My fiance and i are talking about marriage, but are concidering holding off on getting married a while until we both mature more. (i'm only 19, and he's 20). I live with him so i know all about him, and we've been together for a few years. He is perfect in every way, except one. He get mad very easily, and always goes to the extreme. When he's mad, he doesn't really care about other people's feelings, and just wants to convinve himself he's right. He doesn't ever put me down or lower my self-esteem when he's mad, but he does try to act like nothing matters to him. He's not abusive in any way, but i just want him to care about things, and learn to control his anger and thinking calmly and logically. I know that there's not much I can do, other than encourage him and i must wait until he's mature enough to handle it on his own, but my question is. Is it possible for guys to ourgrow this, or will he always have this problem? He's actually shown signs of improving, but will it last?
2007-03-09
09:42:23
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Andii
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Marriage & Divorce