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I am in junior high in grade 7 and I have this huge crush on this girl but she seems to not be paying attention to me, I just wanna be friends with her, not too personal, just like uh friends. Today we had to choose books and she realy wanted this book and I ran to get that book, so I told her hey i am that book but she didn't pay attenion but when somebody else ( a friend of hers) told her that I had the book. SO she practically comes begging to me to give her the book and take her book that she had from the same series. So i OBVIOUSLY say fine and she's like THX so much! then she sorta hugs me!! Now what du i do, to become friends!!! Oh ya and one thing she is most of the time with her friends so it's kind of hard and EMBARASSING to talk in forn of them! What I mean is I don't want people to think that I like her, people will make fun of me! That's why I want to be only friends!
2007-03-09 09:15:49 · 4 answers · asked by mebh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im in 7th grade and i understand completely! it is embarrasing to talk around another persons freinds i am going thru the same thing. if she has any of the same clasess as you then your set. but if her friends are still in her clasess too start talking to her at little moments were she goes to do something by herself like sharpen her pencil or when she goes to get a peice of paper. its very hard to become friedns with a girl and make it so they dont think you like them so dont say anything like i like your shirt or stuff like that then that will turn them on. do not do that. occasionally ask for an anwer to a question or something even if you dont need it. it takes time to build a friendship with a girl excpecially if shes never alone but be patient. and if people start saying you like her then stop talking to her for a little while just to let things cool down . <3 jackiebebie1994@yahoo.com
2007-03-17 10:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy cool dude! You already had her talking to you once, now just keep it going. When you see her, even if she's with her friends, just say 'hi' and look at her and her friends so that it doesn't appear that you like her. Each time you meet her, try to find something to say, like: 'How did ya find that book?' or 'Did you enjoy your reading?'. You know all that, don't you mate?
And yeah, don't worry about what others will think; it's your life so you lead it the way you wanna. If you keep thinking about others instead of yourself then you'll never succeed.
2007-03-17 16:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by Lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what u mean, it's always hard to tell someone u like them!! but i've done it with this guy and turns out he liked me 2, so i would talk to her when she's alone!!!
2007-03-17 15:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by Blondie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why its SOOOO embarrassing to like someone.. You will never have a chance to with her UNLESS she knows you like her right?!?
2007-03-09 18:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by Randa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋