my name is jose, i am 28 years old. i met a girl and she loves me sincerely and me too. but the problem is my height is only 5.5 and her height is 5.7, i alwaysused to say this but whenever i say this she get angry with me and she used to ask me what matters if the height is not same? bcoz i know very well she loves me and the depth of her love also.
but my frinds my parents concern about this height difference, sometimes i also feel unconfortable regarding this height. still i know family life is not linked with the height. l like to marry her.
please give me a correct answer.
2007-03-09 09:41:12 · 15 answers · asked by jose p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Jose, what i can see here is that you have not accepted the fact that your shorter than your love. Dont worry about others, just ask youself this question "r u ok being short?" dont consider love and other things here, just answer that question without bias and you will get the answer to your question. Since the gal doesnt have any problem i dont think you should care about what other ppl say, how long u will be a football to other's opinion, BE A MAN and live like a MAN, dont let external elements ruine your love life. your extremly lucky to have someone who loves u so much, tell me!!! how many guys are lucky as you are?. do justice to your love .
2007-03-09 09:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by harry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey Jose...don't worry about ur height. It's just a matter of life. If she loves you enough she won't care and that is exactly why she gets mad when you say something about it. Also, don't let your family come between you and your girlfriend. In time they will come to see that you love her and would do anything for her. They care about your happiness, they might be a little upset for a while but they will eventually get over it. No one should care if they are chubbier, skinner, taller or shorter. What really matters is if you two care about each other enough to realize shape and size shouldn't matter to you. Don't feel uncomfortable when you're around her. Think of how you two met and how she said yes to a first date. That is cuz' she doesn't care what you look like, it's your personality that won her over. Well, Good luck
2007-03-11 11:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by Shepard Lover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The correct answer is a no-brainer hon, she loves you - you love her - neither of you could care less about the height of the other, because you CARE about EACH OTHER. My beloved mother was 2 inches taller than my father...their love was endless...62 years long.
Let go of this silly stereotype...it matters so little in the light of finding the right person to share your life with...and clearly, she knows this!
By the way, for your parents to make an issue of this is also, mighty silly...remember, it is YOUR life, YOUR love...you go guy!
Grace
2007-03-09 17:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your height should not be the issue here. If you truly love her then you personality will make up the difference ( will make you taller than what you are). She does not love you for your height she loves you for the qualities you posses and caught her eye. Remember big things comes in small backages. Have more confidence in yourself. Don't worry what others think.
2007-03-09 18:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by thiby2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's only 2 inches taller. It's not like she an amazon woman standing tall at 6 feet. Who cares what others say. It's none of their business. It's hard enough in this world to find someone special and if that's what you have then hold on to her. Don't worry about it and just be happy.
2007-03-09 17:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by LuvMyGirls 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the worst that can happen? Do high jump to give her a kiss? or be able to reach her easier when in bed? if you want to worry about what people say, remember you are not marrying them nor to please them..............So ask yourself if it matters to YOU. If you want a shorty, well then that is something with which you have to come to terms instead of complaining about her.
Cool it! Enjoy love and life. THAT is what makes the world go round.
NOT other people.
2007-03-10 11:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by Marke Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, my sister-in-law is one of those 6'1 amazons and my brother is only 5'10. They've been married for eight years, and nobody in our family or her family cares about the height difference, just that she and my brother are happy together, and that's all that should matter to your family too.
2007-03-09 18:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by n2mama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jose, nobody can give u a write answer except ur heart u love her dearly & she also love u dearly. Do u think in love anything else is important than love.no na then don't think about it.u know if u will concern so much about then she will also feel bad & i don't think so that u will like her to be sad. So don't think so much about anything except ur love.
2007-03-09 23:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by Freinds forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon,if the height thing does not bother her, why does it bother you? If you really feel very uncomfortable abt that wear heeled shoes or something.I really think that its idiotic to give up a really nice gal whom u love juz because she is taller than you.
2007-03-13 03:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by chocolaty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should wear shoes with a padding,so that your height is equal to hers.you can't leave a nice girl just for the sake of height.
2007-03-10 07:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by friendd02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋