i have heard that girls say they like the challange to change a bad guy into a nice guy. well in that case a girl all ready did that to me. i just wanna know if there is more to that cause girls always ***** about assholes. and that and then they say they want a nice guy. well im a nice guy what cant i meet a girl who dosent give up on things or screw me over.
2007-03-10 16:00:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have the confidence and i dont let people push me around i dont take crap from anyone. so bad guys dont push me out of the way. i Guess im gonna have to be a f****** a**hole again cause it seem to work
2007-03-10 16:13:12 · update #1
NOOO don't change back bad!! not ALL girls can be stereotyped into liking the bad guys. i personally actually have never been a fan of the 'bad boy' type. i always like guys for their sweet personality.. every guy i've been with has treated me really sweet (although i've never actually had a bf.. but i've dated guys only more than once) and they treated me good.. until they ended it. nothing happened with the first one chemistry wise cuz he was too chicken to make his move, and the last two were players though.. so it seems like i guess they weren't the best of guys. but when i fell for them they seemed to be! True nice guys do NOT finish last in my book or in the long run! you will find that perfect girl for you one day who loves you for you! (haha and i'm being somewhat hypocritical since i'm not believing i will find That Guy someday.. but i'm sure You will!!) but don't make yourself worse.. because being a bad guy again, do you really Want "those types" of girls who don't really like you for you... because now that you've realized what those girls are, why would you want them? best wishes to ya! :) don't get yourself down over this..
2007-03-11 12:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a guy who's been there - stop looking for girls who have problems you can fix!
It isn't that nice guys always finish last - you just haven't found the right match for you yet. Passive guys finish last.
The key is to stay in the game and not to give up. You are everything a girl wants - but only it's before they really know what they want. When they realize that a**holes don't really change - you get to be right. It'll happen, just hang in there.
2007-03-11 00:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by fussarchangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be a doormat or a yes man. Sometimes, men and women want a challenge. The "too nice guy" is too easily won over. I mean it's not attractive when you feel like you have that person under your spell. It's just too easy. We all want excitement, danger, and not knowing what will happen. That's why bad boys look so damn good. They bring that to a relationship and with nice guys things get boring FAST. However, it depends on the girl. Nice guys just don't turn me on....
2007-03-11 00:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change because of some immature girls ideas of a 'bad boy'. a girl shouldn't go into a relationship with the idea of "I can change him and save him" Trust me, keep being nice and a girl will realize that, so when all the other girls are biatchin' about their boyfriends and how they keep ditching them and whatnot, your girl can look at you and say "well he never did that, we did/went/ ....something last night" and all the other girls will be jealous cause they let the nice guy slip away and they will see the huge mistake they made. I'm still looking for the 'nice guy' at my school. I avoid the jacka***** cause they are well A****.
2007-03-11 00:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys nor bad guys don't like being manipulated or made to change. These psycho ******* from hell, want to make you into nice guys on their terms, their values, and strip you of any qualities that they don't like. What if you already see yourself as a nice guy? When nice guys hitch up with girls like this, there is no way they can finish anything but last.
2007-03-11 00:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys finish last b/c the mean guys push everyone else down to get to the top, and the nice guys let them.
2007-03-11 00:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nice guys dont always finish last, only with immature women, who dont think with their brain. Guys like you are worth your weight in gold, and some smart girl will eventually realise that. Just be patient, and dont settle for anyone but the best.
2007-03-11 00:06:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a nice guy doesn't mean you are a push over. you also have to be firm about your convictions. maybe at this point in your life, you haven't met the right girl yet. she is still out there. continue looking for her. and when you do, hold on to her, as she will do to you. good luck.
2007-03-11 00:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of girls out there who actually like nice guys. My advice is to not change just because you want girls to like you.
2007-03-11 00:10:58 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason nice girls can't meet a nice guy either. Sometimes we aren't very bright when picking.
2007-03-11 00:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by misseasygoing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋