I found out my boyfriend of 7 years has been emailing a woman on a regular basis.?

Question

Apparently, they went out over a year ago (I didn't know about it.) He claims nothing happened, but when I confronted him with some questions, he avoids eye contact and places his hands over his eyes. He said she would talk sexy to him and he liked it and continued the emails. I think there's more to it. They work in the same building. He's cheated in relationships before. I have lost trust in him. He emailed her and told her he was going to stop the emails to her. (Although they will still work together from time to time.) Should I buy this or move on? He's a really nice guy with a good profession and I know there are a lot of lonely women out there waiting in line.

Answer 1

It doesn't sound good but there's still not enough to prove he's cheating. Has he cheated on you in the 7 years you've been together? If so, then he's prolly doing it again. If not, then give it some time to see what's really going on.

Answer 2

I am sorry for being harsh and stuff, but I think that you weren't good enough for him. But just for him. He must be the kind of guy who get bored, but think about it: 7 years?????? No wonder. He wants something out of the ordinary, exciting, but you aren't that girl. You know what, let him go. There are so many other men that would probably die to have you as a girlfriend. And good luck.
-Katherine

Answer 3

Wow that really is a crusher. But like my step mom says Drinker is a drinker a crack head is a crack head and a cheater is a cheater. It is going hurt but he won't change...move on

Answer 4

Two words.....Haul Butt....run, don't walk to the nearest exit. This guy is a player and he's playing the both of you. Get rid of this schemer and you will be alot happier.

Answer 5

move on he wants to kill two birds with one stone