My BF is very STINGY! - this making me literally go CRAZY!
I have been with him for last 3 years it's a long distance relationship and whenever I go visit him he tries to be very stingy.
At first I didnt bother because he lost his job and he had loans/credits/debts to pay - but he makes a really gud money n whenever I ask 4 somethin little such as Pen, Lip-Gloss or any other thing he makes excuses and try to get way.
The reason I stayed with him for such a long time because he loves me like anything...and I can say that because I KNOW.
Our romance is great- he is a package guys that every gal dream for ; he is smart, honest, funny, romantic, loving,soft-heart but He is overly STINGY and this things is literally making me go CRAZY!!
I have tried talkin to him but he alwayz get away and not admit that he is STINGY
I guess my question is: Should I dump him because he is too stingy.He even thinks 10 times before spending a even a DIME??
2007-03-09 09:51:15 · 11 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have sacrifice with him almost about everything...I gave up my studies,my family,my friend...some of you might things I am crazy but thatz not TRUE - I just wanted to work things out with him...it seems every effort that I invested in this relationship is waste...because end of the day - he is same person...STINGY- I am very independent Gal and I dont need a man to support me but it hurts that he is always scared to spend even money little as a DIME!
My questions: I love him so much and he loves what should I do? Should I tell him not to be stingy?Should I tell him this isn't gonna work out?Should I tell him I have had it enough...Should I tell him I am overally frustated of his reaction toward money??? Pleasee HELP!
2007-03-09 09:55:23 · update #1
Tell him he taught you well, you're going be just like him and not spend one thin dime on him ever.
2007-03-09 09:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds Like you are in my shoes as well! I Cant tell you what to do but I have stayed with my man! He is stingy also but When I think about the bad things I always think of the good also! the good always overcomes the bad. After a while they will finally get the Pic huh?
2007-03-09 17:57:02 · answer #2 · answered by HunnyBunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hes the total package and you want to break up with him because he is stingy??? Hmmmmm......
Maybe he is VERY careful with his finances for a good reason. Maybe he isnt telling you something. Also he is in denial about being stingy. Thats like telling an alcoholic that they are an acoholic but they wont admit it.
2007-03-09 17:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give the relationship a chance, try to encourage sharing by sharing with him. It may develope into a bigger problem if you's get married in the future and rely on sharing of possesions and money.
Try talk to him but in a sensative way, nobody likes to hear their stingy.
Good luck, let us know what happens!
2007-03-09 17:57:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he was educated this way or a hard life made him so. I dont think you should leave him for this, specially if you say he loves you and so do you, but why dont you try talking with him about this?
2007-03-09 17:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by Karl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, i don't think he's into u like u stated....if u love someone dearly u will want to spend ur last dime on the person. so double check he's love. just dump him.
2007-03-09 17:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, if hes starting to become like that you should dump him and find someone new. Someone who isnt gonna be like that, you deserve better. Good Luck!
2007-03-09 18:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want him to buy you things or do you want his love? If you want him to buy things then yes dump him. If you want his love buy your own lip gloss.
2007-03-09 17:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by Pandora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no - dont - you'll find a fault with anyone you date!! nobody's perfect. maybe this is a good thing though but if it's really bothering you - have you talked to him about it?!
2007-03-09 17:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by ♪ Jackielynn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends.... Wuts his zodiac sign???
2007-03-09 17:55:20 · answer #10 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋