:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay. this probably sounds weird. but we are looking for guys, and we don't know where to go at all. at our highschool, it is all geeky people, and there are only 20 boys in the grade. no joke. annnnd its not like we are ugly and desperate. because...were not. we are actually pretty goodlooking. =)
but seriously. where should we go? and what would we actually say to a guy who is hot? seriously. lol.
oh and we already looked at walgreens, and the grocery store, and the mall, and davannis, and yeah. seriously guys. we need help

2007-03-10 15:52:44 · 3 answers · asked by S W 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this girl that i like but she is two years younger than me. we both go to the same high school in florida. she is more a sort of a shy girl toward others but outgoing also. i like her persona. i like her but i don't know if she likes me. i'm afraid to ask because i don't know how she would react to it. she somewhat weird but i can handle it. i would like to know what signs should i look that she does that means that she likes me too.

2007-03-10 15:51:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when a guy is looking for the "right girl" to date what does he look for?

2007-03-10 15:51:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends are trying to set me up with a really fat boy whom i have never met before and i don't ever want to meet either..should i give him a chance or run?!?!?!?

2007-03-10 15:51:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating