Family & Relationships - 9 March 2007

Since I found out I was pregnant with our second child my husband has been distant to say the least. I'm not even showing yet, but he acts like I'm the most vile being he's ever seen or something. I don't personally find myself attractive, but before and throughout our marriage I have had numerous offers for dates and such, and been told multiple times by many people (male and female) that I could have almost anyone I want. I've never had a poblem finding or keeping a boyfriend, and have gone through life so far being complimented and told I am attractive. So why doesn't my husband seem to like me anymore? It's like he doesn't even want to be around me. With my last pregnancy I didn't gain a lot of weight and only went from a size 3 to a size 5, everybody I knew preffered me with the extra weight saying I looked better and healthier. So what's with my husband?

2007-03-09 09:58:10 · 18 answers · asked by Jennah C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im tall and skinny. i have long blondish hair. i have greensish brown eyes. not ever very pale.... usually have a tan. jw

2007-03-09 09:57:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i wrote about the husband who walked out and landlord that is going to evict us. i have been monitoring the replies and i tried to put it all in order now i am just ready to stop everything. i cant do it anymore and i really dont want to. mu kids say it isnt my fault but i feel that it is and i know that i cant go on. so what do i do if i just want to stop EVERYTHING. i am tired of pain it needs to quit. and for those of yu that think most are jokes this is about as real as it gets. life isnt worth pain and god i guess is busy cause i keep trying that route too.

2007-03-09 09:57:48 · 20 answers · asked by wlfbelcher 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I live together. We have only been together 2 months and neither of us wanted to live together this soon, but there were circumstances beyond our control that 'caused this to happen and we are making the best of the situation.
We have been having some problems and I think I may have come up with a solution.
He doesn't come to bed with me on weekdays because I go to bed early because I get up early. So, I'm willing to be ok with it if he will come to bed 2 nights. And I'll stay up later on the weekend.
I think that at MOST, we should have 2 nights of just him doing his thing and me doing mine. And one of the nights, I think he should go stay the night at his cousins about 2 hours away.
He wants to have more responsibility when it comes to my kids, so I'm willing to let him get up with them on sunday and take them to school 2 days.
Do you think there are good compromises? I'm trying to save our relationship because he is the best thing to happen to me.

2007-03-09 09:56:22 · 1 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

okay, how do u break people up? i need some things that people do to break up a person... here is the story
if u go to my profile, check a ques. i asked ( Embaressing or what?)
now i like that guy, so we both like each other. but the problem is he has a gf he doesnt like and she doesnt like him... so my best friend is breaking them up but everything we tried did not work, but she is beginning to think about breaking up with him...
we have tried stuff like: he doesnt like u anymore, and he is flirting with girls a lot ( he flirts with me A LOT).
i really need good ideas that u think will work, DONT EVEN GO SAYING, " YOU SHOULDNT DO THAT, IT IS WRONG", just dont write it... and if u cant help just dont answer, dont even write, " THANKS FOR THE 2 POINTS." please dont.

2007-03-09 09:56:16 · 19 answers · asked by rebel5689 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and him are friends but didn`t talk that much. Now Iknow that he likes me and at first i didn`t like him any more than i did but now me and him talk alot an he flirts and i like him too. He doesn`t know yet and i want him to ask me out first os what should i do.There is a 2 grade difference.

2007-03-09 09:56:06 · 8 answers · asked by Jordan 1 in Singles & Dating

Yesterday, a girl that I think likes me, just mumbled to herself when was the math assignment was due. I look at her and she asks me. I said tomorrow probably (we might have a sub tomorrow). She then closes her eyes and smiles. Explanation? Today she asks me what was the assignment because she didnt have her glasses. I thought why didnt she move up or ask someone else. Why didnt she do any of those? Does she like me? Does she like my attention?

2007-03-09 09:55:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this instructor who works at the local gym, Whenever i go there, he always chats to me for about 45 mins to an hour on a one to one about all kinds of stuff, he always asks me to go in when he is working, he tells me the times of when he was working and asks me to go in and see him. He came into the gym looking for me once too. He has given me compliments and also walked me to my car the once, and I never notice him talking to any other girls! He had a girlfriend when we first started talking, but has recently split with her, only a couple of weeks ago, and he told my friend that he knows that i like him and that he doesnt want to lead me on, so now I'm really confused, it really seemed that he liked me, could it be he's gone a bit cold on me cuz it's too soon for him? do you think he was attracted to me at all? I mean, i think there must have been a little chemistry between us for him to devote so much of his attention on me!

2007-03-09 09:54:07 · 12 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

There's nothing I love more than to be snuggled up to a strong man - and I mean a proper man! Now all I see are guys who gel their hair, act like pansies and wear pink shirts!

Call me fashioned but I prefer to be the feminine one in the relationship.

Anyone else agree with me? Or are you all going to type abuse at me?

2007-03-09 09:53:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay. my friend is really nice. shes sweet and she tells me everything, i tell her everything. but when it comes to hanging out on the weekends, she always turns me down, and she has a couple of girls over instead. this always makes me so mad. i never thought of it until yesterday when my mother pointed it out, but is she using me? i thought about it and then tried to make myself determine "no" but it didn't work so well. she did tell me yesterday of how when one of her friends was getting some girls together to go to a movie. the other girl named a few of the "cooler" girls at our school and my friend said "oh. dont forget lauren. shes so cool" so i thought she might like me as a friend as much as i like her. i really hope some body can help me figure all of this out before i spend to much of my life with the girl. thanks. (ps many times she has called me her best friend, if this is any consulation)

2007-03-09 09:53:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well about a month ago me and my best went to a b-ball game with our friends. we were sitting at a table and she was talking to her mom on my cell phone. her mom made her stay at her dads house cause her mom wanted to party and she kept asking her mom why, why, but why! so i told her to hurry and that i was gonna get in trouble because im not allowed to use my minutes! and she hung up on her mom and gave me the phone and when i tried to talk to her she told me off and she didnt talk to me for the rest of the night. so the next day she told everybody that were not talking. so i wrote her a letter so we could talk about it calmly and i asked for a truths and she went off and every other word in her letter was the f word and i wrote back trying to be nice and she said that she could hold a grudge. we havent talked in a month and i really miss her. its hard to go through high school without her. i made this dvd with all our pictures in it asking again for a truths. should i give it 2 her?

2007-03-09 09:52:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How many of you have good, true friends? people that you can share anything, and still feel safe with it?? i mean, not one of those friends that say they are true, but a REALLY BEST TRUE HONSTY TRUE FRIEND??? how do you thank them for always being there??

2007-03-09 09:52:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And she talks about revenge f*cking her ex and what she was wearing, and then after he never hears from her again?

Seriously, this girl seemed interested, then we met and she kept talking, even when I tried to control the conversation. She brought up "I wore a tank top and booty shorts".......And I did know she was attracted to me.....

She was also "testing the waters" to see if I was a player. I have no regrets over this, so if any of you self-professed dating gurus want to chime in, it best make sense.

2007-03-09 09:51:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 years old and I have a big forehead and it completely tears me apart. No boys hardly ever talk to me. For anyone that has a big forehead are you confident? and if so how do you do so.? Is there anyone out there that can understand why I have such low self esteem. I'm pretty everywhere else but my forehead. This just ruins me and I'm always crying over this. Im so sick of it.

2007-03-09 09:51:56 · 10 answers · asked by smfan 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 09:51:53 · 5 answers · asked by trathomas12 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 09:51:41 · 20 answers · asked by eddieann2705 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Blondes have more fun?
**or**
Brunettes do it better?

Which do you prefer?

2007-03-09 09:51:26 · 23 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Singles & Dating

My BF is very STINGY! - this making me literally go CRAZY!

I have been with him for last 3 years it's a long distance relationship and whenever I go visit him he tries to be very stingy.

At first I didnt bother because he lost his job and he had loans/credits/debts to pay - but he makes a really gud money n whenever I ask 4 somethin little such as Pen, Lip-Gloss or any other thing he makes excuses and try to get way.

The reason I stayed with him for such a long time because he loves me like anything...and I can say that because I KNOW.

Our romance is great- he is a package guys that every gal dream for ; he is smart, honest, funny, romantic, loving,soft-heart but He is overly STINGY and this things is literally making me go CRAZY!!

I have tried talkin to him but he alwayz get away and not admit that he is STINGY

I guess my question is: Should I dump him because he is too stingy.He even thinks 10 times before spending a even a DIME??

2007-03-09 09:51:15 · 11 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Singles & Dating

is this a cause from the divorce? and she threatened to kill herself. We have her in counsling and she still is a mope... any idea on how to help her boost in self-asteem?

2007-03-09 09:51:11 · 7 answers · asked by Q&A 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-09 09:51:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

someone i love everything about and they love me the same

2007-03-09 09:50:50 · 4 answers · asked by CrazyChic86 3 in Singles & Dating

my emails or phone calls?

2007-03-09 09:50:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well she wrote this about me on her myspace page. does she really mean it?


Its wat i Do So id always believed in, Fairy tales, with a prince charming just like you, that boy to love me just as me, that made me happy when I felt blue, i believed i found dat some1 who now actually did care, dat guy dat did treat me right, nd when I needed him he was their, i thought i found that boy dat never let me feel alone, found that guy who held me in his arms, and all the pain went away, I had found that boy that wiped away my tears, Made it feel that everything was going to be fine, promised we’d stay together through the years, he was someone i gave my heart to, some1 dat saw the right threw me, he came into my life nd gave me all i needed, for the first time ever i felt like i had succeeded, he showed me dat true love was real, had patients for me and my crazy days, made time stop with his eyes, he made me feel joy wen tears fell from my eyes, hours on the phone id spend with him, he cared for me with such trueness, treated me the so perfect, Never would let me cry, Always on ma mind day nd night, I hadnt realized i found true love, i never would have guessed, but now I c its true love, wed spend hours on the phone, cuz when i wasn’t with him I felt alone, he made me feel so useful, always happy and so loved, dat night he held me in his arms, dat night he said he loved me, that be their tell the end, hed call me his good luck charm, nd id thank God for sending this angel from above, he told me hed never leave, made me smile wen eva i was down, he helped me again to breathe, those nights wen i would weep, I use to believe fairy tales weren’t true, But now I do believe in fairy tales Because my prince in shining armor is you I LOVE YOU BABY!!!

2007-03-09 09:49:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont wear hollister or abercrombie or american eagle. i wear Gap, Aeropostale, Old Navy and other brands. i am smart but also kinda ditzy. last year i was a BIG dork, but i changed and i am soo pretty this year. in history our teacher was giving us team names, and she coouldt think of one for our team, and a popular yelled out " they should be the DORKS!!" and people started laffing. like i am really quiet around people. and stuff. i hang aroud with dorks, maybe a fewwww populars. what is the popular peoples problems??? they can be really dumb most of the time. i am nice to them, but they dont seen to appreciate it. and i am kinda just A LITTLE bit pudgy, but nothing too noticable. and i know overwieght people dont get automatically classified as a dork. is there a saying or something tht says "once a dork always a dork"?

2007-03-09 09:48:48 · 24 answers · asked by ummm....i dont know! 3 in Friends

So I deciede to jump on a dating cite. He wanted the split more than me. Well anyways I jumped on a dating cite to check it out and ended up meeting some really nice guys. We ended up getting back together but it still seems the same, fighting not spending time together. I am wondering if I should keep in contact with these couple of guys I meet. I am having a feeling we will be fighting soon. We only go about a day or two without fighting. I am the one who mended the relationship and now am feeling I might have done the wrong thing. I don' know should I try and work it out?

2007-03-09 09:48:45 · 13 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 09:48:29 · 8 answers · asked by idk 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-09 09:47:06 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 16 years old and have only had one boyfriend ever.i dont feel pretty and i have been told a couple times that i am but i dont know if it was like out of pity.please on a scale of 1-10 tell me what you think i am and why..honest answers please

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2007-03-09 09:46:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 47 and another relationship has ended. I was with him for two years and engaged. He ended it and I am alone again. I am so sad and jealous whenever I look in peoples windows that have homes and families and look happy. My life has been mostly like a nightmare. This time I thought the pain was going to end. But now all I want to do is sleep.

2007-03-09 09:46:48 · 11 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i've know abbey for so long..so it's kind of like we're sisters. but lately she's been acting like she's better than me..and it sucks. her mom thinks i'm a bad influence b/c my grades aren't as good as hers...and i asked her "how the hell does YOUR mom know MY grades?" and she goes "well i compare myself to you when i'm in trouble...cuz it makes me look better".

and abbey's more popular with the guys at school...while i am with girls. so she always rubs it in my face how "millions of guys asked her out" today and how "i'm practically one of the guys because i don't know HOW to flirt". even when i'm around a guy..she'll say "just stop. you can't flirt"...just to make herself look funny. and i have this picture on my myspace..and she commented "i'm cracking up. you act like you're a model". so what do i do? everytime i talk to her..she says "omg i'm so sorry. i feel so bad". then does it again. so i need help. sorry this quesitons so long.

2007-03-09 09:46:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends