i like this instructor who works at the local gym, Whenever i go there, he always chats to me for about 45 mins to an hour on a one to one about all kinds of stuff, he always asks me to go in when he is working, he tells me the times of when he was working and asks me to go in and see him. He came into the gym looking for me once too. He has given me compliments and also walked me to my car the once, and I never notice him talking to any other girls! He had a girlfriend when we first started talking, but has recently split with her, only a couple of weeks ago, and he told my friend that he knows that i like him and that he doesnt want to lead me on, so now I'm really confused, it really seemed that he liked me, could it be he's gone a bit cold on me cuz it's too soon for him? do you think he was attracted to me at all? I mean, i think there must have been a little chemistry between us for him to devote so much of his attention on me!
2007-03-09 09:54:07 · 12 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely.
Go for it.
2007-03-09 09:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Blonde Ambition 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was probably interested initially, but after talking and interacting with you he figured out enough to know that he didnt want to pursue you any further.
It can be rough on the ego, but really... you wouldnt want to go after some guy who isnt into you.
Better to save your energy for someone is totally into you.
Also, be careful about mind f***ers... sometimes men play games to keep women dangling on a string. If this is the case you should probably check yourself (self esteem, empowerment, etc) to see WHY someone was able to take you on this ride... and so that you may stop sending signals that invite this type of thing. Good luck.
2007-03-09 18:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he older then u? if not that much GO FOR HIM! first u have to build it up in case he breaks u down. keep ur friend ship for a while and give him hints like checking him out. he will get the idea and Have Fun With Him!
2007-03-09 17:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by Elie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be because he just got out of a relationship. Or it could be that he just wants to be friends. Keep you mind open to the possibility of just being friends. Hey you never kno if it will turn into more.
2007-03-09 17:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you need him to wear a sign on his forehead or across his chest stating: "I WANT TO DATE YOU!!!" or something?!?
Can`t you take the hint girl?
Go ahead & ask him out for a drink or something but make sure you don`t end up being his rebound crush or anything.
Be careful & good luck!
And please don`t forget to keep me posted though!
2007-03-09 18:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by Devilish Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up to figure that out yourself.
What are you a little 8 year old girl wrapped in a 20 or 30 something year old woman?
2007-03-09 17:57:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
"and he told my friend that he knows that i like him and that he doesnt want to lead me on,"
Reads as I'm not interested in more than casual.
Sorry or not.
2007-03-09 18:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by Wonka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you but not for a relationship yet, or ever.
2007-03-09 17:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure
2007-03-09 17:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he thinks that your dumb and he doesnt want to get in an accident.
2007-03-09 17:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋