I have been friends with this guy for 2 years now. when we met, he was single but I wasnt. then he started dating someone and as they were dating, i became single. I am just so confused. I do not want to interfere with theyre relationship and i wont. but he gives mixed messages to me all the time! He tells me he wants me to meet his mother, he wants to take me back home with him, he tells me he likes our relationship(what does this mean? that he likes us as friends or he would like us to be more than friends?). we go for hikes, skate together, watch movies together, and this is all without his girlfriend. She apparently doesnt mind. I have talked to her on the phone and she has asked me herself if i want to hang out with him on a specific night! I am utterly confused!
2007-03-09 09:43:53 · 4 answers · asked by starwild 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like neither of them are into each other all THAT much or they are so into each other that they have no qualms about him having a woman who is a friend.
2007-03-09 09:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be confused. Be blessed to have such a good friend.
I have had close girl friends for many years (to be fair, I'm not your ordinary male) with whom I have hung out with even when I was dating. So what if my best friend's gender is not the same as mine?
He knows what he sees you as being, but, unfortunately, you're confused about it because he is doing all of the things that a BF should do (minus the sex, love, and emotion parts),
It's understandable. What you ought to do is to sit down with him, face-to-face, and ask him to tell you what are the parameters of your friendship? Meaning, you want to clarify if he considers you only as a close friend, and really does not have any intentions of making it more than that in the future.
Listen, if he did, and you did, then the two of you would be a couple. To put it another way, if the two of you both had a strong, physical attraction for each other, things would be a lot different. So, at least one of you knows for sure what they want out of this relationship (a platonic relationship) in that there are no desires to get the other in bed.
Apparently, his girlfriend trusts him explicitly, so you really must be doing something right in the friend department.
Again, talk to him just to reassure yourself where you stand.
2007-03-09 10:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly he didn't make any sign that showe he's intrested in you ..neither at her ..
He's being your friend..and her it seems she doesn't mean anything to him ..
But from what you said it seems you spend a lot of time together ..i guess he's comfortable with you ..he likes your company but as a friend ..
If you wanna attract him ..you need you show your feminine side ..your sex-appeal..that he can notice you ..
2007-03-09 10:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen baby there 3 type of chicks in a man's life:
ones i done had
and
ones i'm related to
and
ones i ain't had YET
which one is you for him? ha ha
2007-03-09 09:48:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋