I believe that there is far more to life than sleeping around with every girl you can feast your eyes upon. I mean,I'm 19 and I love my girl,I'm still a virgin and everyone runs me down because I dont wanns sleep with someone everytime I get the chance. I do not want to have sex with my girlfriend yet besides the fact that she has had sex with one other man,because I believe there's more to a relationship than tha. Once I feel that the time is right I will try everything in my power to make the most passionate love to her!!! :-) plz,I need some views on this.
thank you
2007-03-10 16:02:47 · 17 answers · asked by J-Bone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow, i am very happy to hear at least there one man out there that still has values and morals and isn't in a relationship for sex.I feel jealous of your girlfriend because now days it is hard to find a man with dignity and self-esteem.I see nothing wrong with you being a virgin who said there's something wrong eventually if your girls sees it like this then she wasnot worth your time and she herself has no values or morals towsrd herself to have found someone that truly cares about her not just wanting to have sex.Dont worry man sex eventually will happen and when it does you will be happy it was who you wanted to be with.good luck
2007-03-10 16:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ya, all the time. I know what some of the missing bits are. I know some has to do with people who are missing in my Life. Loved ones that have passed on, and Loved ones that are not in my life. Some of the more than has to do with what is outside our normal perceptioon of everyday reality. The fact that matter doesn't really exist ( how many times will they split particles before they realize there ARE NO PARTICLES, just energy, time and space, and I kinda think Time is just another form of energy or maybe space is another form of time or space maybe is another form of energy or something like that. any case I think it's binary and only 2 things exist. Thought is one of the above by this definition, and we are as much a part of it all as anything. I think alot of the missing is the other half of the binary that we cannot grasp because we are of the other half. Maybe when we die we become part of the other half... Guess I'll find out sometime anyways. I kinda think I know the basics of it all at any rate. The missing bit is that 'other thing' and when you need it the most it will be 'right there'. So ponder it if you want, just don't stres over it. We are here to enjoy life. That is the meaning of it all. Have fun.
2016-03-28 23:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is...happiness, love, friendship. It all depends on you and when you are ready to share that. Do not let others dictate what is right for you. Only you know when it is the right time. I didn't lose my virginity til I was 18. So, when it happened I never regretted it. I mean sex is great...with the right person. Once you do have sex it is hard not to want it because it feels so good!
2007-03-10 16:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good on you for making some clear choices and sticking to them. You are so right, there is a lot more to life than sex, there is so much to get to know about one another, and the world that you inhabit so that when you do make love it is with a whole person not just with a "body".
2007-03-10 16:09:16 · answer #4 · answered by minimouse68 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are awsome! Don't listen to the losers trying to pressure you to do it. If you do it out of pressure and not because you're ready, it won't be the same... They're just jealous because they either don't have someone special or wish they had something special like you and your girl where the relationship goes beyond anything physical... I hope you don't change in the future...
2007-03-10 16:29:30 · answer #5 · answered by Q01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my point of view is that yes, there is more to life than just sex, do not let your friends get to you, in my believe the more you wait the better, at times sex changes us, our relationship and our emotions, do not let society to manipulate, go with your caracter, that is more important.
2007-03-10 16:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by Knella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is truly more to life than sex. But you cannot judge a person for their past relations. Your doing the right thing. Trust me I wish I can take mine back.
2007-03-10 16:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by eyeofthedove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! its hard to find guys like you. that's awseome that you think that, and i have the same feeling. I am with my boyfriend and i have made it clear to him that i do not want nor do i need sex in our relationship to make it work. Sex isnt everything, though some people tend to think it is...i think people like that are ignorant in a way..like they are close minded or something...no offense to those who think sex is everything though...
hope this helps =]
2007-03-10 16:11:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really sweet, and I really respect you because you're a guy that feels that way. That is very honorable. You don't find too many guys that feel that way. I think it's very sweet you want to make it special with her. Congradulations! I hope that goes good for you. Good luck!
2007-03-10 16:07:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are showing great restraint and great respect towards your girl . Don't falter and take the easy way out. Stay committed and when you are ready you and her will know it. Kudos to you !
2007-03-10 16:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋