Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

i am 25 she is 21, we meet four months ago, when she broke up with her ex, she had a two year long relationship with her ex, it took her a while to like me. During our four month relationship, she kissed another guy and said she was drunk and was thinking about how her ex betrayed him, i forgive her after that.

But after we stared again she was still kind of stuck to her past, two weeks before i came to know she is pregnant, we had our fight over abortion, finally we decided to go with her decision to keep the child, i asked her if she is hinding something from me, she told me she slept with two more guys which she never told me, fooled around with couple and had oral with few.

Now i was shoked but still trying to forgive her, but she never seems to care about my feelings, whever i need to talk to her about why she lied she throws me out, she treats me like her servent, i told her to delete the pics of her past once she was relectunt to do that, she still sometime thinks of him..

2007-03-09 09:20:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i change this? i really need tips because im always falling for the wrong guys, at the wrong time, too quickly. Please help!?!?!

2007-03-09 09:20:35 · 8 answers · asked by whoahcalleex0 1 in Singles & Dating

I can't tell you its origins. I am sorry.

2007-03-09 09:20:19 · 3 answers · asked by the one 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm going out with this guy brandon, he's really nice, and cute, but i don't have feelings for him no more, i have feelings for someone else, but if i say i want to break up with him, i might hurt him, what should i do?

2007-03-09 09:20:03 · 17 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 09:19:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

the guy that i liked for two years moved away. i think i fell in love with him......we would always flirt and talk all the time and finally when i thought we were gonna go out he moved away. hes a ballet dancer so hes moving to new york to the school of performing arts. and my heart hurts bad! will i ever get over it? i didnt even get to say goodbye. i messeged him on myspace and told him that im really gonna miss him and i gave him my number. he didnt flirt back because his best friend has a huge crush on me now. its not fair! ?????????

2007-03-09 09:19:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel great!!! How many bowel movements on average does everyone else have. This is a serious question because I want to know if 4 is too many and I need to see a doctor. I'm really not trying to be disgusting.

2007-03-09 09:19:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

name some names.

2007-03-09 09:18:49 · 39 answers · asked by AnswerGeek 4 in Singles & Dating

im in love with two boys.... one is my boyfriend and the other is my boyfriend's and my friend. the friend(B) told me he was in love with me today and that there is no other girl he wants to be with but me... and mi boyfriend(R) loves me alot too but... we havnt talked for along time(2 weeks). and i cant go out with both of them at the same time cuz it is wrong! if anybody said to choose the new guy over your boyfriend... how would i tell my boyfriend? Who do i choose?

2007-03-09 09:18:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello. I've been with a woman who I love with all my heart for almost two years now. I do all I can to treat her like a queen. I would do anything for her and she is the most important thing in my life. I always encourage her to go out with friends and I want her to be happy. We have a close relationship, I do trust her,and I only call her twice a day if she doesn't call me first. I myself don't go out with any gal pals one on one and never would since I would not think that "right" being in a relationship as I am. Recently my girlfriend has said she wants to go out with some of her guy friends individually as a friendly couple to dinner and possibly a movie.She also stated that if she met any new guys she would like as a friend she would want to go out as a "friendly couple" as well.She has never cheated on me and she is upset that I'm uncomfortable with her wanting to do this. I don't mind if she goes out with a group but the friendly couple thing bothers me. Am I wrong for this?

2007-03-09 09:17:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Fiance And I are having a baby in July and we want to get married before the baby comes. Right Now he is the only one that works and we dont have a lot of money, Is there anybody that can give us ideas on a really really cheap wedding.

2007-03-09 09:17:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My dad quit a well paying job to run a home business (which I strongly objected, but to no avail) and he totally screwed it up and now he has little money left.

He sold his house to pay back debt, and moved into a condo. He asked me for $50,000 to help buy the condo, which I obliged unhappily.

He wants to continue his unfrugal lifestyle and spending habits even though the situation is dire for him. I try to give him some advice, but it always backfires as he would not listen to me or take an advice from a son he raised. When his cash runs out, I am afraid he'll ask me for more money.

I am a married man, with a mortgage to pay off monthly, have tonnes of own problems to deal with. Wife doesn't appreciate my dad's spending ways and what that could mean for us in near future.

Am I being too cruel for not wanting to help him? He's a long way from retirement age and he still has more debt to pay off. To me he doesn't appear to want to work any more (though he say's he's looking)

2007-03-09 09:17:30 · 35 answers · asked by toothfairy 2 in Family

but I haven't got a reply yet. How long should I wait before I try again if he hasn't replied?

2007-03-09 09:17:26 · 19 answers · asked by charliebubbles 1 in Singles & Dating

I want him to love me forever and for real, I think there are too many relationships that are not like that

2007-03-09 09:17:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean he likes to run. he even ran the marathon on the fourth of this month anyways were both in to that but we just say hello and goodbye when we see eachother and i want to talk to him more but i dont know how? . so can you help me please ........... thank you

2007-03-09 09:16:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 09:16:24 · 7 answers · asked by the one 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 09:16:14 · 3 answers · asked by darth2380 1 in Singles & Dating

Now for part two. (Read part 1 to understand part 2)
So today, our teacher had to approve the books. SO when I go up there to approve mine, my teacher’s like hey I have a copy of the first book (the one my crush had) and that I would understand the series better if I read the first book SO I am thinking like yay (cuz if we have the same books like I can ask her questions about the book) but then 2 hours later the teacher doesn’t have it! But b4 she told me she didn’t have it we had a jump rope for heart but me, her and a few other people didn’t go. So I go and tell her that I am going to get the same book as her and she pays attention to me (her friends aren’t with her right now) and she was just finished talking to some1 and she wasn’t smiling at him. But when I started talking she smiled and paid attention to what I was saying.
Do you think she wants to be friends? Is she trying to be a friend or was she mad and was happy to talk to some1 nicer?
And her friends weren’t with her

2007-03-09 09:16:13 · 2 answers · asked by mebh 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 09:16:09 · 17 answers · asked by reene2g 4 in Singles & Dating

There are three hallways..two halls meet and become one, well, I came out of gym and saw my ex boyfriend coming from the opposite direction and he said hi, how are you to me and I said good you..than the hallways met and so did we, well, he started walking so fast, almost running away from me.. I can tell he was a little nervous and maybe sensed that I wanted to talk to him. Why would he do that?

We just started talking after the break up 2 years ago. I first initiated the communication and than he would ignore when I would say hi so I stopped and 2 months after I stopped saying hi he started saying hi..

2007-03-09 09:16:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy went out to have a drink with his two female co-workers. The next morning, he noticed he was completely naked covered with a bed sheet, lying on the bed of one of his female co-workers. They both are roommates. He asked them what was going on? They said, he was too drunk to drive to his home and thrown up on himself; so, they had to take him back to their apt. to clean him up, since they didn't know where he lived. They didn't want to call his girlfriend(living w/ him) because it was late! He didn't remember much from that morning, he suspected that he was drugged, but nothing was stolen from him, not money, not credit card. He couldn't tell his gf the truth, she might have gotten the wrong idea. He just said that he was at his buddy after getting so drunk.

Do you think his female co-workers telling the truth? Should he have told his girlfriend the truth?

2007-03-09 09:16:03 · 1 answers · asked by Infinite 4 in Singles & Dating

Interested in specific, what your personal attempts at keeping the sanity are. thanks. ;)

2007-03-09 09:15:56 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

THIS IS A LONG QUESTION!! PLEASE READ ALL THE DETAILS!! READ PART 1 AND PART 2!!PLEASE! PLEASE!
I am in junior high in grade 7 and I have this huge crush on this girl but she seems to not be paying attention to me, I just wanna be friends with her, not too personal, just like uh friends. Today we had to choose books and she realy wanted this book and I ran to get that book, so I told her hey i am that book but she didn't pay attenion but when somebody else ( a friend of hers) told her that I had the book. SO she practically comes begging to me to give her the book and take her book that she had from the same series. So i OBVIOUSLY say fine and she's like THX so much! then she sorta hugs me!! Now what du i do, to become friends!!! Oh ya and one thing she is most of the time with her friends so it's kind of hard and EMBARASSING to talk in forn of them! What I mean is I don't want people to think that I like her, people will make fun of me! That's why I want to be only friends!

2007-03-09 09:15:49 · 4 answers · asked by mebh 3 in Singles & Dating

what is it

2007-03-09 09:15:45 · 5 answers · asked by Susan C 1 in Friends

shes a few states away from me, so it has to be shippable

2007-03-09 09:15:43 · 2 answers · asked by Skittles 4 in Friends

So me and this girl have been catching eachother staring at the other a few good times. She sits at my lunch table at school. A few days ago we had our first one on one convo. I sent her a myspace friend request and she hasn't accepted but I know she's been on. What's up with that? Semester just ended, we won't be seeing eachother that much at all anymore.

2007-03-09 09:14:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so heres the deal. ive been dating this guy for like a month and hes so good to me! but i dont love him and he kinda annoys me. he says he loves me and that hes never told anyone that before.... i dont know what to do! i dont wanna keep hurting him by wasting his time

2007-03-09 09:14:18 · 16 answers · asked by berniebabie724 2 in Singles & Dating

I met an amazing guy, he told me he was falling in love with me a few days after we met. Within a couple of weeks we were havin lil arguements, he has fears from past marriage where he was hurt...so he doesnt always know how to stay and work it out. Well, we started doing good again and then he told me he needed me to be his Best Best friend and he loves me but needs to get some things straightened out (with his 2 kids) and other small things....so he didnt want to hurt me and make promises until he got somethings back on track. So, although I want to be his girl, I love him so I am supporting himmaking a good mature decision right now. So i started acting like the BEST friend...but when we talk, he gets a lil miffed when I dont say things like "i miss you" at the end of our conversations....or how i feel about him. Its weird, when I pull away and just be a friend, he gets all romantic. When im romantic back, he acts like a friend. Is he fighting being in love? Or a waste of time?

2007-03-09 09:14:06 · 6 answers · asked by exotichina 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 09:14:05 · 7 answers · asked by butterfly18 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy about 3 weeks ago at a retreat, we had a blast and stuff. He later gave me his number and said we should hang out sometime and go do something. But this was all online...but he has mentioned it multiple times about hanging out. I just dont know how to make the right move. He suggested that we need to go on an adventure over spring break. What do I do???
do I give him a call and ask him if he wants to go on an adventure???

Thanks for any advice...

i'm a senior in high school

2007-03-09 09:13:45 · 6 answers · asked by Cool_Tall_One 3 in Singles & Dating