So I deciede to jump on a dating cite. He wanted the split more than me. Well anyways I jumped on a dating cite to check it out and ended up meeting some really nice guys. We ended up getting back together but it still seems the same, fighting not spending time together. I am wondering if I should keep in contact with these couple of guys I meet. I am having a feeling we will be fighting soon. We only go about a day or two without fighting. I am the one who mended the relationship and now am feeling I might have done the wrong thing. I don' know should I try and work it out?
2007-03-09 09:48:45 · 13 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweety do what feels right in your heart!!!!! I know how you feel im always the one who mend my relationship! Sometimes I feel like im the only one who is still in live so do what you feel is right!!!
Always Kimberly
2007-03-09 09:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is short and guys come and go. I have a couple questions for you and with this you will know the answer. ok
is it worth fighting every couple of day , who really and honestly starts these fights?
Are you really happy with him or is it that he is a comfort zone / security blanket?
when you talk to these other guys do you think of him?
Do these other guys make you happy and do you argue?
In every realtionship there are disagreements but do they get worked out or do they still linger in the future arguements?
and the MOST important Whats your heart say?
My personal opinion a realtionship should not be all fighting and by the way when you say fighting is this physical? If so run like hell it will not get any better only worse ! besides my favorite therory of all times is what my hairdresser told me one day as I was having male problems ! Life is too short to dance with ugly men and too long to be unhappy ! I wish you the very best .
2007-03-09 18:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by kbowers41 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok hear is a VERY important question I think you should answer for yourself...
Why do you feel the need to go from one relationship to the next???
No one wants to be alone but no one wants to keep dating people that don't treat them the way they want to be treated...
If I were you, I would take some time to really think about what you want in boyfriend...write it down on a piece of paper and put it some where you can read it everyday...then focus on your life and your goals and I'll bet you the guy you want will pop his head into your life ....TRUST ME!!!
one more thing...looking to the past when trying to plan for the future isn't the best idea...Always look forward never backward...
I compare ex's to Seagulls....they swoop in your life crap on everything then swoop out!!!
2007-03-09 17:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by Dave B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears to me that you have the feeling that may have done the wromg thing getting involved with the ex again. I would just end it once and for all life is to short to fight all the time. I would try hooking up with one of the guys you found on the site and see where it goes you just need a change. It sounds to me like you tried to mend things with your ex but he is not trying to change his ways to better the relationship.
God bless and Good Luck.
2007-03-09 17:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u talk/spend tim with these new guys more then ur b/f thats not fair to him. you can either ahev a serious talk about what u want and try to understand what he wants. Or you can break it off and persue the new guys. But holding him around as well as the new guys isnt fair to him and can only brign up more fights. Either loose your guy, or loose the new guys. ITs a bad combo to jugle though. Good Luck
2007-03-09 17:55:55 · answer #5 · answered by Robert T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess u r still sticking to him cauz of the bad experiences earlier and u r afraid of loosing a liitle good part in him. Move on gracefully. This is a mere wasteage of time.Trust me , u will find someone whom loves u soon.:)
2007-03-09 17:56:05 · answer #6 · answered by Samnita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, end it now. If you keep going with this it will be harder. Do it now while you are feeling this way. Why be with someone you are going to fight with all the time and be sad? Find someone that will make you happy. You deserve it.
2007-03-09 17:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by Mallory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you did the wrong thing, why not just tell him so and walk away?
2007-03-09 17:56:15 · answer #8 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end the relationship and then go on a dating spree...have fun
2007-03-09 17:53:53 · answer #9 · answered by cutie.sweetie.ellie. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on how you feel and the reason that you guys decided to try it again.
2007-03-09 17:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋